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jenscats5
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"Do you want to do "it"?"
Oh yeah, baby, that's sexy......
Oh yeah, baby, that's sexy......
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jenscats5
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Sugarplum said:
That's funny!!
What's even worse, is that before he asked, he was watching Playboy TV.....
Needless to say, I said "NO!" and he asked why not?? Duhhhhhh!!
Werd
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LOL My man used to say, "Honey, would you mind bending over right here?.... " usually on the stairs on the way up to the bedroom. He would bend me over and eat me for like.... forever. *sigh*
I LOVED THAT!! MUSIC TO MY EARS....
My all time fav though was, "Honey, would you mind very much if I ate your pussy?" and "Honey, would you mind very much if I ravished you?"
*sigh*
I LOVED THAT!! MUSIC TO MY EARS....
My all time fav though was, "Honey, would you mind very much if I ate your pussy?" and "Honey, would you mind very much if I ravished you?"
*sigh*
my honey says" lets play" or he will stick my hand on his area and smile coyishly
he has many methods of trying to get me to play.
recently i was put on an antidepressant and it has made both orgasming and the want to play kind of diminish or difficult. sucks actually
i get so frustrated the next time around thinking that it is going to take forever for me to cum so with that thought in mind and the pills doing their thing it becomes quite the tedious task on my mind.
he has many methods of trying to get me to play.
recently i was put on an antidepressant and it has made both orgasming and the want to play kind of diminish or difficult. sucks actually
i get so frustrated the next time around thinking that it is going to take forever for me to cum so with that thought in mind and the pills doing their thing it becomes quite the tedious task on my mind.
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jenscats5
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Werd said:
That's better than "You wanna do it?" at least...... Men!!
Werd
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LOL... Jenscat I wasn't complaining at all. I honestly enjoyed it when he used to say, "Honey, would you mind bending over a little bit right here?" Then he would eat me like nobody's business.
I could care less how he initiates sex. The act that follows is ALWAYS YUMMY.
My exhusband never had to initiate sex. I was too busy doing that.... and he was less than good. His cock got hard, yea and he wouldn't cum until I did first, but the fact that I got off every single time was no accomplishment for him as if the wind blows I am getting off... God was my exhusband TOTALLY inadequate in bed! If I ever get the chance and he finally stops obsessing with me and finds some poonani that is above the age of 21 I will take such pleasure in whispering in her ear, "So, did he learn to eat pussy yet?"
God, but I am bad.
I could care less how he initiates sex. The act that follows is ALWAYS YUMMY.
My exhusband never had to initiate sex. I was too busy doing that.... and he was less than good. His cock got hard, yea and he wouldn't cum until I did first, but the fact that I got off every single time was no accomplishment for him as if the wind blows I am getting off... God was my exhusband TOTALLY inadequate in bed! If I ever get the chance and he finally stops obsessing with me and finds some poonani that is above the age of 21 I will take such pleasure in whispering in her ear, "So, did he learn to eat pussy yet?"
God, but I am bad.
Puddles
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I prefer not to be asked at all, just start playing and one thing will lead to another. If for some strange reason I'm not in the mood, I'll let him know and vice versa. A nice way to say no without making him feel badly rejected is "Can we finish this tomorrow, I'm really tired (or I'm cramping, or whatever)." If you'd rather go this route, tell him.
If you prefer to be asked but in a different way than he's currently asking, tell him what you'd like to hear instead. Give him a few ideas.
Men REALLY like it when women initiate sometimes, so try to do that yourself once in a while. It makes them feel great! I think one of the most common things a married man will complain about is that their wives do not initiate sex. If you don't know what to do to initiate, just try telling him to take a shower because you're feeling frisky. It'll probably be one of the fastest showers he ever takes.
When he comes out, if he's not already sporting a boner, take him into your mouth to get him going, stop, and tell him it's his turn to return the favor to get your juices flowing.
If you prefer to be asked but in a different way than he's currently asking, tell him what you'd like to hear instead. Give him a few ideas.
Men REALLY like it when women initiate sometimes, so try to do that yourself once in a while. It makes them feel great! I think one of the most common things a married man will complain about is that their wives do not initiate sex. If you don't know what to do to initiate, just try telling him to take a shower because you're feeling frisky. It'll probably be one of the fastest showers he ever takes.
When he comes out, if he's not already sporting a boner, take him into your mouth to get him going, stop, and tell him it's his turn to return the favor to get your juices flowing.
Werd
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You should write a book Ms Puddles... LOL
I guess that I dont understand this complaint. Even though I am female, my drive is VERY high... Not a nympho, but when I am in a committed relationship (I was with my ex for 13 years - had several kids so I know all about life's ups and downs) I want sex practically 24/7. Heck barring illness I like to have sex no less than 6 out of 7 days.
