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I got a phone call from hubby this morning and my 6 yr old was crying her eyes out saying she did not want to go to school. She said this little boy has been picking on her and she doesn’t want to go to school to see him. She told me the other day that he was being mean and she didn't want to go to school. I guess yesterday he was doing it again and being a big meanie. My daughter is real sensitive so she didn't want to go deal with it again today. I finally got her calm enough to go to school when I told her I would talk to her teacher about the boy.
It breaks my heart that she is 6 and getting picked on :( Kids are so mean! I told hubby though that it could be a 6 yr old boys way of saying he likes her so he picks? What do you guys think? My daughter is a real pretty girl, nice, dresses nice,etc so I can't see anything negative about her that they could pick on her for. I seem to think maybe boys just do this to girls they are trying to get attention from. I know they do this when they are older, but not sure if a 6 yr old boy is the same. I need to find a way to explain things to my daughter and get her to shake shit off. I don't like her to cry and be scared to go to school :(
 
I bet if she kicked him in the nuts the problem would be solved
 
needtogetaas said:
Kick him in the balls. Thats what I would tell my girl.
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My daughter is a red belt in Tae Kwon Do so trust me my hubby already told her to kick him in the head. lol I told him violence is not the answer. I am going to have her Master have a talk with her though to give her some tips on how to feel confident and not to let things bother her. Maybe he will have some words of wisdom for her :)
 
That sucks. Only one boy picked on me when I was a kid - and when he did I started crying, like SOBBING in the middle of class - the boy was scolded and it never happened ever again. I was very sensitive as a kid - and I still am kinda sensitive I guess.

I have no advice to tell you what to tell her to get through this - I dont have any kids sorry
 
cindylou said:
That sucks. Only one boy picked on me when I was a kid - and when he did I started crying, like SOBBING in the middle of class - the boy was scolded and it never happened ever again. I was very sensitive as a kid - and I still am kinda sensitive I guess.

I have no advice to tell you what to tell her to get through this - I dont have any kids sorry
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DROP THE ATTITUDE!!!
 
GUARDIAN said:
Quit coddling her!

























J/K
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No daddy was doing that. He wanted to keep her home with him he felt so bad. Mommy had to step in and have a talk with her and get her to go to school. Hubby then thanked me for my talk because I was able to get her over it and he wasn't so good at it. He just wanted to protect her. I want her to learn to deal with these things. :)
 
MightyMouse69 said:
little boys definitely tease the lil gals that they like, we keep doing it even when we grow up :)
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True! All the boys except Jack Sparrow this is all new to him. He has never heard of this happening. :rolleyes: lol
 
I tried to find it on youtube but a no-go

You should do like Rebecca de Morney in The Hand that Rocks the Cradle, when the kid is harassing the child Payton is a nannie for and Payton (rebecca) shows up at the school, grabs the kid and says something like "You fat little bastard, if you bug her again I'm going to kill you"

That put an end to that ;-)
 
She should kick him in the jugular:D








Seriously, most definitely the boy has a crush on her. Perhaps the teacher, or the boy's parents, can smooth out these episodes. I'm not sure how effective the Master's plea to your daughter for passive tolerance would be...that's something hard for *enlightened* adults to manage.

So cool that your daughter is a red belt, though:)
 
cindylou said:
That sucks. Only one boy picked on me when I was a kid - and when he did I started crying, like SOBBING in the middle of class - the boy was scolded and it never happened ever again. I was very sensitive as a kid - and I still am kinda sensitive I guess.

I have no advice to tell you what to tell her to get through this - I dont have any kids sorry
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My daughter is the same way. She is so sweet, shy, and quiet. She gets her feelings hurt very easily. I am trying to get her to get stronger and worry less of what others think,etc.
 
blueta2 said:
I tried to find it on youtube but a no-go

You should do like Rebecca de Morney in The Hand that Rocks the Cradle, when the kid is harassing the child Payton is a nannie for and Payton (rebecca) shows up at the school, grabs the kid and says something like "You fat little bastard, if you bug her again I'm going to kill you"

That put an end to that ;-)
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You do realize, I am truly in love with her for life!
 
