malandrina !

[hamstershaver]

What the fuck did I miss now?

my profile

 

[The Shadow]

What the fuck did I miss now?

Same old, man.


Person A bitches about person B and then turns pms to off....

 

[perkele]

Thank you idiots.

 

[stilleto]

thats good I like to here this.she was bingning to sound like she was slinging youre name around like you agreed with evry thing she is doing and saying.
and I find that hard to beleave.

I am more than happy to help anyone that asks for it. friends, enemies, whatever.
She asked me to do something that isn't really moderating, and chastized me for not feeling comfortable about asking 3 people to stop bothering her. So ok, I knew one of them and figured that if I was nice and honest with the other two, maybe they would listen and they did. cool. problem solved and I felt good about helping her, despite my inner voice that told me she may bring some of this on herself.
I pm her and tell her all three said they'd chill out and she says she just told off one of them for good measure.
great. I almost pm'd him and said "forget what I asked you. she's on her own now."
but I felt like a dick.
we are moderators, not preschool teachers. "he's pulling my hairrrrrrrrrrrr." "Make her stop bothering meeeeeeeeeee."
I don't mind telling people to cool it- I did it when rockyroad first got here, but don't make me regret helping you.

and btw, malandrina... if destroyer sent you a pm and said not to cry to a mod about it.... IGNORE IT. Your goal was to make him go away so STOP RESPONDING TO IT and it will.
That was my ONLY interaction with destroyer- I introduced myself, then asked him to leave you alone, you're a mother, under stress, lets not make it worse, etc....
you're the one that used the term "for good measure" when you told me you told him off. I didn't pull that out of thin air. I felt like a jerk, and didn't really see much appreciation from you for going out of my way to help YOUR situation. AGAIN.
Just TALK to people the way you want to be talked to. even if they haven't- they WILL if they see you will either ignore it or are only willing to have a civil conversation.