Long day and night yesterday...

[Deleted member 33117]

The funeral was a travisty. His finance (who for all anyone knows was who pushed him over the edge) got up and make a speech about how happy she was, and how proud he would be that she was over her fear of public speaking becuase of the strength of his spirit that was now within her. She kept calling it her wedding day, she proceeded to walk down the isel by herself reading a poem that he wrote her once.

The pastor gave a long talk about end endless love and forgiveness of God. One of his cousins right after was saying how meaningless it was. Alot of us changed clothes and put on a tank top and shorts and went to his grandparent's house where everyone was invited to eat. I sat with my friends (and a couple people I have not seen in over 5 years...who partied with us last night as well) in a back room chatting. His finace walked in, mentioned that I was at muscular as he always said, and he wasn't lying, much to the amusement of all my friends, she started hitting on me, asking if should could touch my arms and chest then didn't want to leave and kept telling me she would see me again. That was a rather embarassing moment for me, and I did my best to not agg the situation on. Her finance just blew his fucking brains out, and she had just flipped out and made a speech about today being her wedding day and they were now soul mates forever, and she was hitting on me, in front of everyone. Ok, yeah I admit I was trying to get info on a couple of girls there, and was checking girls out. However this seemed to bring a smile to the face of my friend who's brother's funeral this was..."Damn Jason..only you would be trying to get laid at a funeral... "But he smiled from ear to ear when he said it.

My best friend and his finace got back together yesterday (she was the cousin of the deceased), so something good came out of all of this, however there was on incident in the hot tube last night where she sat on my lap and we got a bit more intimate that her looked comfortable with, but I controlled myself.

After visiting, we invited a few people over for drinks at my mom and dad's place in the jaccuzzi and pool. We partied until 5 am. But as usual...what goes on a one of BBF's parties stays at the party. I need to be heading back to college station soon. I really need to get back in teh gym after a few days off, and get back on my diet, tan, and get laid. Hope my friend is ok. He is still passed out with his wife in another bedroom here. I think last night did him some good.

 

[fyxgel2]

LOL, picking up chicks at a funeral?
engaged chicks? causing conflict between a woman and her fiance?
j/k. its not your fault that you got the muscles.

Anyways, its interesting. I couldnt quite imagine partying after a funeral, since I've never done it, but I can see how it would perhaps ease the pain?

At funerals you will find a lot of messages about the love and forgiveness of God. Of course some people will say that it is meaningless, but I think that in general this is a good time to give a message like that since people are in a very serious mood and will be more receptive to such a message.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

LOL, picking up chicks at a funeral?
engaged chicks? causing conflict between a woman and her fiance?
j/k. its not your fault that you got the muscles.

Anyways, its interesting. I couldnt quite imagine partying after a funeral, since I've never done it, but I can see how it would perhaps ease the pain?

At funerals you will find a lot of messages about the love and forgiveness of God. Of course some people will say that it is meaningless, but I think that in general this is a good time to give a message like that since people are in a very serious mood and will be more receptive to such a message.

Well it was only about 10 or 11 people at the party, and it was in his honor, but yeah it got a bit on the wild side. Thank God my mom didn't wake up and come outside any time btween 1 and 4 am, or the party would have been over. LoL

Yeah, maybe it was a good time for the message, but it was not well recieved. Plus he said "God is love" over 20 times, literally. On the other hand, at something like this (funeral for a suicide of someone so young) nothing anyone says is going to make people feel better.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

hope things are all going well BBF. burying a loved one is hard enough, but i couldn't imagine laying someone to rest after a suicide. completely different and unfair to everyone involved.

and dude, can you make one post/thread that doesn't involve sex in any way shape or form? seriously man. damn.

anyway, hope things are all going as smooth as they can be considering the circumstances. give it some time and the wounds will heal, that's about all you can do.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

hope things are all going well BBF. burying a loved one is hard enough, but i couldn't imagine laying someone to rest after a suicide. completely different and unfair to everyone involved.

and dude, can you make one post/thread that doesn't involve sex in any way shape or form? seriously man. damn.

anyway, hope things are all going as smooth as they can be considering the circumstances. give it some time and the wounds will heal, that's about all you can do.