BlueBird said:
She should kick him in the jugular:D








Seriously, most definitely the boy has a crush on her. Perhaps the teacher, or the boy's parents, can smooth out these episodes. I'm not sure how effective the Master's plea to your daughter for passive tolerance would be...that's something hard for *enlightened* adults to manage.

So cool that your daughter is a red belt, though:)
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She looks up to her Master so maybe it will help just to have a little "don't be afraid of that boy" talk :)

Yeah she will test for her black belt in October. She is preparing for her test now. She loves TKD, but the poor thing is so shy she would only use what she knows if she really needs to. Which is good! I wouldn't want her kicking everyone's ass just because she knows karate. lol. She will be the silent, but deadly type ;)
 
silverstar1025 said:
She looks up to her Master so maybe it will help just to have a little "don't be afraid of that boy" talk :)

Yeah she will test for her black belt in October. She is preparing for her text now. She loves TKD, but the poor thing is so shy she would only use what she knows if she really needs to. Which is good! I wouldn't want her kicking everyone's ass just because she knows karate. lol. She will be the silent, but deadly type ;)
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I'd tell her to go all Bruce Lee on his bitch ass.
 
jack sparrow said:
I'd tell her to go all Bruce Lee on his bitch ass.
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lol I don't want any trouble, but I always tell her if someone ever hits her first she has the right to kick their ass :)
 
silverstar1025 said:
She looks up to her Master so maybe it will help just to have a little "don't be afraid of that boy" talk :)

Yeah she will test for her black belt in October. She is preparing for her test now. She loves TKD, but the poor thing is so shy she would only use what she knows if she really needs to. Which is good! I wouldn't want her kicking everyone's ass just because she knows karate. lol. She will be the silent, but deadly type ;)
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Oh, yes, agreed, a talk from anyone she respects will help! She sounds like a great kid with a benevolent nature...you guys must be raising her right :)
 
BlueBird said:
Oh, yes, agreed, a talk from anyone she respects will help! She sounds like a great kid with a benevolent nature...you guys must be raising her right :)
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Well she always writes about me in her journal at school so I think I must be doing a good job as a Mom :)
 
Don't you have a boy too? Remember that episode of The Brady Bunch where Peter kicked that kids ass for picking on Cindy?
 
jack sparrow said:
I say send her to school with a few throwin stars and that kid will change his tune right quick.
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lol she has a Bo staff and nunchuks, but they are padded. lol
 
jack sparrow said:
Don't you have a boy too? Remember that episode of The Brady Bunch where Peter kicked that kids ass for picking on Cindy?
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Yeah I remember. I have two girls and this one is the oldest. The almost 4 yr old should have no problems though she is not shy and is fearless. She will probably stand up for her big sister when she is in school with her. lol
 
silverstar1025 said:
lol whatever!
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Does this little boy wear a Nike T-shirt a lot?
 
silverstar1025 said:
My daughter is a red belt in Tae Kwon Do so trust me my hubby already told her to kick him in the head. lol I told him violence is not the answer. I am going to have her Master have a talk with her though to give her some tips on how to feel confident and not to let things bother her. Maybe he will have some words of wisdom for her :)
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You and your man are such good parents for having her in TKD. Bless her heart. I'll be thinking of her today. That's so hard :(
 
exactly why i won't allow my child to go to public school, sorry, my 1st 2 went through the public school system, and this one will not, not even private school..

Girls have a deep desire to be liked and accepted, this little boy is nothing more than a product of his environment, and he is lashing out.

Can you protect her?? no, she needs to toughen up.. sorry..
 
see this is why I can't have children.............especially a little girl..........I'd be so overprotective that I would probably drive her to do porn by the time she turned 18. Much respect for anyone raising a child in this society....it's got to be a pain in the ass. Kids learn alot of shit from their shit parents, than go to school and put that shit on each other.........it's like you have to unlearn them from new behaviors every day that they pick up from households other than your own.....total uphill battle. .

