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a special thanks goes out to Dballer, polarpixie, jeep310, bikinimom, smallmovesal, kahn, the Ranger, and many others that have been helpful and offered me advice in the past

clearly, this bulletin board is not receptive to me any longer and i didn't expect it to be
regardless, this post is not a cry for attention, i actually AM leaving this board, as i no longer have use for it

for those that wish to keep in touch with me can email me at [email protected] or [email protected]
i hope to hear from some of you.....

frankly, i am very tired of the haters on this board. i have had my moments too, but that is not the main reason i am "leaving"
just think of it as cutting ties.

being positive goes a long way, and this board has a negative effect on me for sure. i'm tired of being defensive about crap that no one knows about anyway.

you wanna rip on me now, go right ahead, i have no more to say.
there are a 'special' few of you who were always very critical as to the nature of my workouts, or if i do at all.
well, guess what ya bitches. i have one arm - i don't have my left arm below the elbow. my purpose to coming to this board in the first place was to find an appropraite way to work out my upper body as a whole without just building up one side, as i had been doing. my legs are monsters, always have been, but now proportion has become a larger concern than actual weight lifting for now. laugh all you want, i don't really find it funny. this is not something i intended to talk about or like talking about at all. but i have received great advice as well as more encouragement than i can handle from some people :)
that, i will never forget (THANK U)

so, that is that. have fun, tear me up, i just don't care anymore. after all, it is "just" the internet.


ciao
dread_lady

p.s. please keep me and my family in your hearts and prayers, it is greatly appreciated now and in the long run.
 
Good Luck girl....

Forget all the haters and CONSTANT judgemental remarks on this board. Like the are all a bunch of role models anyway.:rolleyes:
Just means a bunch of people obviously don't have life.



:)
 
I don't think it is a case of anyone hating you, (I am actually dying to know the juicy details) but it is just that matters like this (and just last week with bmom) it is best to take it to private email.

Yes, we all have problems and life is not smooth at all times for any of us, but guess what? When I come on this board, I want fun. I want laughs. I want witty sanity. Real life is just outside my door, I come here to escape it.

I wish you no ill. Sounds like you have a lot of growing up to do. Your biggest mistake was getting married when you knew it was not for the right reasons. Learn from this. Hopefully you are young enough that you have many many years ahead of you. Don't make this mistake again.
 
Take care Dread, I understand why you would wanna make the post as you explained it..I wish you all the luck in the future and don't let any of these shitty comments bother you

Hasta
 
I will miss you tons! Especially the penguins. I always enjoyed talking about what a funny town Nac is and you know - I really do love it here. Anyway, good luck to you and I hope things improve for the better. Best wishes -

Jim
 
Best of luck to you and your future endeavors!

penguin_wave.gif
 
Days of the Tantric said:
Haters?

I've never seen you write anything positive about anyone or anything on this board.
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Hey DOT, not that I'm here to prove ya wrong, but here's a post from dread_lady:

dread lord and i think you are making good progress - the progress that shows when you are doing it right. pretty good for 2 months.
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She's always been pretty cool to me.
 
Sorry to hear it dread. You and I have always gotten along and I always found your quirky sense of humor amusing. You will be missed by your fellow Texan.

Star
 
dread, jesus christ girl, I'm sorry there are some people here who are being complete insentive pricks to you. Some people just have real selective memories when it comes to internet chat boards and all. I really hope they are not the reason you are finding this place to be having a negative effect on you. I'm also sorry that all this shit has happened to you! I am glad to hear that you are seeking out the help that you need for everything you have gone thru these past few months. I hope it helps. I do think it's crazy that you got married within the time that whole other fiasco was going on with you, but what can you say, life is life, you did what you thought felt right, but I am glad to hear that you recognized that none of this was good for you and you cannot live a life of hiding from the cops forever.

