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Staind

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After a night of telling me how much she loves me, and having a deep conversation of how she might stay once again she posts this on another board:

OK OK!!!
I am soooo happy that everyone is in such good spirits!!!! YAY for Karma!
First off, I quit dancing.

Sure the money was nice, but it was just a bad atmosphere, it brought me down...

Second I have a new job, at a ritzy nightclub, cocktailing, just for the time being...

Third,I am very excited about moving to S.C. And will be doing so around the beginning of June : )

Kyle is also very sweet. I used to be scared of letting him get too close to me but whatever, who gives a crap? I will just trust myself and stop trying to control everything. So I go to S.C. to go to School, and be in a good area, and near him of course, but in that order. I am not ready for anything too serious, but I am willing to see what may develop.

Oh crap have a lot to do tommorow, wish me luck as I havent slept a wink and doubt I will, I am just too excited and happy.



My Response:

Oh really? You keep telling me you are confused and just spent the night over here again yet you keep talking this kind of stuff on the message boards?
WTF was that conversation about last night then? Yeah, we obviously have no intimacy or commitment do we? Passion alone isn't nearly enough I suppose. Like I said, I'll never trust you again, that's why I'm here reading your post. Stop your fucking games, if you want to leave that fucking bad, then leave. Get the fuck away from me. Stop lying to me every fucking day and telling me how much you LOVE me. How you will always love me, how you AREN'T LEAVING ME FOR SOMEONE ELSE. YOU LIE. Just get me my freakin check for fixing your car so I can pay my rent and don't talk to me ever again. How about that?

Have fun with your 27 year old nerd-face. Getting right into another LT huh? You havn't learned anything have you. I won't be making that mistake ANYTIME soon. I'll have my fun don't you worry about me.
 
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mods, pleas move this thread to the "Staind and his hundred threads about his psycho chick who everyone on EF has told him to get away from over and over again and he doesn't listen so now it's really old forum".
 
The Nature Boy said:
mods, pleas move this thread to the "Staind and his hundred threads about his psycho chick who everyone on EF has told him to get away from over and over again and he doesn't listen so now it's really old forum".


NB, don't get carried away. Hundred of threads? Seriously. The guys got like 246 posts and only 245 of them are about this psycho chick.
 
I'm confused. So are you Kyle?

(Sorry, I haven't been keeping up with my daily Staind Soap Opera shows like some of these other peeps have.)
 
Let it go bro. Take it from me. I've been divorced twice. I know what women are capable of and the stress they can cause you. Time heals everything. You won't even think of her in a couple of months.
 
Oh, ok. I see now.
Damn what a bitch! Forget her and move on. You deserve better because it's obviously over. Good luck whatever happens.
 
Mandinka2 said:

Holy shit Bro , sorry to hear about that , if I was u , Id let the other poor bastard know what a two timin whore she was and set her up....

Not disbuting what you said, but let me bring up two quick points...

1. This will only show he's still involved in her. He should just drop all contact and forget about her completely.

2. Most guys do not care as long as they are the one that's currently receiving. Just like when a married woman cheats on her husband, then leaves her husband for the new guy. Chances are that if she cheated on her husband, she'll do it to the new guy eventually, but the new guy isn't thinking about that - he's just caught up in the moment and thinks somehow he's different.
 
what she did with you she did/would do with everyone else...words to live by

if the truth has consequences she will lie...more words to live by
 
you all are giving him the same advice that's been given to him for all the threads he's created about this chick. he won't listen to you, he hasn't listened to anyone. so he deserves what he gets because he lets it happen.
 
Staind...you are a fucking moron. You do the same stupid shit over and over and expect different results.
 
The Nature Boy said:
you all are giving him the same advice that's been given to him for all the threads he's created about this chick. he won't listen to you, he hasn't listened to anyone. so he deserves what he gets because he lets it happen.

true;

Staind after someone does something that pisses you off and doesn't make amends if you continue to put up with it then it is your fault and you should open one thread entitled the winery and go wine in it every time you think you got fucked over:light:
 
alien amp pharm said:


Not disbuting what you said, but let me bring up two quick points...

1. This will only show he's still involved in her. He should just drop all contact and forget about her completely.

2. Most guys do not care as long as they are the one that's currently receiving. Just like when a married woman cheats on her husband, then leaves her husband for the new guy. Chances are that if she cheated on her husband, she'll do it to the new guy eventually, but the new guy isn't thinking about that - he's just caught up in the moment and thinks somehow he's different.
No probs Bro with your intervention , but perosnally it's obvious he's still involved - point 1. He oughta deal with it.

