my wife's ex-husband is about to get his ass stomped

[abolish the weak]

I've had enough of this. My wife has an ex husband who is a complete nutcase. Everything started off fine, he paid my wife $400/month child support, and got his daughter every other weekend, and every Wed. Well, over time he quit sending money, he'd sign her daughter up for shit like swim lessons, then come back and say "Well it cost this much for this, so you wont be getting anything this month. They had liberal rights set up after the divorce, that is terms on which both parties can agree on. Well, the guy slowly starts finding ways to get his daughter more, almost 5 nights/wk. I kept telling my wife to put a stop to it, but she just didnt want to cause problems b/ of the kid. Then her 7 yr old started coming home w/ bruises on her. They'd mostly be on her ass, but almost lacerations and bruises so bad she couldnt sit down. He would do this because he didnt think she ate her food fast enough, nothing more. Then, it got to the point where he started insulting my wife via phone conversations, coming over here when I was at work and harassing her and calling her a bitch. Well, the last time she came home, I saw the bruises and said enough is enough. We called the sherriff's dept, and contacted DSS. Now he's fucked! So we are sitting here waiting on a court date. In the meantime, he goes down to DSS office, and they dont tell him what he wants to hear, and shows his ass so bad he gets thrown out and almost arrested. Then, after being told not to come near here, what does he do? Drives over here and bangs on my door, AGAIN when I'm not home, fucking coward!! My wife was terrified to answer the door and my step daughter was curled up in a corner hiding saying "please God, dont make me go back there, please God, dont make my daddy do this" I've stayed cool about everything, I have not threatened him, I have not contacted him, I've dealt with it all legally. I'm having a restraining order put on his ass today. If this guy comes back over here he's leaving in one of two ways, handcuffs or a stretcher, I'll let him decide.

 

[BNG]

It sucks you have to do this but don't let up. A restraining order is a good step but call the cops every time he starts shit even if he just drives up and sits outside your house on the street. Get the paper trail started. Did DSS document the bruises? Has he hit your wife?

 

[bw1]

Keep your cool bro, I know he needs his ass stomped but if you do that you'll be fucked. Sounds like you have enough on this guy to keep the kids away from him and out of danger. Good Luck, courts could be fucked

 

[jh1]

Hindsight is 20/20, but if my duaghter came home with bruises -

1) Get a order of protection is #1 IMO. For a child your attorney can arrange an emergency hearing.

2) Contact DSS.

3) Most likely wait for both the above to resolve then seek changes to custody based on substantial and continuing change of circumstances. You could file whenever you want here, but they most likely wouldn't decided until the above items were settled, and without the above items settled in your favor - you may not be able to demonstrate a substation and continuing change of circumstance.



.... the money and the visitation can be delt with later... that has nothing to do with nothing at this point.

 

[zsp2133]

definitely stay the course your on, you dont need the trouble this guy is bringing on himself. he is definitely digging his own grave on this one. your daughter should never have to deal with an asshole like that.

 

[abolish the weak]

no, he's never hit my wife before, if he did he would be in a body bag by now. Thing is, I never wanted the guy to not be able to see his daughter, until I started realizing how scared his own kid was of her father. She keeps asking my wife if she can call me dad, thats kind of pitiful. She'll slip up and tell the other kids "thats my dad, he's a bodybuilder" hahahha

 

[gonelifting]

definitely stay the course your on, you dont need the trouble this guy is bringing on himself. he is definitely digging his own grave on this one. your daughter should never have to deal with an asshole like that.

Yep, and the 7 yo doesn't need TWO men behaving irrationally. Be the good guy in her eyes. Don't give her something terrible to remember. Children don't differentiate between 'good violence' and 'bad violence'. It's just 'violence' to the them. She's had enough of it. You're doing a good job. It IS the right thing to do.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I hope to God that the system WILL work for you and your family so that piece of shit ex will not be able to have contact with the child.

Don't lose your cool - EVER... It could bite you in the ass even though the guy NEEDS a proper beat down.

You are a good man. There are VERY FEW who would last in a similar situation. Just TRY and remain calm. If you are as big as I think you are it really could hurt you if the ex *wises* up and starts throwing allegations towards you.

