My girl broke up with me tonight(my rant)

[needleboy]

BRO,

It's you who still sees yourself as the skinny high school kid, and you project that to other people most likely. Had the same kinda thing, the one day I said fuck how anybody else thins about me, but what I was really doing was saying fuck how I used to feel about myself, I am the shit now, and that's all there is to it. Pick your head up, look in the mirror, be proud of the person you are now, and begin to project that opinoin to other people, and that's how they will begin to see you.

Just remember be confident , but try not to act cocky!!

You need to work on your self-image- yours is the most important opinon!!!

Living well is the best revenge!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Milhouse]

Do things that make you happy, not so you can get revenge for how people treated you inthe past and how you percieve them now.It's ok to have started training for some kind of lack of confidence or body image problem ie too fat/skinny. But in the long term you have to do it for yourself because it makes you feel good. If your motivation for training and juicing continues to be those above factors nothing will make you happy and frankly you will probably give up working out somewher down the road.

Start taking care of yourself for yourself, stop caring what other people think.
Most chicks hate guys too who are always worried about what others think of them. I know you don't believe me because of your current experience, but the way you feel now gives a sign to others of no confidence.
And as long as you think that way, it doesn't matter whether you are 100lbs soaking wet or 300 lbs of muscle. Chicks and others will continue to walk all over you.

Someone needs to post that article by Henry Rollins about training and what it does for him. This guy needs to read that.

 

[Super Girl 22]

It's all apart of growing up and growing old. until you stop hanging out with people that bring you down, youll never get away from it [your past]. be thankful that you have changed and you're happy with the way you look now. post your pic on here, i'm sure you'll get someone who will appreciate you for you!

 

[kitKat]

VicTusDeuS,

In my humble opinion guys like you end up making the best boyfriends, especially once you get your head on straight (being confident). The reason I think this is because you know what it was like not living by your looks and having things handed to you on a silver platter instead you lifted yourself up by your bootstraps and did something to improve yourself. Now you have the looks but, behind the nice body you have a kind heart. Lucky girls! The right one is out there but until then have fun. Here is an eleven day early Happy Birthday!!

 

[Jax]

It's you who still sees yourself as the skinny high school kid, and you project that to other people most likely. Had the same kinda thing, the one day I said fuck how anybody else thins about me, but what I was really doing was saying fuck how I used to feel about myself, I am the shit now, and that's all there is to it. Pick your head up, look in the mirror, be proud of the person you are now, and begin to project that opinoin to other people, and that's how they will begin to see you.

needleboy has got it right. Everything needs to start with you...people tend to see you the way you truly see yourself . It's simply the truth. It's hard to change the way you look at/think about yourself, especially if you've been thinking a certain way for years. It won't happen overnight, hell I'm still working on it. It sounds like a paradox, but the only way to get people to have a better/different opinion of you is to STOP WORRYING what they think about you and just be the guy you want to be.

 

[Austin316]

I say you should move, I never got picked on either in HS, but I never made the effort to go out, party, be sociable, etc. That was my fault and I regret it. Problem is, now I don't know how to go about getting out there and doing shit, when school starts in a month Im gonna give it a shot, its just hard considering I live off campus, but Im not gonna do what I did last year