2. I differ with you there , unless he's a dumbass he should care , hey Staind , tell him to get on ef. But I have to agree with you , she'll almost certainly do it to the new guy too.Where is Citruscide?
 
Time to go see a therapist. Insurance will pay for it. You obviously have some control issues to sort out; no shame in that, just get help.

She's been very clear to other people about where she's at; she probably only tells you what you want to hear because you bug the shit out of her until she says what you want to hear, and it's a lot easier for her.

She wants space. Give it to her. You cannot control anybody but yourself. Period. It doesn't matter what you say, think or do -- she will do what she is compelled to do, independent of your wants, needs and desires.

You need to go about catching up with yourself, learning who you are and what your values are. Drop ALL contact with her (I don't care if it's rude or whatever), forget the money she owes you because you aren't going to see it and you will only use it as an excuse to maintain contact.

Many, many people have been through this and worse situations; this is not unique. It's up to you if you want to succeed or if you want to sit around and blame others for shit you knew in your gut all along, was wrong.

That is all. Good luck.
 
WODIN said:
Staind...you are a fucking moron. You do the same stupid shit over and over and expect different results.


That was the first time I have ever seen Wodin type anything nasty towards another member.......CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
 
WODIN said:
Staind...you are a fucking moron. You do the same stupid shit over and over and expect different results.

Yeah, what he said. :lmao:

Calling Citruscide and his posse...... :D
 
As soon as I get back on insurance I'm sure I will get some help. This is just my outlet guys. My mind believes everything all of you are telling me, the attachment is almost on a subconscious level that I can't control, like an instinct, or breathing. At this point I think I am going to turn to some X for answers...

I guess it is just funny to hear just how pathetic my actions are becoming from everyone else. I don't know.

TheMachine: I particular liked what you had to say. You are exactly right. Her actions and mine are like we both want to hang by that thread without it breaking, it's really bizarre. She makes excuses for what she says then I believe them. Hopefully I can just take your advice soon and be done with it...maybe I am just weak sometimes...
 
Staind said:
As soon as I get back on insurance I'm sure I will get some help. This is just my outlet guys. My mind believes everything all of you are telling me, the attachment is almost on a subconscious level that I can't control, like an instinct, or breathing. At this point I think I am going to turn to some X for answers...

I guess it is just funny to hear just how pathetic my actions are becoming from everyone else. I don't know.


Drugs arent your answer broly... Trust me, I went thru the same thing the first 18.5 years of my life. Drugs just made it worse for me.. You need to get over it yourself..
Sure, I said that I listened to other people.. but in reality, I was blocking it all out subcountiously. It's when I started actually taking it in that I started becoming mentally healthy. If you don't beleive me.. ask some people on this board.. I wasnt too mentally healthy when I came here...
 
Drugs arent your answer broly... Trust me, I went thru the same thing the first 18.5 years of my life. Drugs just made it worse for me.. You need to get over it yourself..

bullshit. i havent been straight a day for 7 months and im FINE.

staind, since you like music, heres some trivia for you:

im a liar- YEA! im a liar- YEA. Ill rip your mind out....ill burn your soul...
 
She's been very clear to other people about where she's at; she probably only tells you what you want to hear because you bug the shit out of her until she says what you want to hear, and it's a lot easier for her.

shes still coming over. bottom line, shes dicking with this guy...and hes letting her.

dood, take the last bit of self respect and manhood you have and leave this bitch. then PM supernav and start tapping lonely internet whores.

do you think that with all this shit, that you ever have a chance of a even remotly healthy relaionship?

personally, i think you are both too fucked up for much of anything. you, my friend, are savable though.
 
Staind said:
As soon as I get back on insurance I'm sure I will get some help. This is just my outlet guys.

If you don't have insurance, find some counseling through the community. There are outlets if you are willing to look for them. Is it ideal? No, perhaps not. Is it convenient? Probably not. Can you do it if you are willing? Yes.

he attachment is almost on a subconscious level that I can't control, like an instinct, or breathing

Poppycock. You have built this shit up in your mind so much, you have made yourself the victim so much, that you are starting to latch onto this as a viable excuse to be a failure. You want a reason to fail because succeeding is hard. Nobody is sympathetic to success. Take the rose-colored glasses off and see things as they really are, not as the fantasy that you have created in your mind.

Your attachment to her is no greater or less than thousands of other ruined and unhealthy relationships that millions of people have walked away from. You always have a choice to walk away -- indeed freedom over yourself is one of the few freedoms you have.