PEACE to you. To me, from what I do know about you, you seem like a real smart girl with a starry future that got mixed up with the wrong guy and the wrong crowd, and I hope one day you'll just look back on this whole situation as another crazy situation you were involved in, but you will be living a much better life. Now that you've gone thru all this, please don't ever let anyone else sway you down the wrong path again.

Come back here whenever you feel like, ignore the negative, insentive assholes, just laugh and be happy that you have the ability to be above all that, and say hi to those of us who wish you well, whenever you want, alright?

I will think good thoughts for you.
 
what FFOS said. take care:)
 
fistfullofsteel said:


WTF, somebody agreed with what I said!!!

Danielson, are you drunk or on any type of drugs? :D
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no, but the day is still young ;)
 
i didn't think i'd have to spell it out...

if it's "just the internet" then whatever anyone says to you on here shouldn't matter, and you wouldn't be offended or hold grudges.
 
regardless, i think it would have been big of you to have some compassion for what she endured. she has been going through a lot of pain as a result of being brutally raped, and being that i know a little bit of what that's like (and even if i hadn't) i threw my support behind her. people called me a whore because i was assaulted - which was so unkind... but i had no one else to share my pain with, as did she. she was isolated as i was, and needed support. i do count some of the people i've met on here as friends, but even if i don't know someone, when i hear of such horrible things happening to them i will do what i can.

perhaps we are just different types of people dot.
 
smallmovesal said:
i thought it was "just the internet" dot
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This statement coming from someone who pm's me about a members ip. My response was put them on ignore (as you will so blatently tell people who are sick of your bullshit) and you were a total bitch about it.......



....excuse me while I ponder the irony of your situation.....
 
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no you were entirely curt about a simple question i asked - which was about a member who seemed to post stalk me in the manner of a certain steel beast. i just asked if they had managed to ban all of his names... and you responded curtly, so i thanked you for your kind and courteous response...

nowhere have i said i think it's "just the internet"... but i know that dot has said that.

please try and ban me again for no reason though.
 
smallmovesal said:
no you were entirely curt about a simple question i asked - which was about a member who seemed to post stalk me in the manner of a certain steel beast. i just asked if they had managed to ban all of his names... and you responded curtly, so i thanked you for your kind and courteous response...

nowhere have i said i think it's "just the internet"... but i know that dot has said that.

please try and ban me again for no reason though.
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Ok - so me telling you that the IP had been banned rather than a username is being curt?

Then you pm back and question what I tell you.....

no reason for you to be banned???

....I consider slander with malicious intent enough reason....
 
getting a message that says "ip banned. ignore" is curt any way you define it babe.

i didn't question what you told me... i thanked you in the tone you had responded.

type - the worst way to convey intentions it seems. no worries... i see that you were just trying to be polite.

slander with malicious intent? if just repeating the slanderous comments i have read that one person has said about me TO that person is slander... then damn i need to crack open some law books. it's just too bad it was all true... when an inherently good person chooses to continue behave in such a manner. all i asked was that he would admit to such behaviour... since i was being slandered via pm... nevertheless...

why exactly am i now on trial for defending dread lady's right for our compassion?
 
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smallmovesal said:

why exactly am i now on trial for defending dread lady's right for our compassion?
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Apparently she is the victim of the latest witch hunt on Elite. She has been elected for lynching, as no other female will serve better for this purpose at this point in time.

You will be the next if you don't watch your mouth little girl..


* note exaggerated sarcasm.
 
TO be honest I din't read all of that becuse it made my brain hurt from trying to figure out what you were talking about. You oblviously choose to lie about what I said so I am not going to translate anymore of your shit.

The comments you made to other people were slanderous in nature towards another individual. The fact that they were done behing said person's back makes it malicious.

Period.

Getting access to the mod board - I won't EVEN get into that.

Guess everybody has a price.....

...you are not "on trial" for anything.

You simply have a double standard when it comes to "It's only the internet".

That seems not to apply when someone decides not to play nice with you.....
 
