My ex wants to give her another chance. Can people change?

[javaguru]

People can make changes in their lives but personalities don't change! Any change that is contradictory to personality will be a constant battle!

 

[monkey arms]

I would toss in towel on this one. You've obviously seen this thing through for many years and the fact of the matter is, she has some serious psychological problems. not some one you want to have children with, or spend the rest of your life with wondering which person you are going to wake up to from one day to the next.

You can still love her and she can still love you but that by no means that you should be together.

BTW what did her other eye look like, was it pretty too?

 

[LoneTree]

My ex wants to give her another chance = booty call

It's not that easy.
In my culture, we don't have casual sex.
She has tried to have sex with me several times.
Once you have sex with someone, you asume certain responsibilities.
She has forced herself in my house twice and I have to find an opportunity to lock her out.

 

[jerseyart]

BTW what did her other eye look like, was it pretty too?

 

[Evil_Frisky]

You are who you are... the addition of chemicals just mutes everything.

Love her for who she is... accept that there will be instability and that she will be the same woman that did all those crazy things on you or move on. There is no such thing as change. There is a such thing as acceptance which is what she has done, accepted that she has done wrong and wants to make things right. That doesn't mean that there will never be an outburst again. Just that she knows she has issues.

good luck darlin

 

[needtogrow]

stay away from her you will end back in the same spot your in right now. Your nuts if you even consider having kids with this crazy chick.

You should have known something was a miss with her when she only had one pretty eye. What happened to it you said she HAD, did she pluck it out during one of her fits

 

[LoneTree]

What bothers me most is this:
She, most likely, will never be able to get married again.
Her life would be wasted.
That's what keeps me awake at night.

 

[n0th1ng]

Whats all of this "in my culture" bullshit? Is that an American flag under your avatar?

 

[PICK3]

Whats all of this "in my culture" bullshit? Is that an American flag under your avatar?

Are you Amish?

 

[canadianhitman]

What bothers me most is this:
She, most likely, will never be able to get married again.
Her life would be wasted.
That's what keeps me awake at night.

What becomes of her is NOT your responsibility!!!!!!!!