if you got it, you wouldn't be defending/deferring.
i haven't looked at your profile, yet I knew those things.
they are all things you've posted about, because you wanted us to know you are different. that you are smart and well educated. that you come from class and that you vollunteer because you're a good person. you posted pics so we see that not only are you all those things, but you are pretty too.
we all have SOME kind of agenda. that's yours, clearly.
and this thread, was another addition to it.
are you surprised that its so transparent that everyone here sees it except you?
you're a smart girl and all the people who didn't simply reply "oh, that's CUTE!" told you how transparent it was. so listen to them, or take your OWN advice and RELAX and have FUN. be witty and sweet if you want, but to get nasty just proves that you're pissed that people aren't behaving the way YOU want them to.