At this point I think I am going to turn to some X for answers...

There's little point in speaking to this. You know better. I also think you are looking for a little attention here, some sign that people care about you and that they will rush up to tell you "no, no!" -- This thought is ridiculous and you know it. A couple tabs of X will buy you a therapy session by the way.

I guess it is just funny to hear just how pathetic my actions are becoming from everyone else. I don't know.

You do know. You have self-esteem issues. You seem to want people to tell you are shit, so that you can believe it and give yourself permission to live miserably; after all, it won't be your fault -- it'll be them ... Guess what? You aren't shit. You have all the power in the world. You are master of your own dominion, and what you want out of this life, you take! Stand up and do something!

You are exactly right. Her actions and mine are like we both want to hang by that thread without it breaking, it's really bizarre.

No, those are your actions. And what you want to see out of hers. Reality is, she is moving soon, you are convenient up until that point, that is all. She will string you along for as long as it suits her interest -- it has nothing to do with you.

She makes excuses for what she says then I believe them.

Subliminal slip? That's reality. She makes excuses, you believe them. Really think about what you just said for a second. Think about what that implies.

Hopefully I can just take your advice soon and be done with it...

Change that to "I can take your advice and be done with it." It's a choice, a choice you are fully capable of making. Be brave. You will be a stronger person for it in the end.

maybe I am just weak sometimes...

Everybody is weak sometimes. Do you want to be weak overall? What kind of values would you want to pass down to your child? How would you react if you had a friend going through the same thing?

Deep down, you already know everything you need to know about your situation. You've known it for a long time. It's time to act.
Listening to your gut is not always easy. Doing the right thing is sometimes terribly hard. But you will never look down on yourself if you take the steps.

Pretend to be somebody that you want to become and act as that person would act. Soon, you will become that person.

Go buy "Letting Love Go" from the bookstore. Find somebody qualified to talk to.

You will make it through this. If you want to. I don't give a shit how you've been treated, or what people have said about you, if your parents were mean to you, whatever. This is up to you and only you. Do the right thing. Cut off all contact. All contact. And move on with your life.
 
Sinistar said:


im a liar- YEA! im a liar- YEA. Ill rip your mind out....ill burn your soul...

I'll turn you into me,
I'll turn you into me,
cuz' I'm a liar, a liar,
A liar, liar, liar, liar!
 
OK Staind seriously...You have 100 people here telling you to do what you know you need to do. Stop the arguing back and forth with each other on messageboards. Get rid of her. Please. Occupy yourself with some good PC games or X box or something.
 
I have come to the concusion that you're an idiot.
 
OK Staind seriously...You have 100 people here telling you to do what you know you need to do. Stop the arguing back and forth with each other on messageboards. Get rid of her. Please. Occupy yourself with some good PC games or X box or something.
 
The Machine: man I appreciate the advice. I kinda took some baby steps today. I was over at my friend's house today (got my parents car) and made out with a hot chick and she grabbed my cock...but I turned her down...I couldn't do anything more, I just couldn't. It was fucked up but she is going to be there until Sunday...

I told my ex about it and tomorrow is her big decision. It is her last day to enroll at the local school and she was acting like she doesn't know if she is or not. We are going to meet up, maybe for the last time tomorrow. I could hear it in her voice....she isn't stringing me along. She doesn't know where her life is heading or if she is going to make the decision she will regret for the rest of her life...

I am currently drunk off my ass and wired, and listening to "Cold - Stupid Girl" on repeat, it's kinda cool. All I can think about is being with my baby.

I was telling alot of stories to my friend tonight...He was telling me how he could relate, he is a little older than me and has been through some fucked up shit with a girl he was with for 3 years (this same girl tried to fuck me, lol). He was telling me the same thing, let the fuck go, just let it go. We are gonna hit the clubs this weekend fo sho, regardless. I guess no matter what I think the best thing that can happen for me is my ex to just break it off and make her decision. I got plenty of support now, I just...can't make the decision on my own....I just can't....
 
Staind said:
The Machine: man I appreciate the advice. I kinda took some baby steps today. I was over at my friend's house today (got my parents car) and made out with a hot chick and she grabbed my cock...but I turned her down...I couldn't do anything more, I just couldn't. It was fucked up but she is going to be there until Sunday...

I told my ex about it and tomorrow is her big decision. It is her last day to enroll at the local school and she was acting like she doesn't know if she is or not. We are going to meet up, maybe for the last time tomorrow. I could hear it in her voice....she isn't stringing me along. She doesn't know where her life is heading or if she is going to make the decision she will regret for the rest of her life...

