No bro. Your not gay.
When I was younger I never turned down ass. (not that I had a lot of offers though)lol
Now I turn it down all the time. (ok. its not like I get asked every day.) I could get all JerseyArt on you and say "I need to have a special bond and get that warm fuzzy feeling"ect. But, the truth be told....I now judge if I'm going to have sex w/a girl based not on looks, body, etc. But, based on how much shit I will have to put up with.
Biteme I know you will agree that when a girl says she just wants to be a fuckbuddy...that it wont work out and you will end up being a jerk no matter what you do. Or, if some hot crazy bitch says she justs wants to fuck you....You know that it will eventually involve a restraining order.etc etc
I came to the point if a hot girl walked up to me and asked for sex...I would be thinking I know I will have to pay for this some how. (through guilt, stress, or her bf she failed to tell me about)
Thank god I found the Cougars.