Need advise..

[theoak01]

for hitting her you should do what me and my uncles did my my aunt's ex,roll up there and beat the snot out of him then when the cops get there say you came to help her get out of the abusive situation and he tried to assault you so you used the force nessecary to protect yourself

worked for us

just a though

 

[tomcat]

I sincerely doubt that this dude just started acting whacky.
She should have seen this coming, and unless she likes guys like that, should have got out of the relationship before it got this serious.
It's too late to get out easy now. She and you need help from either the Cops or a few Big Ass MoFo's...
Either that or Move your ass across country..

 

[karson]

dude

dude if you read my post you known Im one to stand up for myself and friends, but in this situation if she doesnt want to help her self by avoiding him and calling the cops, then why should you get involved. Now the beer bottle calls for an ass kickin and it sounds like you already are involved so find him and punish him so bad he never even wants to think about you again. do that or just walk away from the whole situation.

 

[Freak Show]

I HATE CRAZY FUCKS LIKE THIS. First, let me say I'm praying for you. You need to distance yourself from both of them. Not the most humane thing to do, but sometimes you gotta look out for yourself. Don't try to be her savior. if this dude is fuckin crazy he just may pull something. i've had similar run-ins, not this bad but, the best thing I could have done was just go away. On the flip side, you shouldn't have to pack up and move or something like that just cuz of one unstable fucker. That's where I don't have an answer for you. sorry. From everything you've typed, this guy sounds deranged. And his girl sounds a little troubled too. All I can really say is that if he gets in your grill, COME OUT SWINGIN, AND DON'T STOP TILL HE'S NOT STANDIN. Is he calling you? I had a guy do that. I finally lost it, went fuckin nuts and told him to get his ass over here and settle it now. He never showed. Most don't. if he does, read my signature line.

 

[DIESEL_5]

the problem with this dude is that he is wacked in the head. if he were at least halfway normal, you could go beat him to a bloody pulp and not have to worry about much. but he sounds pretty unpredictable. if he has no value of his own life, i'm sure he doesn't value yours much either. if you know any cops, have them fuck with him. a restraining order won't do shit. if i were in this situation and didn't know any cops that could fuck with him, i'd get guerilla-style on his ass and attack the fucker while wearing all black with a ski mask or something to cover your face and no witnesses. who knows, if he's so suicidal, he may even like it. hehe. if you really want revenge for what he did, you gotta bring yourself to his level.
as for the girl, don't let your emotions get the best of you (as they already have....now you're involved with this freak too), be her friend, give her advice, but if she doesn't want to leave, then there's not much you can do.