Kudo's to you for having her in TKD.......that's AWESOME!!
 
SpyWizard said:
exactly why i won't allow my child to go to public school, sorry, my 1st 2 went through the public school system, and this one will not, not even private school..

Girls have a deep desire to be liked and accepted, this little boy is nothing more than a product of his environment, and he is lashing out.

Can you protect her?? no, she needs to toughen up.. sorry..
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private and public schools are no different dude.......she might actually get a better head start on the "realities" of life in a public school. Private schools are sheltering yet have the same dynamics between children as public schools.........so you don't grow up learning how to deal with it early on
 
redsamurai said:
private and public schools are no different dude.......she might actually get a better head start on the "realities" of life in a public school. Private schools are sheltering yet have the same dynamics between children as public schools.........so you don't grow up learning how to deal with it early on
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i didn't mean to say private schools.. i don't like private schools either.. although that seems to be where i stopped typing..

as soon as a parent allows others to enter into the life of the child the child begins to learn from them..

I know the position of many "educators" and i will not allow that type of drival to be taught to my child as fact..

thus home schooling is the only..

now.. anyone want to argue the facts of socialization??
 
I'd allow her to kick his ass.

Here's the thing. IF you call the school. They'll give you some BS story that they do not see this happening( or need proof). Chances are, if HE is the first to hurt her, the school will say they did not see it happen.

IF, HEAVEN FROBID, the school wants you to meet with the parnents, they'll be some real jerks and bullies JUST like the kid.

Yep, I lived this crap once, and Bri knows to just kick ass from now on. Sorry, but the bullies have MORE rights than our decent kids do.
 
sit her down and tell her this:

"We do not train to be merciful here. Mercy is for the weak. Here, in the streets, in competition: A man confronts you, he is the enemy. An enemy deserves no mercy."
 
By the way...I had the above issues when we sent our lil girl to a PRIVATE Catholic school where it cot us close to 5000 grand a year for the above BS to take place.

Soooo, private school has just as many rotten kids as the public. Actually, I think they have more brats since all the public schools have kicked these little terrors OUT so the parents had to shell out for private. Well, this was the case with my daughter's BULLY.
 
SpyWizard said:
i didn't mean to say private schools.. i don't like private schools either.. although that seems to be where i stopped typing..

as soon as a parent allows others to enter into the life of the child the child begins to learn from them..

I know the position of many "educators" and i will not allow that type of drival to be taught to my child as fact..

thus home schooling is the only..

now.. anyone want to argue the facts of socialization??
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I wont argue the socialization thing as long as you dont throw them back into the public school system in high school when it gets too hard. pick something and stick with it i say.

i dont mean you in particular either - just generally
 
vixensghost said:
By the way...I had the above issues when we sent our lil girl to a PRIVATE Catholic school where it cot us close to 5000 grand a year for the above BS to take place.

Soooo, private school has just as many rotten kids as the public. Actually, I think they have more brats since all the public schools have kicked these little terrors OUT so the parents had to shell out for private. Well, this was the case with my daughter's BULLY.
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+10. After being raised in the catholic school system...........I will not subject my kid to that ever again. Granted, I'm not going to send a child to some public school where metal detectors are a necessity at all entrances.........but a public school in a good community IMO, is the way to go.
 
silverstar1025 said:
Yeah I remember. I have two girls and this one is the oldest. The almost 4 yr old should have no problems though she is not shy and is fearless. She will probably stand up for her big sister when she is in school with her. lol
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It was this way with my girls. The second would defend ANY underdog with unbelievable ferociousness from the time she could practically walk/talk.

Your daughter will be fine. The boy's teasing might not even be so bad (but do try and find out what he said that made her so upset) but as you said, your daughter is sensitive. And yea, I am guessing that he actually likes her.

Kudos to you for not coddling her and teaching her to stand up for herself!!! We can't always be with our kids so that is the best course of action.

