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need some good stress relief....

PHATchik

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I need a really good stress reliever. Night before last, I got really upset (won't go into reasons why) and went and bummed a cigarette off a girl. I don't even smoke! I think it's a nasty habit! But anyway, she went outside with me to smoke one too. I ended up smoking 4 of the things. Let's just say I paid for it later by getting extremely queasy. :( Lately, there has just been so much crap to deal with. Last night, I went out and smoked 2 cigarettes! Bummed off the same girl. I refuse to get addicted to those nasty things. And I most certainly do not intend to start smoking. What are some good stress relievers?
 
I've been stressed out to the point that I started smoking again after having quit for 7 years. I don't want to pick that habit up again because it was damn hard to stop the first time. Anyway, I think sex is the best stress reliever. Other than that - have someone give you a back rub. That usually helps, or a hot bath/shower (sex in the shower optional). :)
 
Jimsbbc said:
I've been stressed out to the point that I started smoking again after having quit for 7 years. I don't want to pick that habit up again because it was damn hard to stop the first time. Anyway, I think sex is the best stress reliever. Other than that - have someone give you a back rub. That usually helps, or a hot bath/shower (sex in the shower optional). :)

I have decided that it would be way too easy to get hooked on the things. And you have no clue how much I would just love a good back rub right now. Those always relax me.
 
A smoke once in a while won't kill you, I do admit to enjoying them tinny cancer sticks...but like you said don't ever make it a habit
 
Have you tried meditaion, babe? It's a very relaxing. Once you get used to it, you can focus your mind, take a few deep breaths and you're instantly de-stressed. It's very cool.

Working out helps a lot too. When I've had a bad day, I pump some iron. Makes me sleepy and helps to burn off negative energy.

Oh, and orgasms are great stress releivers too. Just, fyi. :D
 
I can never clear my mind enough to try meditation. I am always thinking about something. And yeah, working out does always help. Strenuous activity is always good.
 
Be careful with those things... I remember the 'I'm not addicted' line.

The next thing you know you're on the side of your house smoking one down... by yourself. Then you know you're in for it.

I smoked for 7 years. I finally was able to quit on the first of the year. You don't want to go through that shit. Smoking may relieve your stress now... but it's just setting yourself up for much bigger stress. Quitting... talk about stress. Hearing your doctor tell you that your smoking has caused terminal lung cancer... that would be stress beyond any imaginable experience you are going through now.

Sex or masturbation is a great stress reliever.

Aside from that... when you get stressed, take the time to concentrate on your breathing. Take very deep breaths, on a count of 1-10, deep, into your diaphragm deep. If you take the time to actually do this... your breathing will calm you.

Leave the cancer dicks alone. At this time, you should consider that chic that gives you the dicks equal to Satan.

And no, I'm not joking.
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Actually, mediation isn't that hard.

About the only thing you really focus on is your breathing. Try reading "Awakening the Buddah Within" by Surya Das. It's a great beginners book for meditation...and the techniques are simple yet highly effective.

I'll hit you up on AIM once I get home from work.
 
Taps said:
Actually, mediation isn't that hard.

About the only thing you really focus on is your breathing. Try reading "Awakening the Buddah Within" by Surya Das. It's a great beginners book for meditation...and the techniques are simple yet highly effective.

I'll hit you up on AIM once I get home from work.

I'm not sure what time I will be back in tonight. I'm headed out in a bit. And you never got back online last night mister! Your half hour turned into a few!
 
PHATchik said:
Thanks for the reality check Crazier.

Thanks PHATchic... it will never be easier to say no to them nasty things than it will be tonight.

Each day leads you closer and closer to that point of addiction.

Today is the furthest you'll be. Tomorrow, you'll either be one step closer... or one step further.

Breathe girl. And when you do, think of how nice it is to be able to do so without coughing up flem or blood, without gasping, without wheezing... enjoying all this fresh air, without having a trach in your throat and an air tank rolling beside you.

Without saying no, in enough time... that is the fate of a smoker.

Oh hey... you may try some St. John's Wart... it's pretty damn cheap, and makes you pretty relaxed... may be worth a shot!!!
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PHATchik said:


I'm not sure what time I will be back in tonight. I'm headed out in a bit. And you never got back online last night mister! Your half hour turned into a few!

Actually, it was more like 1.5 hours, but yeah I'm scum. :( Sorry babe.