Thanks for kind words. As far as the sex thing goes, why don't you comment positively when I post several threads in a row that do not mention sex? A number of the guys on here say things like that about my sexual posts, but then totally ignore the fact that they just posted on several of my threads which did not involve sex. Do a search of my recent threads started, and you'll find some that do not have anything to do with sex. They involve feelign bad about my diet, about music, my parrot, etc.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

must've missed those posts/threads. just ribbin on ya a little anyway cause i know you can take it.

my words on the rest were sincere though. i wish you and friends and family of the deceased the best. hard to heal those wounds, but do what you can to help everyone out and you'll heal your own in the process.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

must've missed those posts/threads. just ribbin on ya a little anyway cause i know you can take it.

my words on the rest were sincere though. i wish you and friends and family of the deceased the best. hard to heal those wounds, but do what you can to help everyone out and you'll heal your own in the process.

Yeah, I knew they were sincere. I'm doing fine, and just wanted to be there forthose who needed the moral support. My efforts were appreciated, and my friend's mother mentioned several tiems she was glad i came down to spend time with Royce, and wanted me to keep an eye on him and just continue to be there for him while he is grieving for his brother.

 

[Moderate_THIS]

my parrot

Haha.. do you train the bird to say ego-boosting things like

*squak* You got a huge hog *squack*

or

*squak* let's get some pussy tonight *squak*

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Haha.. do you train the bird to say ego-boosting things like

*squak* You got a huge hog *squack*

or

*squak* let's get some pussy tonight *squak*

No, we work on his name, Legolas, "pretty bird", "cracker", "hello", etc. He is still a baby.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

oh yeah, the last post i saw about your birds was you saying how your mother chases it around saying "only christian girls" "no sex before marrige."

so see, still sex related


props for being there when others need you the most though. means a lot.

 

[EnderJE]

His finace walked in, mentioned that I was at muscular as he always said, and he wasn't lying, much to the amusement of all my friends, she started hitting on me, asking if should could touch my arms and chest then didn't want to leave and kept telling me she would see me again.

That phrase kinda creeped me out.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

His finace walked in, mentioned that I was at muscular as he always said, and he wasn't lying, much to the amusement of all my friends, she started hitting on me, asking if should could touch my arms and chest then didn't want to leave and kept telling me she would see me again.

That phrase kinda creeped me out.

Uh, YEAH! WTF!?!

 

[Deleted member 33117]

That phrase kinda creeped me out.

Yeah, she was creeping me out a bit also. I and Jeremey were commenting to each other very quietly that she "has lost it" when she was walking around during he service saying to everyone "thank you for coming to my wedding". This entire conversation with her was very uncomfortable for me.

 

[-SD-]

Yeah, she was creeping me out a bit also. I and Jeremey were commenting to each other very quietly that she "has lost it" when she was walking around during he service saying to everyone "thank you for coming to my wedding". This entire conversation with her was very uncomfortable for me.

she will forever be psychotic

 

[EnderJE]

I would HATE to be the next guy.

"Uh yeah, my last girlfriend left me at the alter. What about you..?"

[2 HOURS PASS]

"CHECK PLEASE!!"

 

[Deleted member 33117]

I would HATE to be the next guy.

"Uh yeah, my last girlfriend left me at the alter. What about you..?"

[2 HOURS PASS]

"CHECK PLEASE!!"

Dude, you missed the thread. Her boyfriend did not leave her at the alter. He shot himself in the head tuesday afternoon. She did this at his funeral. She was calling his funeral her wedding.

 

[EnderJE]

Dude, you missed the thread. Her boyfriend did not leave her at the alter. He shot himself in the head tuesday afternoon. She did this at his funeral. She was calling his funeral her wedding.

No, I got it the first time.

The comment was supposed to be a vain attempt at humour. The guy would say that his last girlfriend dumped him at the alter where your friend would say something to the effect that her boyfriend shot himself on the "wedding day."

After the story was completed (I would think about two hours), the guy would realize what a potential nutjob the girl (and I mean that in a nice way given what she went through) would be and quickly ask for the cheque.

That's all.