You guys sound like excellent parents. :)
 
curvymommy said:
You and your man are such good parents for having her in TKD. Bless her heart. I'll be thinking of her today. That's so hard :(
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Thanks! Yes, in this crazy world we live in we want them to be able to protect themselves!! Plus they are cute girls so if girls want to start crap with them when they are older because of their looks then they will see what will come to them. :evil:
 
redsamurai said:
+10. After being raised in the catholic school system...........I will not subject my kid to that ever again. Granted, I'm not going to send a child to some public school where metal detectors are a necessity at all entrances.........but a public school in a good community IMO, is the way to go.
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I'm a product of the private Catholic school system. I got a very good education while there. However, that was a time where the nuns could beat our asses for being liltle shits. Trust me, I got my knuckles whacked far more than most kids. It's changed since those days....We need to go back...IMO.
 
silverstars girls are about as adorable as they come. See star, this is why I told you I couldn't have children........I'd be marching into school to strangle some little shit that probably just has a confusing crush on a little girl and doesn't know the birds and the bees yet.
 
silverstar1025 said:
I got a phone call from hubby this morning and my 6 yr old was crying her eyes out saying she did not want to go to school. She said this little boy has been picking on her and she doesn’t want to go to school to see him. She told me the other day that he was being mean and she didn't want to go to school. I guess yesterday he was doing it again and being a big meanie. My daughter is real sensitive so she didn't want to go deal with it again today. I finally got her calm enough to go to school when I told her I would talk to her teacher about the boy.
It breaks my heart that she is 6 and getting picked on :( Kids are so mean! I told hubby though that it could be a 6 yr old boys way of saying he likes her so he picks? What do you guys think? My daughter is a real pretty girl, nice, dresses nice,etc so I can't see anything negative about her that they could pick on her for. I seem to think maybe boys just do this to girls they are trying to get attention from. I know they do this when they are older, but not sure if a 6 yr old boy is the same. I need to find a way to explain things to my daughter and get her to shake shit off. I don't like her to cry and be scared to go to school :(
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if you want you can borrow my 10 yo son and he will straighten out that 6 year old real quick... lol. my son sticks up for the girls all the time. i taught him well. i even told the story about this girl that lived around the corner, she had a severe cleff lip and all the boys would pick on her. until my son knocked one of them on his butt cause he wouldnt stop. no i dont condone violence but there comes a time when enough is enough.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
It was this way with my girls. The second would defend ANY underdog with unbelievable ferociousness from the time she could practically walk/talk.

Your daughter will be fine. The boy's teasing might not even be so bad (but do try and find out what he said that made her so upset) but as you said, your daughter is sensitive. And yea, I am guessing that he actually likes her.

Kudos to you for not coddling her and teaching her to stand up for herself!!! We can't always be with our kids so that is the best course of action.

You guys sound like excellent parents. :)
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Thank you :) I just got off the phone with her teacher and she is going to talk to both kids alone. She did say that she was surprised because Ashley and this boy usually get along so well and she thought they were friends. I think he probably just said something to her that hurt her feelings and since she thought he was a friend it hurt her. My baby is sensitive and cares a lot about what people think. I will talk to her again tonight when I pick her up.
 
bigmann245 said:
if you want you can borrow my 10 yo son and he will straighten out that 6 year old real quick... lol. my son sticks up for the girls all the time. i taught him well. i even told the story about this girl that lived around the corner, she had a severe cleff lip and all the boys would pick on her. until my son knocked one of them on his butt cause he wouldnt stop. no i dont condone violence but there comes a time when enough is enough.
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GOOD MAN!

We need more daddies like you on the planet.

Future daddies on elite... are ya'll payin attention here?
 
redsamurai said:
silverstars girls are about as adorable as they come. See star, this is why I told you I couldn't have children........I'd be marching into school to strangle some little shit that probably just has a confusing crush on a little girl and doesn't know the birds and the bees yet.
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Aww thanks :heart: Like I said though at least with them black belts I can worry a little less. I will never not worry though because I luvs them :)
 
we gots a bunch of catholic school kids in here!

get that boy transfered to St. John's. man i got my ass paddled for laughing in class much less bullying.
 
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