So my ex-roomate has the typical convenient yet totally useless relationship with his nagger-bitch girlfriend who hes been with for the better part of a decade (7years). For some reason she picked now to press the marriage issue with him, to which he has been stalling and waffling on, because he doesnt have the balls to just tell her no point blank. Also he doesnt have the balls to break up with her, because a year ago he drove 4 hours to where she lived at the time for the explicit reason of dumping her and he still couldnt do it, which is pathetic. So last night I was back at his place fixing my computer and he mentions he is in counseling with his girlfriend, which makes me think he is whipped beyond all recognition because
A) If your girlfriend pushes you into relationship counseling in order to "work out" whether or not you want to get married, then its obvious it aint gonna happen in the first place.
B) If youve been together 7+ years and you are both well into your 30's, then you would have already gotten married since you are two very grown adults at this point in your lives and dont need massive amounts of time to "make sure this is the one".
Overall I dont understand how a man can get himself into this situation, or at least I dont understand how a man cant just get rid of his girlfriend when enough is enough already. I can understand women holding on to hope shit like this, since they have a lot of time/emotion/sex invested and need the big payoff (marriage). But stuff like this really makes men look bad, hes fucking 38!
A) If your girlfriend pushes you into relationship counseling in order to "work out" whether or not you want to get married, then its obvious it aint gonna happen in the first place.
B) If youve been together 7+ years and you are both well into your 30's, then you would have already gotten married since you are two very grown adults at this point in your lives and dont need massive amounts of time to "make sure this is the one".
Overall I dont understand how a man can get himself into this situation, or at least I dont understand how a man cant just get rid of his girlfriend when enough is enough already. I can understand women holding on to hope shit like this, since they have a lot of time/emotion/sex invested and need the big payoff (marriage). But stuff like this really makes men look bad, hes fucking 38!