My friend is Transgender........

[jnevin]

you are such a angry person

No. I'm being realistic.

 

[EnderJE]

HAHAHA....true, It took me a while to find someone to love my freaky self

btw, how is your cat?

okay, i'll stop now.

 

[blueta2]

btw, how is your cat?

okay, i'll stop now.

my cats are all good

 

[blueta2]

No. I'm being realistic.

You're being real in your reality.
She was born a woman with male parts. The parts don't define who we are and how we feel.
Life is not that cut and dry

 

[patsfan1379]

so can we lock this stupid thread or what here

 

[redsamurai]

I agree that it should probably be put out on the table, but some of y'all are trippin when you say "I'd be devestated" or livid or whatever. Look, did someone "dupe" you into putting a sweaty cock in your mouth? No, yes it's "fake pussy", but so what? I'd be kind of mad if I was told later about it, and I probably wouldn't speak to the person again.......but bro's, life would go on, I wouldn't sweat it the day after. It's so........so..........nothing!! The only reason I'd react like some of you are suggesting is if I was lied to about an std or god forbid, HIV. Now then I'd kill someone. So let's put things in perspective. Some of you have hit plastic mold vagina's........so don't complain about a living warm wet hole. Like I said, you should always be upfront, no games. And there's alot of guys that would be like......"good lookin pussy I can't get pregnant?" shhhhwwwwiiiiiinnnngggggg!!!! See, there's some upsides to this y'all ain't thinkin about......

It's a deception, and it's just plain wrong. Think about the concequences if that person finds out the truth after being involved.



It very well could hurt someone if the truth comes out after the fact; would be mentally devastating to someone like me, and every straight guy I know. And depending on the situation of when that truth was revealed, the transgender who perpetrated the deception might get hurt physically.



Anyone who puts what they have to gain over the basic rights of another person...who throws common decency to the wind just to ensure they get more kicks...is a lowlife. People have a right to be given a reasonably accurate picture of what they are getting themselves into.

 

[patsfan1379]

lock it up

 

[jnevin]

You're being real in your reality.
She was born a woman with male parts. The parts don't define who we are and how we feel.
Life is not that cut and dry

Ok. So physically being born into the world one way isn't reality. Right.

Feelings and emotions are reality. Right.

So using that logic, all of the crazy homeless people out there that think they're Napoleon or some shit are actually right because that's their reality.

I learned a lot today.

 

[patsfan1379]

I am Cornholio

 

[musclemom]

No. I'm being realistic.

Technically, it's inappropriate to apply the term "IT" to any human. It implies a level of disrespect, such a term is dehumanizing, a la "it puts the lotion on it's skin."

Look, they've actually proven, with brain imaging, that the vast majority of transgendered people (and a large proportion of transvestites) actually have different brain structure and its congenital, meaning, they're born with it. They have structures in their brains that correspond to the opposite gender.

Now, lets talk about perception of self. What forms your self image? Is your self image based on what you see in the mirror? By the feedback you get from other people? By pictures you see of yourself? Uh uh, it's all in your brain. How you perceive yourself is what makes up your self image. Not how others see you, not even what you see in the mirror (as proven in extreme cases by anorectics and the broad spectrum of other body dysmorphias).

If your brain is telling you that you are a female, despite the fact you have a penis, despite what you see in the mirror, how fucked up is your life going to be? How can you EVER be a happy person?

Try imaging it this way (because I've noticed its common to some degree in a lot of men): We have TONS of guys on this site who are NEVER big enough, despite working out, eating big -- and actually BEING big -- in their minds they are STILL that 115 lb. skinny ass kid who got the shit kicked out of his ass on a daily basis. But at least they get something tangible, they can workout and log it and lift it and see progress, on paper they can remark, HEY, I'm benching 250 and last year I could only bench 200, etc.

What's the poor transvestite supposed to do? Your eyes and birth certificate tell you you're a guy, but your head is saying GIRL. Imagine what you would feel if you woke up tomorrow and LACKED that penis! How fucked up would you feel?

Nobody would CHOOSE to subject themselves to the genital reassigment surgery unless there was just no other solution.