I am currently drunk off my ass and wired, and listening to "Cold - Stupid Girl" on repeat, it's kinda cool. All I can think about is being with my baby.

I was telling alot of stories to my friend tonight...He was telling me how he could relate, he is a little older than me and has been through some fucked up shit with a girl he was with for 3 years (this same girl tried to fuck me, lol). He was telling me the same thing, let the fuck go, just let it go. We are gonna hit the clubs this weekend fo sho, regardless. I guess no matter what I think the best thing that can happen for me is my ex to just break it off and make her decision. I got plenty of support now, I just...can't make the decision on my own....I just can't....

You're fucking letting her decide? fucking hell dude.. fucking end it yourself!
 
Frackal said:
this is the most pathetic shit i have ever seen

That's saying quite abit consider the amount of pathetic shit that has come across this board.
 
WODIN said:


That's saying quite abit consider the amount of pathetic shit that has come across this board.

yeah staind, you have to be like Wodin and desire nothing. If you can believe he desires nothing.

Madbomber and his pathetic Phi. Iggles are going to win the Superbowl this year posts is up there in the most pathetic shit that has come across this board.
 
fistfullofsteel said:


yeah staind, you have to be like Wodin and desire nothing. If you can believe he desires nothing.

I desire lots of things FF.

I just know the path and am a simply practitioner / apprentice of the path.
 
WODIN said:


I desire lots of things FF.

I just know the path and am a simply practitioner / apprentice of the path.

sort of like the phi. seagles are the apprentice of the path of never winning a superbowl. good job.
 
STAIND SINGING

Call up, ring once, hang up the phone
To let me know you made it home
Don't want nothing to be wrong with part-time lover
If she's with me I'll blink the lights
To let you know tonight's the night
For me and you my part-time lover

We are undercover passion on the run
Chasing love up against the sun
We are strangers by day, lovers by night
Knowing it's so wrong, but feeling so right

If I'm with friends and we should meet
Just pass me by, don't even speak
Know the word's "discreet" when part-time lovers
But if there's some emergency
Have a male friend to ask for me
So then she won't peek its really you my part-time lover

We are undercover passion on the run
Chasing love up against the sun
We are strangers by day, lovers by night
Knowing it's so wrong, but feeling so right

I've got something that I must tell
Last night someone rang our doorbell
And it was not you my part-time lover
And then a man called our exchange
But didn't want to leave his name
I guess that two can play the game
Of part-time lovers
You and me, part-time lovers
But, she and he, part-time lovers
 
check
1....1..2
i came into this world as a reject
look into these eyes
then you'll see the size of the flames
dwellin on the past
its burnin up my brain
everyone that burns has to learn from the pain
hey, i think about the day
my girlie ran away with my pay
my fellas came to play
now shes stuck with my homies that she fucked
and i'm just a sucker with a lump in my throat
hey, like a chump, hey--7x
should i be feelin bad (no)
should i be fellin good (no)
its kinda sad
i'm the laughing stock of the neighborhood
and you would think that i would be movin on
but i'm a sucka like i said
fucked up in the head, not
and maybe she just made a mistake
and i should give her a break
my heart'll ache, either way
hey, what the hell you want me to say
i won't lie
that i can't deny
{chorus}
i did it all for the nookie, come on
the nookie, come on
so you can take the cookie and stick it up your(yea)-3x
i did it all for the nookie, come on
the nookie, come on
so you can take the cookie and stick it up your (yea)-3x
why did it take so long
why did i wait so long, huh
to figure it out
but i did it
and i'm the only one
underneath the sun who didn't get it
i can't believe that could be decieved
(but you were)by my so called girl, but in reality
had a hidden agenda
she put my tender heart in a blender
and still i surrendered
hey,like a chump, hey--7x
{chorus}
i did it all for the nookie, come on
the nookie, come on
so you can take the cookie and stick it up your(yea)-3x
i did it all for the nookie, come on
the nookie, come on
so you can take the cookie and stick it up your (yea)-3x
i'm only human
so for your friends give you their advice
they'll tell you, to just let it go
its easier said than done
i appreciate it, i do, but
just leave me alone, leave me alone
just leave me alone
nothings gunna change
you can go away
i'm just gunna stay here and always be the same
ain't nothing gunna change
cuz you can go away
and i'm just gunna stay here and always be the same
{chorus}
i did it all for the nookie, come on
the nookie, come on
so you can take the cookie and stick it up your(yea)-3x
i did it all for the nookie, come on
the nookie, come on
so you can take the cookie and stick it up your (yea)-3x
 
Staind said:
After a night of telling me how much she loves me, and having a deep conversation of how she might stay once again she posts this on another board:

OK OK!!!
I am soooo happy that everyone is in such good spirits!!!! YAY for Karma!
First off, I quit dancing.

