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its all up to her and the more you act opposed, the more she will convince herself she wants it. I'd be supportive and say "If you need to get implants to feel pretty and proportioned, that's what you have to do"....but if she has body dysmorphia and plans on getting these huge melons, its best if you oppose it and preferably find a female friend she respects to back your side up. I have implants because I was a small b or maybe a big a...I'm 5 2 with a tiny waist and a black girl booty, so a flat chest didnt flatter me at all in clothing. Maybe she feels the same. If you can't win this one, try to minimize the damage. Your new comments should be : the implants could be fine, but it would be a shame to ruin your cute little body with big, fake melons...you will regret it one day. .....guide her into a smaller implant size, something that looks natural. Also, after her consult, if she really is as big as you say, the implants would be what...150cc? the doctor may think its not worth it for such a small change and hopefully he shows it on his face. Good luck. I hope she stays natural looking. I'm now a large D with 300cc implants but I don't look fake at all...so there is hope her body wont be ruined.
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ALIN
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Tough call. If you have a good relationship and have trust I wouldnt worry about the extra attention. Women crave that anyway.
Ok I will throw in...
#1 - they never feel natural no matter how good the implant let's not split hairs on that. They may feel better than the ones of years past but if you have a particularly attraction to the feel of them then an implant is not the same.
#2 - Good points from Superqt...there are different ones that require different care later and will also make a difference on size/shape/feel.
#3 - Breasts sag over time due to ligaments not the breast fat tissue/size itself. In fact usually the smaller the breast the less age/time/gravity will create that situation. Also if you get a bigger implant at a younger age the likelihood of that "Sag" occurring as you get older increases. They can only anchor the darned things so much and ligaments are ligaments ... they stretch and lose elasticity with gravity and age.
#4 - Even the most confident woman has at some point had issues with her breasts, butt, etc - pick one of those things that guys and the social media focus on...women are complicated (and let's leave it at that as I doubt its pertinent to most on this thread).
#5 - They will NOT look natural as she ages...the natural shape of a woman's breast is to teardrop as they get older assuming all else is good (eg ligaments in good shape, etc)...having kids, etc will affect this as well but in the best of all worlds that is the natural shape of a woman as she enters late 30's and 40's. Implants look nothing like that - they are anchored and therefore keep that more bubble shape. I travel a lot and something I find interesting is the # of women in the US who are 35-45 and get the breasts done and opt for an implant versus in Europe where they are also getting "Work done" but they are just getting a lift. They maintain the teardrop and natural look and feel by doing so and only affect the issue of "Sag" (ptosis is the scientific reference for it).
#6 - In agreement with the fact you should not try to tell her she cannot do it anymore than you should be telling her she must do something. But also agree that in a partnership one would hope that candid conversation and sharing of opinions is a good thing and that often that process yields a much more grounded decision than one left to the devices of our own often completely biased "egos" (the human ego needs a check and balance...)
Good luck.
#1 - they never feel natural no matter how good the implant let's not split hairs on that. They may feel better than the ones of years past but if you have a particularly attraction to the feel of them then an implant is not the same.
#2 - Good points from Superqt...there are different ones that require different care later and will also make a difference on size/shape/feel.
#3 - Breasts sag over time due to ligaments not the breast fat tissue/size itself. In fact usually the smaller the breast the less age/time/gravity will create that situation. Also if you get a bigger implant at a younger age the likelihood of that "Sag" occurring as you get older increases. They can only anchor the darned things so much and ligaments are ligaments ... they stretch and lose elasticity with gravity and age.
#4 - Even the most confident woman has at some point had issues with her breasts, butt, etc - pick one of those things that guys and the social media focus on...women are complicated (and let's leave it at that as I doubt its pertinent to most on this thread).
#5 - They will NOT look natural as she ages...the natural shape of a woman's breast is to teardrop as they get older assuming all else is good (eg ligaments in good shape, etc)...having kids, etc will affect this as well but in the best of all worlds that is the natural shape of a woman as she enters late 30's and 40's. Implants look nothing like that - they are anchored and therefore keep that more bubble shape. I travel a lot and something I find interesting is the # of women in the US who are 35-45 and get the breasts done and opt for an implant versus in Europe where they are also getting "Work done" but they are just getting a lift. They maintain the teardrop and natural look and feel by doing so and only affect the issue of "Sag" (ptosis is the scientific reference for it).
#6 - In agreement with the fact you should not try to tell her she cannot do it anymore than you should be telling her she must do something. But also agree that in a partnership one would hope that candid conversation and sharing of opinions is a good thing and that often that process yields a much more grounded decision than one left to the devices of our own often completely biased "egos" (the human ego needs a check and balance...)
Good luck.
medi3val
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I know it's an old thread, but since it was bumped I will add my life experience.
My entire life, every couple I had ever met where the woman got a boob job, they divorced. Every. Single. One. So... along comes my turn. My wife and I were somewhat newly wed, and pretty happy. We'd been together for two years and she starts talking about boob jobs. She had tiny A tits, so it's somewhat understandable from her point of view, but this was my fetish. I like tiny tits. They make a woman look young.
Anyway, long story short. She gets the boobs, and within 18 months we're divorced. Coincidence? Maybe. Maybe not.
My entire life, every couple I had ever met where the woman got a boob job, they divorced. Every. Single. One. So... along comes my turn. My wife and I were somewhat newly wed, and pretty happy. We'd been together for two years and she starts talking about boob jobs. She had tiny A tits, so it's somewhat understandable from her point of view, but this was my fetish. I like tiny tits. They make a woman look young.
Anyway, long story short. She gets the boobs, and within 18 months we're divorced. Coincidence? Maybe. Maybe not.
