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My ex-roomate is going to counseling with his.....girlfriend? WTF

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So my ex-roomate has the typical convenient yet totally useless relationship with his nagger-bitch girlfriend who hes been with for the better part of a decade (7years). For some reason she picked now to press the marriage issue with him, to which he has been stalling and waffling on, because he doesnt have the balls to just tell her no point blank. Also he doesnt have the balls to break up with her, because a year ago he drove 4 hours to where she lived at the time for the explicit reason of dumping her and he still couldnt do it, which is pathetic. So last night I was back at his place fixing my computer and he mentions he is in counseling with his girlfriend, which makes me think he is whipped beyond all recognition because
A) If your girlfriend pushes you into relationship counseling in order to "work out" whether or not you want to get married, then its obvious it aint gonna happen in the first place.
B) If youve been together 7+ years and you are both well into your 30's, then you would have already gotten married since you are two very grown adults at this point in your lives and dont need massive amounts of time to "make sure this is the one".
Overall I dont understand how a man can get himself into this situation, or at least I dont understand how a man cant just get rid of his girlfriend when enough is enough already. I can understand women holding on to hope shit like this, since they have a lot of time/emotion/sex invested and need the big payoff (marriage). But stuff like this really makes men look bad, hes fucking 38!
 
I already did. Hes too far gone into his relationship for any single website to pull him out of his relationship stupor.
 
Besides, that nomarriage.com website is rather asinine at best. There is shreds of truth to it, and exponentially more bitterness.

But yeah, I agree, if the woman is a bitch and he allwos himself to be pwned by her, then he has some self-esteem issues that need to be worked out.
 
7 years?

How old is she?

Has he ever been married before?

38 - yah that is pathetic - as is sticking around with someone for 7 years. I would think that 7 years would be a big enough hint.
 
velvett said:
7 years?

How old is she?

Has he ever been married before?

38 - yah that is pathetic - as is sticking around with someone for 7 years. I would think that 7 years would be a big enough hint.

No offence Velvett, but why do women think that because they "stuck" with you for any period of time, that you "owe" them marriage??

Some act like they didn't get anything outta the releationship or something.
 
TC2 said:
No offence Velvett, but why do women think that because they "stuck" with you for any period of time, that you "owe" them marriage??

Some act like they didn't get anything outta the releationship or something.
He doesnt owe her marriage, he owes her the long overdue next step, which can only be either marriage or cut her loose.
 
superdave said:
Also he doesnt have the balls to break up with her, because a year ago he drove 4 hours to where she lived at the time for the explicit reason of dumping her and he still couldnt do it, which is pathetic.

Shoulda introduced him to text messages........clean and easy hehehe. Then text a locksmith to change the locks........text your lawyer to get a restraining order........
 
I couldn't agree more. My last gf of 7 years tried to talk me into counseling; I thought this woman is insane....this clearly isn't working. She was 44 and I was 38 and we'd been living together 5 years.
 
Imnotdutch said:
Shoulda introduced him to text messages........clean and easy hehehe. Then text a locksmith to change the locks........text your lawyer to get a restraining order........

lol....."welcome to dumpsville, population=you"
 
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