My ex used to be a REAL jerk in court/public etc too until he got smart and learned to control himself. We got a new judge (that is a fucking nutjob himself) and from that point on it was a slippery slope downhill.

Just remain calm and focused. I wish you nothing but happiness and (someday) peace.

 

[Turd Ferguson]

I dream about beating my ex-wifes boyfriends ass. But I would never want to put my kid through anything like this to to justify it. Karma is a bitch in the end. He gets his punishment living with her crazy ass.

 

[jh1]

I dream about beating my ex-wifes boyfriends ass. But I would never want to put my kid through anything like this to to justify it. Karma is a bitch in the end. He gets his punishment living with her crazy ass.

And poking said crazy ass... over and over while she screams his name and cuddles his nutz with her hand.

 

[string_bean00]

And poking said crazy ass... over and over while she screams his name and cuddles his nutz with her hand.

lol


that's fucking harsh bro

 

[jh1]

^ Bro I bet the base of his shaft is wide and it really streches the bung hole when he buries it.

 

[jh1]

LOL.... That's the type of shit that I wake up thinking about.

 

[string_bean00]

if I ever get dumped or break up with a girl im not telling jh1 because he'll make me cry

 

[string_bean00]

LOL.... That's the type of shit that I wake up thinking about.

LOL

 

[jh1]

Accelerates putting the truth behind you.

You can lie to youself and say he isn't owning that ass like you did, but you know he is.... fuck if I had Kim eating other chics out... he's prolly got her eating two chics out.... while he violates her asshole....

 

[binö]

tase this fucking tool

 

[string_bean00]

Accelerates putting the truth behind you.

You can lie to youself and say he isn't owning that ass like you did, but you know he is.... fuck if I had Kim eating other chics out... he's prolly got her eating two chics out.... while he violates her asshole....

I know what you mean, I always think of that sick shit after a breakup, and I always up my steroid dose at the same time. dbol or tren really helps in a case like that. you feel like god and don't worry about it anymore

 

[Tytan]

Keep your cool, and watch your back. I think you are handling this matter in the best possible way. Unfortunately, restraining orders don`t work. They only infuriate the person being served. You should tell your wife to change up her daily routine, so she isn`t home alone if he comes over again.

 

[Turd Ferguson]

^ Bro I bet the base of his shaft is wide and it really streches the bung hole when he buries it.

For starters the holyist of all wholes is uncharted for ever with her, outside a stinky pinky. Plus I am so over wasting my time thinking about what he does to her. I care very little. She fucked up not me so why pine over it. When I'm getting something on a regular basis that is 10 x the women then it will all be just a shame.

 

[jh1]

For starters the holyist of all wholes is uncharted for ever with her, outside a stinky pinky. Plus I am so over wasting my time thinking about what he does to her. I care very little. She fucked up not me so why pine over it. When I'm getting something on a regular basis that is 10 x the women then it will all be just a shame.

OH?

Pics of said woman. Please?

 

[abolish the weak]

So the SOB keeps on!!! He goes to my step daughters school to try to pick her up. Luckily it was a half day for them and she was not there. He probably could have gotten her otherwise, because the dumb fucks dropped the DSS investigation about the child having bruises and more or less slapped his wrist and said" dont do it again" So in a way it's good, because now we can get a court date, we could not while the investigation was under way. So, after he goes to the child's school, the fucker drives back to my house and bangs on the door, AGAIN WHEN I'M NOT HOME!!!! Chicken shit coward that he is. This was at about 2:00p. I'm out of town for the afternoon, I'm on my way home around 5:00 and just missed the little pecker head for the second time this afternoon. This time he sat out in my front yard waiting, and then called my wife and left nasty messages on her phone. She calls the police again, 4th fucking time they've been over here for this crap!!! They take a report, he's getting issued a restraining order tomm morning. I think he's calling my neighbor to find out when I'm home and when I'm not, I have a feeling he is because my next door neighbor used to work for him. The guy's wife even calls and leaves a message on my cell!!! My wife is scared out of her mind, she hasnt eaten anything all day, she's smoked about 50 cigarettes, and stays at her mom's house when i'm not here. Unfortunately I'm gone 2-3 days/wk for my work and cant be here everyday. have a feeling he'll come back by tonight when he suspects we'll be home. My wife and even the police say not to answer the door. Here is where I disagree. There is no man who is going to keep my family or me fearful of opening our own front door and walking in our own yard. Cops can kiss my ass on that one, NOT HAPPENING. Fuck the police and DSS, they wonder why shit goes down the way it does, this is why. #1- dropping an investigation because your probably tired of paperwork? #2-The guy lives in a different county, my county sherriff's dept. must be too damn lazy to contact his and have somebody go over there and speak with him, so he probably thinks he can keep coming back over here again and again because so far, NOTHING has happened!!! Anyways, he's getting served the restraining order tomm. he keeps his shit up he's getting served an ass beating. One where he gets hit alot more than he hits me. And they wonder why people say fuck it and just kill each other!!