I know you'll probably have a few puffs tonight...but please try not to smoke more than one or two, ok? Sick Phatchik is not good.
 
Well after leaving earlier all upset as you prob remember, I just went to the stupid Mall and walked around browsing for an hour, then best buy, then another mall where my old store was but I saw that old bitch of aboss and it made me angry so now Im back to ground zero..Alchohol certainly doesn't work, its only gotten me into trouble...Herb and the gym are alls I can think of however day off of gym plus a shitty shiotty day = bad mojo
 
PHATchik said:
I can never clear my mind enough to try meditation. I am always thinking about something. And yeah, working out does always help. Strenuous activity is always good.

i think its supposed to help clear your mind :)

89if im stressed i pace up and down until i have mentally resolved the matter. it helps

or i watch TV

or i go do some bag work. that makes you really angry but it gets all the stress out of you




(men suck fyi, just remeber that and your expectations wont be so high :) )
 
danielson said:





(men suck fyi, just remeber that and your expectations wont be so high :) )

People fucking suck in general, women are just as bad....hey at least she wouldn't rather be dead then stressed, I sure wouldn't mind
 
Austin316 said:


People fucking suck in general, women are just as bad....hey at least she wouldn't rather be dead then stressed, I sure wouldn't mind

yeah people do. but thats all the more reason for you to pick yourself up and live life better than them
 
Austin316 said:
Everytime I pick myself up I just get kicked the fuck back down, i feel like just staying down

you cant stay that way though, dont give whoever pissed you off the satisfaction. im not exactly one to talk, physically and mentally i may be strong but socially im a coward....but you cant spend all your time expecting nothing out of life and bitter due to the insecurities and prejusice of lesser minded people. if you're going to excel in life you've gotta reach for it.

(i dont know what your going through so im not the best person to comment so dont get offended :) ).....dont spend ti in your room getting frustrated, get out and do something, take your mind of it and go from there.

and don't try to find solace in alcohol, as you never will
 
Ive tried the alchohol thing twice, first time made me pass out in a club and had to get carried out and all this other shit, second was fine till I sobered and crashed, started punching things then just broke down

I have been getting out, as long as im occupied Im ok but when Im back to being alone I get this way
 
Austin316 said:
Ive tried the alchohol thing twice, first time made me pass out in a club and had to get carried out and all this other shit, second was fine till I sobered and crashed, started punching things then just broke down

I have been getting out, as long as im occupied Im ok but when Im back to being alone I get this way

then dont drink.

if you dwell on things it will swallor you up, your not alone in that. just keep yourself occupied and take it one day at a time. if its as bad as you say it can only get better :)

night dude :)
 
Actually, you all, I haven't taken a single puff tonight. Woo hoo. Go me. I was, however, told by a good friend that I was an angry bitch this weekend. I really didn't appreciate that and had a few words to say to him. :angel: You know, it's tempting to go have a cigarette tonight, but I am not going to do it. However, I would go for a really good back massage right now. No second thoughts at all. ;)
 
spatterson said:
Back in college my personal recipe was:

A stupid-funny movie (like Airplane, Ferris Bueller, etc...)
6 Crab rangoon
6-pack of bottled beer
5 of my favorite magazines

...and the house to myself.

I absolutely love Crab rangoons. Some of those would be so wonderful right now also. Too bad, it's almost 1 a.m. Sigh.
 
i think cigarettes are better after smoking weed and/or drinking. i don't smoke cigarettes regularly, i'll prob have like 1 a week or less avg.

if you want good stress relief, smoke some marijuana. no addicting nicotine too!
 
I won't touch weed at all. Never have, never will. As far as drinking goes, I think it is a very bad idea to try to drown your sorrows. It is very rare you will see me drink period. THe most I ever have is one if I do touch it. In fact, the last drink I had was a Smirnoff Ice at the beginning of March. I'm determined to cut alcohol out totally. And I am succeeding.
 
PHATchik said:
I won't touch weed at all. Never have, never will. As far as drinking goes, I think it is a very bad idea to try to drown your sorrows. It is very rare you will see me drink period. THe most I ever have is one if I do touch it. In fact, the last drink I had was a Smirnoff Ice at the beginning of March. I'm determined to cut alcohol out totally. And I am succeeding.

why would you n ot touch marijuana?
 