NicolePap said:


Wow I dont recall any of this... maybe I was blacked out or something...


And the Steelbeast has come back under other user names several times.. so I could see smalls concern about him being banned.
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Nicole - there was a lot of the story that people never got. I never said that she was the only party to blame and I never requested or implied that she should be singled out in that situation.

I even pm'd her to tell her that he (beast)was back under another name.

I had the courtesy to tell her that his ip was banned - primarily because of me.

SHe pm'd me back again asking if all the names had banned banned. I again informed her that it was the ip that was banned. After she pm'd AGAIN - I told her to ignore him.


I did not have to do any of that.

Especially after a "friend" of hers got her into the mod board and maniplulated a situation which involed myself.
 
i'm lying.. right.

it's not my fault if i know what you've said on the mod board... and how you are two faced.

regardless, you have missed my point. i never said it's "only the internet" - i was questioning DOT's hypocrisy because that's something he believes.

my *point* though, was can we all not just see that dread lady has gone through some horrible shit and support her regardless instead of calling her names or whatever? i should hope so. it *isn't* just the internet imo, and if that's not how you see it then just please refrain from commenting on people's personal information. she had no outlet and i think we should have been more supportive to her. going through violent rape isn't a walk in the park.
 
Jimsbbc said:



Apparently she is the victim of the latest witch hunt on Elite. She has been elected for lynching, as no other female will serve better for this purpose at this point in time.
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That is such a true statement...:o
 
Cornholio said:


I even pm'd her to tell her that he (beast)was back under another name.

I had the courtesy to tell her that his ip was banned - primarily because of me.

SHe pm'd me back again asking if all the names had banned banned. I again informed her that it was the ip that was banned. After she pm'd AGAIN - I told her to ignore him.


I did not have to do any of that.

Especially after a "friend" of hers got her into the mod board and maniplulated a situation which involed myself.
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you weren't the only on to do that and i do appreciate it... you have taken what i have interpreted as a "tone" in many of these pm's though.. no matter though.

wtf are you talking about with a "friend" getting me into the mod board? are you trying to start rumours?

why are you on here now? i was talking to dot and my conversation with him is over. go back to work.
 
If I had a tone - do you think I would have wasted my time trying to help you? - Get a clue.

Are you saying that you did NOT have access to info on the mod board???


....btw - didn't realize that this is a private forum between you and DOT. I suggest in the future that you keep off the board and start pissing contests via pm.

As far as me going back to work.....I'll do that when you ...um...get a life...

Fair??
 
I missed a bunch of the background of this whole battle, so I'm not going to go into that, but Corn, wouldn't it be better to have all of this stuff posted openly? There should be a sticky at the top of each of these boards that tells, simply, who's been banned and why, and all of this crap. It's so hard to figure out what's going on otherwise, and it's really depressing to try and figure it out -- like playing a game of "telephone". Don't you think some kind of rumor control would be nice? Then people would know what kinds of things caused banning, what kinds of things caused threads to get moved, what kinds of things caused threads to get locked, all of that shit. That way there won't be the kind of intention misunderstanding that smalls referred to that crops up so often in typing, and also the mods won't seem to be as arbitrary as they can seem sometimes. You could even lock the thread so that it's just the facts being posted. Then there'd be one place to come for info that wouldn't turn into a giant flame war. The flame wars could happen in regular chat threads, as they do now.

This isn't a flame against mods, don't get me wrong. But there's a lot of confusion about what mods do, and why. Why not just tell people up front?

Just an idea.

Wyst
 
wyst said:

This isn't a flame against mods, don't get me wrong. But there's a lot of confusion about what mods do, and why. Why not just tell people up front?

Just an idea.

Wyst
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Well - no one has been banned up till this point. Beast was recently but that info was/is pretty much common by now.

I would love for the facts to be posted...it would clear a LOT of things up.

Thing is - the banning is up to George ultimately.

