OK ladies help me figure this one out…

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Last week I get a call from my ex-gf who has been married for about 5 years. I have been married 5. We talked from time to time about things and kept open but restrictive lines since we parted about 6 years ago.

She calls me up and tells me that her mother wants to see me. She has been getting mail to her house with my name on it. The mother works about 10 min from my Brooklyn place so I said, sure no problem. The mother was always cool plus it’s always good to see how she is doing.

I meet up with them and since it was the mother’s dinner break we go to an Italian restaurant. We are sitting there talking about the people we both know and the mother starts asking me about my marriage. I tell her that it’s fine but could be better. Sounds like a normal marriage. So here the questions start coming again about my marriage. Look I have problems but nothing that is catastrophic.

The mother excuses herself and goes back to work leaving my Ex and me to hob knob. This is what comes out.

Her husband is respectful, caring, polite, and worships the ground she walks on. Makes a statement that he is the opposite of me. He makes love to her in bed and she wants to get fucked. Hasn’t “came” in 5 years from him. I could get her off at least 3x in a session. She told him about this and dropped my name because she wants him to do it the way I did. Big fight in her house.

She is considering divorce for the sole reason that there is no “electric” between them. This is SEX only! Everything else is fine. That I should leave my wife because I want to and not for her. HUA??

Also, the mother tells her that if she sleeps with me it’s not cheating. Then tells me that she is not sure if we should ever get back together.

Where is she going with this and what the hell took her there?

It turns out that they have already had fights about ME in their house. He even accused her of cheating with me and told her it was OK. I told her that if that were me they would be cleaning her blood of the walls. Worships the ground she walks on? I said to her that this guy sounds like a pussy. Then she defends him.

WTF! I am lost! Is she a “friend”? I have no idea what the hell happened all of a sudden.

 

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Oh yea, she’s incredibly hot and I look like a train wreck most of the time!

 

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I hear you on that but I am damn curious how the hell this came about? What is the “female” thinking process behind this?

I am just lost…

 

[spin721]

Hey man....you had better turn and run!
Think about it....if she is willing to cheat on her husband now....then divorce him...what is to say she won't pull the same shit with you?!?!?

Don't even think about this. Cut her off! Enjoy what you have with your wife and thank God you do not have a wife that is out doing that type of shit behind your back.

 

[FitFossil]

... What is the “female” thinking process behind this?

I am just lost…

This is not normal "female" thinking. No matter what the gender, it sounds like an incredibly immature and needy person who's only looking out for themself and always wants whatever they don't have. And seeing that the Mother is in on it makes it even scarier.

Take Spin's advice and RUN!

 

[velvett]

Are your sneakers laced up yet?

 

[flexygrl]

LOL @ Velvett. Turn tail and run and never ever look back!

 

[Scarlett33]

Yep, stay away from that mess. How weird that she has her mom in on it too.

 

[vixenbabe]

LOL@Velvett...

IF the daughter is anything like the mother( train wreck waiting to happen by the sounds of it) I'd run like hell from that family!

Change your phone number while you're at it too!

 

[NoDaddyNo]

Sounds like someone that reads the boards. If not, send them over here. This is after all, where all the insane people with computers congregate.
If not insane, then at least mentally unstable and codependant.

 

[doubles1]

do you feel like leaving your wife though...whats wrong with your marriage...how old r both of you????

doubles..

 

[Heahy Minister]

Bro you need to stay FAR away from this chick and everyone else associated with her! Avoid her at all costs! She'll only take you down if you continue to have any kind of relationship with her.

What if her husband tries to cap your ass because he thinks she slept with you?

 

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do you feel like leaving your wife though...

No no no… She’s a pain in the ass but in a good way.

I’m 34 my wife is 27. Been married about 6 years. Was a bitch getting the rattle out of her hand! : ) Normal wife. Racks up the cards, drives me nut. All the normal things you would expect.

The reason why I even posted this is because it was totally out of the blue. Yes, there is some truth in her being out for #1. She told me that her hubby is taking on a new job and that if he doesn’t impress his bosses he’s out on the street in 3 months.

I kind of feel bad for her husband. That’s what I have been thinking about for the last 2 days.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

She is a psycho. I have alot of experience with these types. Haul ass! Any involvement with her will not be in your best interest.

 

[Raina]

What a nutbar. Tell her to buy a battery operated friend and take care of herself if getting off is so important to her. What a bitch to say that to her husband too. If you want something new from your partner wouldn't you just bring it up in a fun/flirty/sexy way vs harsh criticism? That's no time for name dropping at all.

I'd say stay far away from her. And her mom approves? Do people just not take wedding vows seriously at all or did hers include the words "can fuck a married ex if my husband isn't getting me off"??