My men dont have to initiate sex as I am the one 9 out of 10 times and I almost NEVER say no unless I am VERY ill. I'm a freak LOL
I guess that I dont understand this complaint. Even though I am female, my drive is VERY high... Not a nympho, but when I am in a committed relationship (I was with my ex for 13 years - had several kids so I know all about life's ups and downs) I want sex practically 24/7. Heck barring illness I like to have sex no less than 6 out of 7 days.
My men dont have to initiate sex as I am the one 9 out of 10 times and I almost NEVER say no unless I am VERY ill. I'm a freak LOL
brunette
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you know what Jen, are you eating any sex foods? like sunflower seeds? zinc rich foods?
if you are lacking, you're libido may suffer! maybe 'let's do it baby" may have garnered an enthusiastic response if you had the sex sex sex mindset. something to nibble on anyway.....zinc is KEY.
if you are lacking, you're libido may suffer! maybe 'let's do it baby" may have garnered an enthusiastic response if you had the sex sex sex mindset. something to nibble on anyway.....zinc is KEY.
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jenscats5
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brunette said:you know what Jen, are you eating any sex foods? like sunflower seeds? zinc rich foods?
if you are lacking, you're libido may suffer! maybe 'let's do it baby" may have garnered an enthusiastic response if you had the sex sex sex mindset. something to nibble on anyway.....zinc is KEY.
I can't eat sunflower seeds -- I'm not good breaking the shells apart with my teeth!! LOL What else has zinc in it?
No, it was the the way he asked that I didn't like......later on that evening we snuggled & hugged & kissed --> then did "it"
Sassy69
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Hmmm. I used to date a guy who ran a Scuba charter. We usually told everyone we were late to the BBQ because we were "washing our gear".
Don't laugh. If you want your life support system to work correctly, you have to maintain your gear.
Ahhhhh. Thank God for high Oxygen compressed air mixes!
Don't laugh. If you want your life support system to work correctly, you have to maintain your gear.
Ahhhhh. Thank God for high Oxygen compressed air mixes!
wend
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Dakotah said:
Dakotah, have you told your doctor about this unfortunate side affect? You might consider switching antidepressants. Psychiatrists usually know more about the various ones than family docs or ob/gyns (I don't know who wrote your script). Good luck. (How the hell are you supposed not to be depressed when you can't enjoy sex?!?)
I have the same scenarios with my hubby jenscats....I think that most men just think that if they swing their 'stuff' around we automatically get aroused. or if they make a 'suggestive' comment that we will immediately fall on the bed with our legs wide open. this is very frustrating for me because I need more than that. Maybe some sweet whispers in my ear, etc.
Dakotah.. I too had the same problem with antidepressants. I started with Zoloft and not that my libido was off the charts to begin with, but I had absolutely no intrest in sex or even just being around my husband. Then I switched Doctors and he switched me to Levellen, the side effects were not as bad but it took FOREVER to have an orgasm. This was not only frustrating for me but my husband as well. He thought he was doing something wrong, he wasn't! This frustration went on for about 2 years. So, i decided to get off the anti depressants all together. The decision was a good for me. However I lack the drive. All anti depressants have some effect on your libido, some worse than others and it depends on the individual as well.
A few years ago I was on a cycle of Deca, and I couldn't get enough...if only I could have that without taking a supplement like that!!!! Then it wouldn't matter how my husband approached me!!! I think I'll look into Zinc, anything at this point is worth a shot!!! I know it's frustrating for my husband and it's really frustrating for me!!!!!
Dakotah.. I too had the same problem with antidepressants. I started with Zoloft and not that my libido was off the charts to begin with, but I had absolutely no intrest in sex or even just being around my husband. Then I switched Doctors and he switched me to Levellen, the side effects were not as bad but it took FOREVER to have an orgasm. This was not only frustrating for me but my husband as well. He thought he was doing something wrong, he wasn't! This frustration went on for about 2 years. So, i decided to get off the anti depressants all together. The decision was a good for me. However I lack the drive. All anti depressants have some effect on your libido, some worse than others and it depends on the individual as well.
A few years ago I was on a cycle of Deca, and I couldn't get enough...if only I could have that without taking a supplement like that!!!! Then it wouldn't matter how my husband approached me!!! I think I'll look into Zinc, anything at this point is worth a shot!!! I know it's frustrating for my husband and it's really frustrating for me!!!!!
wend said:
Well i havent had the time to really get back to the doctor and say anything.
But i have been kind of focusing better during the intimate moments; Im not having the troubles as much anymore. It does take some serious mind setting though. I like the fact that my mood swings are down to a minimal now and that when my sweetheart leaves for work i dont feel like im losing my mind and fall into this depressed slump.
Things are looking up.
FigureSkater
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the whole "do it" phrase just reminds me of my high school kids I teach and the conversations I overhear them having...lol.
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