Long distance relationship people

[Dial_tone]

Do you worry about their safety much? I rarely call my FB during the week but she's almost always on AIM so I know she's alive. Anytime I don't see her online for 4-5 hours i'm immediately thinking she's in a roadside ditch somewhere bleeding profusely. She travels alot for work. I tell her if you're not gonna be on send me an email or call me beforehand....but she doesn't always remember. I know she's s tough chick and can handle her business but it drives me NUTS.

 

[starfish]

You should go see her and give her some Dial Tone special attention.

 

[nvrbuffenuff_girl]

Yes! My boyfriend usually works 2- 10 Sun.-Tues. and 4-10 Fri. and Sat. I usually call him at 10:30 on days he is off at 10 or 12:30 on days he is off at 12. If he doesn;t answer his phone my first thought is usually that maybe he didn't hear it, or he stayed at work a bit later. I'll leave a message and if he doesn't call back for several hours I start to freak out. My mind wonders everywhere. I wonder if he is hurt, dead, in the basement at his garage where no one would ever find him, etc. I really start to worry when it's past 3 am and I still haven't heard from him.

Usually it's just that he has gone out for a drink with friends or something similar.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

yeah im protective of people i care about like that. i get really annoyed when they leave their mobile phone behind

few times ive gone out looking, and they were doing dumb crap like reading a book in a park

 

[Dial_tone]

It's kinda weird because she and I aren't really "out" to her family/friends so I might not even find out if she has an accident. I know her parents have a list of people who they're supposed to contact if something happens (and I'm on it) but they might be too distraught to think about it.

 

[starfish]

It's kinda weird because she and I aren't really "out" to her family/friends so I might not even find out if she has an accident. I know her parents have a list of people who they're supposed to contact if something happens (and I'm on it) but they might be too distraught to think about it.

If I was in an accident or something bad happenned to me, it would be a long time/maybe days before biteme would know. I don't know how he would find out if I could not talk to him.

I can relate.

 

[jnuts]

Ugh, try deploying across the world for a few months.

 

[Austin316]

hmmmm we are good about letting each other know before hand whats up, sometimes forget but usually aware of whats going on with the other. If something does go wrong or feels off, I can always call her house and find out from her mom or something I guess

 

[The_Ghost]

Yes I am worried about her and her son all the time when I am not in their city with them.

 

[PBR]

DT if thats her in your avatar, you have nothing to worry about....LOL

 

[Smurfy]

what's FB??

I don't necessarily "worry" unless I have reason to.

 

[gonelifting]

FB= Fullback

Dialtone is going out with a football player. jk

I hate to have to put jk!

 

[powerslave]

what's FB??

FB=Fuck Buddy

 

[Smurfy]

ohhhhhhh. ok i get it.

DT, if youre that worried about her after only 4-5 hours, then perhaps she is more than a FB? or are you in denial?

 

[Carmen]

Do you worry about their safety much? I rarely call my FB during the week but she's almost always on AIM so I know she's alive. Anytime I don't see her online for 4-5 hours i'm immediately thinking she's in a roadside ditch somewhere bleeding profusely. She travels alot for work. I tell her if you're not gonna be on send me an email or call me beforehand....but she doesn't always remember. I know she's s tough chick and can handle her business but it drives me NUTS.

awwwwww.
thats cute.

 

[PHATchik]

Honey, I worry about people who aren't even far away. I'm a worrier by nature.

Long-distance...I'm even worse, but I'm not that hard to deal with. Yes, I'm lying, but I promise I make up for it.

 

[velvett]

As a rule I don't general worry about people nor do I wish for people to worry about me when I'm not around.

No word is the good word.

 

[PHATchik]

As a rule I don't general worry about people nor do I wish for people to worry about me when I'm not around.

No word is the good word.

See, I don't like to be worried about, but I will worry. Damn double standards. lol.

 

[Dial_tone]

As a rule I don't general worry about people nor do I wish for people to worry about me when I'm not around.

No word is the good word.

She's like you; she doesn't want to be worrried about either and her independance is part of the attraction. I don't worry about things she has control over, but she has no control over a semi running her off the road.

 

[velvett]

She's like you; she doesn't want to be worrried about either and her independance is part of the attraction. I don't worry about things she has control over, but she has no control over a semi running her off the road.

Well, since she does travel a lot you could send her a laminated card with all your contact information and a title to let's someone know in the event of an accident that you should be called. Have her leave it in her glove box or preferably in her wallet behind her driver's license.

As a side thought...

People need to spend less time worrying and more time actually being there for someone when they really are in need. I've noticed that most people are all talk about being family or like family but when it really comes to coming through when times are bad they are no where to be found.

 

[alien amp pharm]

No long distance relationship here, but my GF had to drive to the beach this week. She's a little speed demon so it worries me considerbly, even though I told her to drive slowly.