DcupSheepNipples said:
A little DP should un-stress you!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

You sick fuck. You get karma for that. :D

Phat, babe, good for you....stay away from booze and the like.
 
Taps said:


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

You sick fuck. You get karma for that. :D

Phat, babe, good for you....stay away from booze and the like.

Taps, my dear, you and I are going to have a long talk about you just disappearing on me. A girl does not stay up and talk with you only for you to just vanish into thin air. lol A long talk mister. Very long. ;)
 
Oh, go smoke a joint and chill out. :D

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Sorry babe, my pc went totally shut down...didn't mean to leave you hanging.
 
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don't sweat it Taps, you weren't the asshole, that be me tonight, well then again I had no control of myself for a few hours it was ridiculous, beating up my poor wall and hand... why the hell aren't u on AIM mofo?
 
Sorry man, I'm on my roomates laptop. He doesn't have AIM...

My at home PC went kaput a few days ago. I'm getting a new one ASAP.

Dude, you should go to bed already. Staying up all night isn't healthy. (then again, look who's talking) Don't worry about being an asshole...it happens to the best of us. :)
 
PHATchik said:


Actually, you all, I haven't taken a single puff tonight. Woo hoo. Go me.

You know, it's tempting to go have a cigarette tonight, but I am not going to do it. However, I would go for a really good back massage right now. No second thoughts at all. ;)

Way to go PHATchik!!! That's awesome girl. It will get easier and easier for you each day you go without one... the hardest part was tonight.

It doesn't sound like you are very informed on marijuana though... and that is most unfortunate. It can be a very spiritual, stress relieving experience. It isn't a drug you use to 'get fucked up.' That's the misconception the non-smokers have about the drug... simply because it's called just that... a drug. They categorize it with crack and meth because the government tells them to.

Not realizing that the government made pot illegal beginning in the 1930's because illegal Mexican immigrants were selling pot, lots of it... and they were making a profit. A profit the government couldn't tax. That couldn't stand.

Hemp is also very useful in other areas... it's a shame we can't use one of the Earth's natural resources. We could save our forests, by making paper from hemp. Clothes would also be cheaper.

But see what the problem is? You could grow the pot or hemp in your backyard... corporation's would lose money, therefore the government will lose money.

The day the government figures a way to make a profit from the 'drug', they will no longer consider it criminal activity, and it will be sold on every street corner in America...

You think not? Then explain how alcohol, which causes more fighting/family probelms/ alcoholism / health problems, and cigarettes, which kills more people in a year than the next 3 reasons of death in America combined together are justifiably sold on every operational corner of the U.S.?

Ah... because Uncle Sam has found a way to make a fuckload of money off these products.

Unbelievable. Let's not be sheep and take another popular reason pot was illegalized in the 30's... and that is that is makes white women sleep with black men.

The above are all facts.

Another fact is that over 300,000 people are sent to jail in America for marijuana use every year... when they are otherwise good, family, business oriented members of society. Their lives get taken away from them for a victimless, much more harmless drug than you and I can buy on every street corner, so long we pay a hefty tax for the two of course.

Good job on not smoking girl... sorry about the rant... very touchy subject with myself.
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Buy yourself one of those Water filled Base, Heavy bags and keep in in the garage or closet... They can be moved/rolled around easily when tipped

When I get frustrated, I go out and kick the crap outa mine, and yell and cuss like I'm beatin on whatever made me upset....

cheap therapy for $99...

It's a lot better than beating up my wife, dog or myself...
 
Taps, you are excused this time. I'm sure you'll find a way to make it up to me. :D

And Y-Lifter, that's not a bad idea. Too bad I am a poor college student that can't afford it.

Oh yeah, and Crazier, once again, I feel very informed. My mind isn't changed about my own personal use, but I still feel very informed.
 
dont drink, smoke or do any drugs. be like me :insane::silly:
 
PHATchik said:


That's really comforting. :angel: ;)

:lmao:

over here when people drink they aim to get absolutely plastered. and i dont have the money to drink like crazy. and im insane :p :silly:
 
danielson said:


:lmao:

over here when people drink they aim to get absolutely plastered. and i dont have the money to drink like crazy. and im insane :p :silly:

I agree with you wholeheartedly on that last one. But I won't hold it against you. :p :)
 
PHATchik said:


I agree with you wholeheartedly on that last one. But I won't hold it against you. :p :)

:( :lmao:
 
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