I have always be honest and upfront about bannings. ANytime anyone has posted about it - I responded if I knew the sit.

Bannings happen very rarely...

I also post a reason why I lock a thread...I wish more mods would follow that...
 
so if i never get a life you'll never go back to work... won't you get fired corn? :)

i never said i didn't have knowledge of things you've said on the mod board. that said, why did you start this whole personal attack... i think dot was handling himself fine without your "help".
 
I get tired of the unbelievable level of hypocrisy you display. For you to tell a member "It's just the internet", when YOU bitch and go crying to a mod anytime someone looks at you wrong just seems incredibly inane to me.

You claim I wanted you gone for good and yet you come to ME for help??? Why is that?? Seems a little bizarre to me.

And you claim that I am two-faced........

Smalls advice to those who she irritates - "put me on ignore."

Smalls request when someone irritates her - "I'm getting upsetting pm's and karmic messages - go find them"

I am simply suggesting that you follow your own advice......
 
It's hypocrtical to be a hypocrit about hypocracey!!!



sorry - I hit edit instead of quote

-that's okay....:)
 
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starfish said:



That is an interesting comment.... Why do you say that?
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IF SHE REALLY WANTED TO JUST LEAVE, WHY BRING MORE ATTENTION TO YOURSELF. AS I UNDERSTAND IT, SHE IS WORRIED ABOUT SOMETHING PERTAINING TO THIS BOARD. SHE SHOULD JUST LEAVE!!!

AND WHATS UP WITH THIS ONE ARM SHIT??? WHY WOULD SHE POST THAT IF IT WERENT A CRY FOR ATTENTION???


KAYNE
 
KAYNE said:



IF SHE REALLY WANTED TO JUST LEAVE, WHY BRING MORE ATTENTION TO YOURSELF. AS I UNDERSTAND IT, SHE IS WORRIED ABOUT SOMETHING PERTAINING TO THIS BOARD. SHE SHOULD JUST LEAVE!!!

AND WHATS UP WITH THIS ONE ARM SHIT??? WHY WOULD SHE POST THAT IF IT WERENT A CRY FOR ATTENTION???


KAYNE
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KAYNE!!!!! :splat:


In all honesty, I have seen several women come here and "vent" about their problems.. And I notice it freaks the guys on this board out... They become psychos, looking for attention whatever..

Well, that is what females do. We vent when we are frustrated. Gotta love us though.. I bet being able to vent, instead of holding everything inside, is one big reason why women live longer than men

;) ;)
 
JUST LIKE BIKINIMOM VENTED IN HER COURT PROCEEDINGS ABOUT ELITE??? OR SO I HEAR.



I ALSO HEAR THAT DREAD LADY WAS GOING TO INVOLVED THE LAW WITH SOMETHING OR ANOTHER THAT HAD TO DO WITH ELITE. THATS NOT VENTING.


KAYNE
 
what is it then???

stress does strange stuff to people..

I don't know the whole story either- I doubt anyone here does. People read a few threads and make complete judgements on a person's life...
 
I'M NOT MAKING ANY JUDGEMENTS ON ANYONE.



I HAVE BEEN MAJOR STRESSED OUT FOR OVER 3 YEARS (LONG STORY) AND I DONT DO THOSE THINGS.



KAYNE
 
KAYNE said:
I'M NOT MAKING ANY JUDGEMENTS ON ANYONE.



I HAVE BEEN MAJOR STRESSED OUT FOR OVER 3 YEARS (LONG STORY) AND I DONT DO THOSE THINGS.



KAYNE
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It's because we are all wacky:insane: :insane:

Just ask Frackal...
 
starfish said:



It's because we are all wacky:insane: :insane:

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YOU'LL GET NO ARGUMENTS OUT OF ME ON THAT ONE. I CAN ATTEST TO THAT FROM FIRST HAND EXPERIENCE ALSO!!!


KAYNE
 
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