Sure the money was nice, but it was just a bad atmosphere, it brought me down...

Second I have a new job, at a ritzy nightclub, cocktailing, just for the time being...

Third,I am very excited about moving to S.C. And will be doing so around the beginning of June : )

Kyle is also very sweet. I used to be scared of letting him get too close to me but whatever, who gives a crap? I will just trust myself and stop trying to control everything. So I go to S.C. to go to School, and be in a good area, and near him of course, but in that order. I am not ready for anything too serious, but I am willing to see what may develop.

Oh crap have a lot to do tommorow, wish me luck as I havent slept a wink and doubt I will, I am just too excited and happy.



My Response:

Oh really? You keep telling me you are confused and just spent the night over here again yet you keep talking this kind of stuff on the message boards?
WTF was that conversation about last night then? Yeah, we obviously have no intimacy or commitment do we? Passion alone isn't nearly enough I suppose. Like I said, I'll never trust you again, that's why I'm here reading your post. Stop your fucking games, if you want to leave that fucking bad, then leave. Get the fuck away from me. Stop lying to me every fucking day and telling me how much you LOVE me. How you will always love me, how you AREN'T LEAVING ME FOR SOMEONE ELSE. YOU LIE. Just get me my freakin check for fixing your car so I can pay my rent and don't talk to me ever again. How about that?

Have fun with your 27 year old nerd-face. Getting right into another LT huh? You havn't learned anything have you. I won't be making that mistake ANYTIME soon. I'll have my fun don't you worry about me.



I don't get this crap.. sorry to say this bro, but your a major pussy... wake up and be a man! Leave that bitch and find your self some new pussy to nail... I just hope your not one of these guys who becomes codependent on their girl friends, that would just be a sign of extreme insecurity...
 
I got nothing left. Fucking ex blew me off tonight, didn't even call and went out with friends she hadn't seen in 2 years, found out from her mom.

I called all my contacts, my cousin that's in town, my best friend, my other friends, nobody can fucking hang, no one can fucking talk. I am a nothing by myself, I just dream of that hammer to hit me on the head and knock my ass out. Just take me away, just get me out of this place, don't let me act, don't let me move, just take me away, take me OUT.

Got no fucking alcohol left, finished the last shit I had. Might hit a bar but my carding luck has been bad lately. Get the drunks to entertain me.

What the fuck have I become? What the fuck...am I? I just want to be taken out.
 
Dude, you got it bad. She must have been a good fuck.

Time to start meeting plumpers online like dave does. Get your mack confidence back and start enjoying life again.
 
Believe me I'm gonna try, just have to get some GOOD and detailed pics up, prob get my friend to take some tomorrow and then just will need some fucking luck I guess. Just the thought of getting through this night kills me though. Right now I am debating the mass sleeping pill route or the mass ephedrine route...
 
tell me something I don't know. if you told me i was a cum eating gay cat that fucked mice all day i'd be suprised, yet enlightened.

btw i decided on a couple benedryl's, nothing to heavy just enough to hopefully make me pass out soon. still tempting to do something though.
 
Man.. I'm glad I didn't have a girlfriend when I was fucked in the head.. If it makes it that bad, then shit..

Or maybe this guys is just more fucked in the head than I was... Either way.. He needs to wake up.

Make it thru the night? fuck man.. think about it.. ITS ONE FUCKING NIGHT.. there are 365 nights in a year, and most people live atleast 55-60 years... thats fucking betwee 20075 to 21900 nights in a life. Don't fucking fret over one damn night.
 
Yeah, I feel fine now. I just hate not having a roommate or anything right now, just till the end of the month though. Gotta work another double-shift at work today, it's like my 4th straight. I'm up and down like a fuckin manic depressive right now, havn't really been THIS bad in a couple years. At least I know it's just a matter of time until this passes, it always does.
 
I haven't really read your other threads on the subject, but I say go after silent revenge. Gather up everything you can on her and destroy her life.

Does she have discusting habbits? Good, record her in the act and send it to her family and friends.
Get nude pics of her and post them all over the internet.
Become friends with kyle, tell him the kind of lying bitch she is and he will help you destroy her.
Play with her head emotionally, use everything you got to make her a psychological mess.
USE EVERYTHING YOU GOT ON HER!!!

-sk
 
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