 

[rnch]

take tomorrow off from work...park your car a few blocks down the street....

 

[Smurfy]

I've had enough of this. My wife has an ex husband who is a complete nutcase. Everything started off fine, he paid my wife $400/month child support, and got his daughter every other weekend, and every Wed. Well, over time he quit sending money, he'd sign her daughter up for shit like swim lessons, then come back and say "Well it cost this much for this, so you wont be getting anything this month. They had liberal rights set up after the divorce, that is terms on which both parties can agree on. Well, the guy slowly starts finding ways to get his daughter more, almost 5 nights/wk. I kept telling my wife to put a stop to it, but she just didnt want to cause problems b/ of the kid. Then her 7 yr old started coming home w/ bruises on her. They'd mostly be on her ass, but almost lacerations and bruises so bad she couldnt sit down. He would do this because he didnt think she ate her food fast enough, nothing more. Then, it got to the point where he started insulting my wife via phone conversations, coming over here when I was at work and harassing her and calling her a bitch. Well, the last time she came home, I saw the bruises and said enough is enough. We called the sherriff's dept, and contacted DSS. Now he's fucked! So we are sitting here waiting on a court date. In the meantime, he goes down to DSS office, and they dont tell him what he wants to hear, and shows his ass so bad he gets thrown out and almost arrested. Then, after being told not to come near here, what does he do? Drives over here and bangs on my door, AGAIN when I'm not home, fucking coward!! My wife was terrified to answer the door and my step daughter was curled up in a corner hiding saying "please God, dont make me go back there, please God, dont make my daddy do this" I've stayed cool about everything, I have not threatened him, I have not contacted him, I've dealt with it all legally. I'm having a restraining order put on his ass today. If this guy comes back over here he's leaving in one of two ways, handcuffs or a stretcher, I'll let him decide.

oh fuck yeah.

 

[jh1]

oh fuck yeah.

LOL.. wtf?

 

[Smurfy]

LOL.. wtf?

i mean good for him for busting the ex-husband and taking him to town on the bullshit he's been putting the little kid and the wife through.

i'm all for getting the bad guy.

 

[jh1]

i mean good for him for busting the ex-husband and taking him to town on the bullshit he's been putting the little kid and the wife through.

i'm all for getting the bad guy.

Totally... break out the tazer on him... right?

 

[Smurfy]

Totally... break out the tazer on him... right?

oh this douche deserves more than a taser. and you KNOW this, man.

 

[jh1]

oh this douche deserves more than a taser. and you KNOW this, man.

Oh someone that bruises up a child? OH hell yeah, nothing more deserving of a beating 4 sure.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Fuck the police and DSS, they wonder why shit goes down the way it does, this is why. #1- dropping an investigation because your probably tired of paperwork? #2-The guy lives in a different county, my county sherriff's dept. must be too damn lazy to contact his and have somebody go over there and speak with him, so he probably thinks he can keep coming back over here again and again because so far, NOTHING has happened!!! Anyways, he's getting served the restraining order tomm. he keeps his shit up he's getting served an ass beating. One where he gets hit alot more than he hits me. And they wonder why people say fuck it and just kill each other!!

I dont wonder my brother. Please take my advice and keep cool. I would HATE for that slimy piece of shit to have you over a barrel... If you live on the east coast and you harm him - YOU will get the shit end of it.