Meeting someone single....

[PBR]

all these threads about cheating, leaving another person for someone else and so on....QUESTION:
When was the last time YOU met someone that came into your life romantically- that you were completely alone with NO ONE in your life?

my guess is a very very small percentage.

 

[stilleto]

all these threads about cheating, leaving another person for someone else and so on....QUESTION:
When was the last time YOU met someone that came into your life romantically- that you were completely alone with NO ONE in your life?

my guess is a very very small percentage.

the last time? I think i was 14.
i'm 74 now, so that's.. um... a long time ago.

 

[nycgirl]

I had this conversation last night. I guess I've always been a loner, not really social. So, I'm wiling to admit that I am a bit naive when it comes to stuff like this. That said, I'm learning and realized its a small percentage.

 

[KillahBee]

About 6/7 months ago. I've never gone from one girl to another in terms of relationships. Cheated on girls, but never dated the chick I cheated with.

 

[slat1]

I met my current gf while I was single.

 

[slat1]

Ooooooooooooooooooooooops!
Correction: I was not single

 

[javaguru]

I can't remember the last time I jumped from dating someone regularly to a new person.

 

[BrothaBill]

I would think itd be the other way around, that alot of people arent involved with anyone.
Lot of that stuff is machismo like a Tinytank story.

Although some people always seem to have or always will have relationship problems b/c they never unlearn the behaviors that cause the problems.
I think alot of people take breaks from dating or trying to get laid in favor of more important priorities

 

[alien amp pharm]

Bro I'm almost always single


and when I'm not I certainly don't have enough game to meet 2 girls at one time.

 

[nycgirl]

Waiting for the following:

Its never the guy that jumps, its always the chick that lines up the guy and then leaves.

 

[BrothaBill]

Its never the guy that jumps, its always the chick that lines up the guy.

 

[BrothaBill]

Hey NYC, I couldnt sworn your post said you'd give all your karma to the next person who says that, I must be losing my mind

 

[nycgirl]

Its never the guy that jumps, its always the chick that lines up the guy.

I edited my post, I changed it to "waiting for."

 

[PBR]

the last time? I think i was 14.
i'm 74 now, so that's.. um... a long time ago.

you've been with the same person for 60 years?....

 

[awittyusername]

Great thread PBR.

This is more common than people realize or will admit.

As I get older I can recognize it better. It is a joke between my friends when we go out on how fast I can bust a girl who is trying to tell us she is single.

I have also been on the other side. When I was younger I was shocked that my gfs left me for someone else. As I got older I could see it happening, but the girls would not let me go. (the last one I was so happy when she finally found someone.lol)

 

[BrothaBill]

I edited my post, I changed it to "waiting for."

yeah, gotcha, I figured that or was confusing two posts into one, like someone else said it and I was thinking about while reading your post.

 

[javaguru]

Bro I'm almost always single


and when I'm not I certainly don't have enough game to meet 2 girls at one time.

I don't have the time, money, or patience to date two women at the same time.

 

[nycgirl]

 

[theoak01]

doesnt happen for me,girls only hit on me when im dating someone

 

[Sub-Zero]

im gunna make a generalization here and say that getting a new boyfriend when ur still with someone else is more a girl thing

a higher percentage of girls would do the whole better deal thing than guys would

 

[EnderJE]

im gunna make a generalization here and say that getting a new boyfriend when ur still with someone else is more a girl thing

a higher percentage of girls would do the whole better deal thing than guys would

unless your in san fransico or Canada

 

[covergrl80]

I met my Love when I was single, in May 05.

 

[vinylgroover]

i think that's a gross overstatement PBR.

I look at my own friends and counted 10 couples alone who were both single prior to hooking up.

There are more single people out there than ever before, so it stands to reason that more single people will hook-up together

 

[PBR]

i think that's a gross overstatement PBR.

I look at my own friends and counted 10 couples alone who were both single prior to hooking up.

There are more single people out there than ever before, so it stands to reason that more single people will hook-up together

thats cool bro...thats what threads are for, perspectives and opinions. i respect yours. it was a Question, not so much as a statement. i agree that there are more single people now days than ever before. however, these singles have mostly come from divorces- which are a wide spread trend. it also depends on age groups and demographics which i did not get into-i was generalized.

i will stand my ground on this and say the majority of people meet a SO while engaged in another form of relationship....

 

[awittyusername]

thats cool bro...thats what threads are for, perspectives and opinions. i respect yours. it was a Question, not so much as a statement. i agree that there are more single people now days than ever before. however, these singles have mostly come from divorces- which are a wide spread trend. it also depends on age groups and demographics which i did not get into-i was generalized.

i will stand my ground on this and say the majority of people meet a SO while engaged in another form of relationship....

I was talking to 2 friends at the gym my age talking about divorce. All of us had atleast 8 friends that were divorced or on second wife. I asked them how many of their divorces did either party not cheat or have something lined up....None of them. (total of about 24)

 

[PBR]

I was talking to 2 friends at the gym my age talking about divorce. All of us had atleast 8 friends that were divorced or on second wife. I asked them how many of their divorces did either party not cheat or have something lined up....None of them. (total of about 24)

bro- i could not even begin to count....you started with 2 people and got to 24 without trying...go figure. thanks for the info bro.

 

[pinky223]

People always want your ass when its someone elses...it sucks but it's a part of life...

 

[sixxtoes]

some people dont have the maturity to end something when they no longer want to be in the relationship. they just end up draging it out until something "better" comes along, and it leads to cheating. some even go out knowing they are going to cheat just so they can pack up and run. if your done, then your done, so end it before you fuck with the other person. (uhh, skeletons are coming out, gotta stop)

 

[PBR]

some people dont have the maturity to end something when they no longer want to be in the relationship. they just end up draging it out until something "better" comes along, and it leads to cheating. some even go out knowing they are going to cheat just so they can pack up and run. if your done, then your done, so end it before you fuck with the other person. (uhh, skeletons are coming out, gotta stop)

pinky....aint it the truth sometimes?...we want what someone else has. but the reality is: we dont "own" anything. much less another human being.

six...i agree. alot of people do things out of desperation (not an excuse).
alot of people are afraid of hurting someone without an excuse, ie: meeting someone else- what i think is most prevelant- the fact that most people are afraid to stand and be alone.