My girl is mad at me because....

[fistfullofsteel]

Re: Re: My girl is mad at me because....

Warik,

Logic and women don't mix.

yep it sure don't and neither with most bosses. stop trying to be a Vulcan and trying to apply logic to everything. Women and most bosses have their own set of rules. It's called I am right and you are wrong, even if you are right.

 

[saint808]

Tell her you're allergic to cigarrette smoke.

OR

Tell her, "I will not go clubbing in a box, will not go clubbing with a fox, will not go clubbing here or there, will not go clubbing anywhere. I do not to club lil mam, I do not like it, it's just who I am!"

 

[Jimsbbc]

Warik-

Suck it up and go. You will have fun (if you let your self). I used to luv going with my girl and dancing dirty - her rubbing her ass up and down on it. Yeah, that was fun. Then back to the house for wild crazy.........

 

[polarpixie]

I'm still shocked she refrained from asking you for 6 months!!
That just goes to show that she does respect the fact you do not like clubs, but since you have never been to one with her, I'm guessing she just wants, for once, to see what it would be like to go with YOU. I do not think she is going to roll her eyes, and get mad and exclaim, "Just Once?!?!". No. If this is the first time she has asked you in six months, she obviously isn't expecting you to change your ways and start a new weekly clubbing ritual. Trust me, she will be ecstatic if you agree to go with her once, and, TRY TO HAVE A GOOD TIME -- i.e. Do NOT sit there and whine and complain about how much you hate clubs the entire time you are there, just relax and enjoy the company of your girl, as you should, no matter what you two are doing.

Just my pov.

 

[BigGuns2]

Go clubbing with your girl. You may enjoy it once you get there.

 

[Frackal]

Go shake your booty warik.

 

[JohnyJuice]

Punch that bitch in the face. He-man would.

 

[bigguns7]

Just don't be surprised when you catch her fucking some dude who likes to go clubbing.

No, seriously. I dated a girl who I loved to death. I hate to dance, so when we went out and she asked me to dance, I always said no. Now this is going to sound stupid, but we broke up, and if you've been there, you know that you just start questioning all the things you could have done differently just to make her happier. So, I'm sitting there saying, "Would it have really hurt me to dance with her just once? I could have taken her to the zoo like she asked me to do so many times, etc."

I guess me point is, if you really care about her, at least give her the pleasure of going clubbing with her once or twice. Then you can site all the examples of things that happened that night that make you hate clubs. Or you might even like it. Either way, you'll be showing her that you care by sacrificing to make her happy, and she'll be much less likely to get mad when you don't ever want to go again.

 

[robby]

i'm in the same boat warik, i don't like clubs. but my wife likes
go to dance about every 2-3 months.she's got a friend who
likes to dance too, so, if my wife wants to go in a club, she goes
with her friend, and i spend the evening with my friends, point.
she's happy to dance and spend some time with her friend, and
i'm happy to have a good evening with my friends. i mean, in a
good relationship you should not do all the things together.

robby

 

[john937]

Yeah, I agree. Let her go to the club by herself or another guy,
and you sit at home wondering who's hitting on her. Perfect solution.

My advise, change your attitude. Don't think of it as "going clubbing" = standing around posing and getting drunk. think of it as going dirty dancing = extended psudo-sex body against body with your hot girlfriend.