No problems here with being with a woman who makes more than me. As long as we get along. In fact, if a couple got married, it seems like the man would have a better chance of not getting screwed over if they divorce.
And the fact that someones girl/wife/trim might make more than them is a problem? I don't see why it would be or should be. Maybe for a chauvanistic (sp?) insecure guy. Maybe that is unconventional traditionally speaking but who gives a shit. Lay back, appreciate and enjoy their success.
My fiance makes about 40% more than me, and I kind of like it. We're going into a marriage in which she has a wad of cash in the bank, and I have a minute nestegg.
It's nice, because most of my friend's girlfriends are spending them out of house and home, with no regard for the value of a dollar. My fiance is at the other end of the spectrum, I'm the one doing all the spending.