Seems sorta contradictory. I mean, if someone has information that is of value, not something that they learned in a classroom, but something that they learned over their lifetime and have tested out after having interviewed thousands of people from all walks of life, all over the globe then what could be the issue with that?
LOL
You are just scared of being happy... then you wouldn't bitch near so much and you are afraid that you would lose your appeal as one of elite's lovable rogue bachelors!