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THeMaCHinE
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Time to go see a therapist. Insurance will pay for it. You obviously have some control issues to sort out; no shame in that, just get help.
She's been very clear to other people about where she's at; she probably only tells you what you want to hear because you bug the shit out of her until she says what you want to hear, and it's a lot easier for her.
She wants space. Give it to her. You cannot control anybody but yourself. Period. It doesn't matter what you say, think or do -- she will do what she is compelled to do, independent of your wants, needs and desires.
You need to go about catching up with yourself, learning who you are and what your values are. Drop ALL contact with her (I don't care if it's rude or whatever), forget the money she owes you because you aren't going to see it and you will only use it as an excuse to maintain contact.
Many, many people have been through this and worse situations; this is not unique. It's up to you if you want to succeed or if you want to sit around and blame others for shit you knew in your gut all along, was wrong.
That is all. Good luck.
She's been very clear to other people about where she's at; she probably only tells you what you want to hear because you bug the shit out of her until she says what you want to hear, and it's a lot easier for her.
She wants space. Give it to her. You cannot control anybody but yourself. Period. It doesn't matter what you say, think or do -- she will do what she is compelled to do, independent of your wants, needs and desires.
You need to go about catching up with yourself, learning who you are and what your values are. Drop ALL contact with her (I don't care if it's rude or whatever), forget the money she owes you because you aren't going to see it and you will only use it as an excuse to maintain contact.
Many, many people have been through this and worse situations; this is not unique. It's up to you if you want to succeed or if you want to sit around and blame others for shit you knew in your gut all along, was wrong.
That is all. Good luck.
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HULKSTER
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WODIN said:
That was the first time I have ever seen Wodin type anything nasty towards another member.......CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
Drunken_Weasel
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Stop fucking hanging around this bitch!
Shit... I can't beleive I used to do this shit.. block out good, sound advice.
Shit... I can't beleive I used to do this shit.. block out good, sound advice.
As soon as I get back on insurance I'm sure I will get some help. This is just my outlet guys. My mind believes everything all of you are telling me, the attachment is almost on a subconscious level that I can't control, like an instinct, or breathing. At this point I think I am going to turn to some X for answers...
I guess it is just funny to hear just how pathetic my actions are becoming from everyone else. I don't know.
TheMachine: I particular liked what you had to say. You are exactly right. Her actions and mine are like we both want to hang by that thread without it breaking, it's really bizarre. She makes excuses for what she says then I believe them. Hopefully I can just take your advice soon and be done with it...maybe I am just weak sometimes...
I guess it is just funny to hear just how pathetic my actions are becoming from everyone else. I don't know.
TheMachine: I particular liked what you had to say. You are exactly right. Her actions and mine are like we both want to hang by that thread without it breaking, it's really bizarre. She makes excuses for what she says then I believe them. Hopefully I can just take your advice soon and be done with it...maybe I am just weak sometimes...
Drunken_Weasel
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Staind said:
Drugs arent your answer broly... Trust me, I went thru the same thing the first 18.5 years of my life. Drugs just made it worse for me.. You need to get over it yourself..
Sure, I said that I listened to other people.. but in reality, I was blocking it all out subcountiously. It's when I started actually taking it in that I started becoming mentally healthy. If you don't beleive me.. ask some people on this board.. I wasnt too mentally healthy when I came here...
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