lets talk about the X

[Frisky]

do you have a hard time shaking him/her off?

Does he/she still think there is a chance in hell that you'll hook up?

what does it take to get it thru their thick skull that there is nothing there.. its not gonna happen?

Aside from being brutal, blunt and honest? Which, believe me i have been.. what the hell do i have to do?

 

[mrplunkey]

File and move down to the basement.

Now in your case, if you're having a guy you really want to run off, just tell him:

1) You don't love him anymore
2) There is no chance you two will ever emotionally or physically connect again
3) You are looking forward to meeting new people
4) You're not looking back regardless, so he's wasting his time doing so as well

 

[Frisky]

File and move down to the basement.

Now in your case, if you're having a guy you really want to run off, just tell him:

1) You don't love him anymore
2) There is no chance you two will ever emotionally or physically connect again
3) You are looking forward to meeting new people
4) You're not looking back regardless, so he's wasting his time doing so as well

check
check
check
check

and then?

lol,

 

[Dial_tone]

leave the window blinds open next time you're riding your current man...hook a brotha up with the addy too.

 

[Scotsman]

check
check
check
check

and then?

lol,

Double tap .45 to the back of the dome.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[Frisky]

leave the window blinds open next time you're riding your current man...hook a brotha up with the addy too.

lol

i've been in the leave the windows open kinda mood lately and freaking forget, i think my neighbor got a whole eye full night before last when i was getting all prepped up to go out


lol

 

[Frisky]

Double tap .45 to the back of the dome.

Cheers,
Scotsman

i bet the Ruger would shake him a bit. lol

its insane, like wtf? You have a damn girlfriend for gawds sake. Isn't she doing a good enough job? For fucks sakes, ive told her once already (yes i have) she needs to kick it up a notch. If its that damn bad dump the ho and move on.

lol

 

[biteme]

Show him this thread. He probably thinks that deep down inside you at least still want to fuck him. Men think like that. Hard for him to believe that you had sex with him for several years and now you would never want to again. Like all of the sudden you find him physically unappealing and it has nothing to do with the emotional side of it.

 

[Phaded]

the drug?

 

[Frisky]

Show him this thread. He probably thinks that deep down inside you at least still want to fuck him. Men think like that. Hard for him to believe that you had sex with him for several years and now you would never want to again. Like all of the sudden you find him physically unappealing and it has nothing to do with the emotional side of it.

i've verbally told him

i don't play games with him, never have. Yet after two years he still tries.. gess the sex was that damn good lolo

 

[mrplunkey]

check
check
check
check

and then?

lol,

Then ignore his calls, his emails or any other attempts to contact you.

If you share mutual friends, sincerely tell them how much you enjoy being away from him. Don't let him "network" his way to you through them.

 

[hotzie]

tell him you have herpes













































atleast that way you dont have to lie to him

 

[biteme]

i've verbally told him

i don't play games with him, never have. Yet after two years he still tries.. gess the sex was that damn good lolo

It must have been. For him at least. My ex was great in bed, but the other day she looked like she swallowed a cow. I was very surprised.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

Everything She Wants

Uh huh huh...
Oh yeah...
Work...work...

Somebody told me,
Boy, everything she wants is everything she sees...
I guess I must have loved you.
’cause I said you were the perfect girl for me,
Maybe...
But now we’re six months older...
And everything you want and everything you see,
Is out of reach...not good enough...
I don’t know what the hell you want from me but boy...

Uh huh huh...
Oh...oh...
Uh huh huh...
Doo doo doo...
La la la la...

Somebody tell me,
Won’t you tell me...
Why I work so hard for you?
All to give you money
All to give you money...

Some people work for a living,
Some people work for fun,
Girl, I just work for you.
They told me marriage was a give and take,
Well, show me you can take you’ve got some giving to do.
And now you tell me that you’re having my baby,
I’ll tell you that I’m happy if you want me to...
One step further and my back will break,
If my best isn’t good enough
Than how can it be good enough for two?
I can’t work any harder than I do...

Somebody tell me,
Won’t you tell me...
Why I work so hard for you?
All to give you money,
All to give you money...

Oh...
Why do I do the things I do?
I’d tell you if I knew.
My god...
I don’t even think that I love you....
Won’t you tell me...
Tell me...tell me...tell me...

How could you settle for a boy like me,
When all I could see was the end of the week...
All the things we sign,
And the things we buy,
Ain’t gonna keep us together...
It’s just a matter of time.

My situation,
Never changes.
Walking in that manner through that door,
Like a stranger,
But the wages...
I give you all you say you want is love...

And all I can see is the end of the week,
All the things we sign,
And the things we buy,
Ain’t gonna keep us together...
Girl, it’s just a matter of time.

 

[EnderJE]

1) Tell him that you have Herpes.
2) Have a heart to heart talk to him about it and tell him no.
3) Ask him what you have to do to him to get him to realize that you're not coming back.

 

[EnderJE]

4) Shoot him.

 

[theoak01]

some people are just to thick, my ex tells me she will cling to hope no matter what,and I just keep reminding her that it isnt happening ever

 

[EnderJE]

some people are just to thick, my ex tells me she will cling to hope no matter what,and I just keep reminding her that it isnt happening ever

1) Shoot her.

 

[theoak01]

1) Shoot her.

im a peaceful man

 

[EnderJE]

im a peaceful man

1) Wing her.

 

[theoak01]

1) Wing her.

english?

 

[GoldenDelicious]

i've verbally told him

i don't play games with him, never have. Yet after two years he still tries.. gess the sex was that damn good lolo

more like he wants to have sex and actually get to orgasm if you ask me

 

[RADAR]

Shit! Frisky! He has been doing this at least as long as i have talked to you (2 yrs i believe) say HELLOOOOOOO! .........not gonna happen, persistent bugger-i guess he realized now he made a major mistake ,too bad! tell him to quit dwelling on it!


RADAR



Oh! and hi!

 

[Frisky]

i can't cut off all ties to him, we have kids together. Sometimes my son and daughter want him to come over to visit etc. I would never deny my kids that. Ever!

Yes Radar, for two years now... same thing. I've actually befriended his girlfriend and feel sorry for her.

 

[EnderJE]

english?

Don't kill her with the shot. Just wing her.

Or better yet, go all psycho analysis on her (ie Dr Phil). They love that shit.

 

[SoreArms]

I'm still in love with the memories of both my ex's (only been in two serious relationships), neither were bad break ups and I remained friends with both. I still keep in touch with one and the flame rekindles every so often but I always wind up realizing why we broke up and why it won't and didn't work.

 

[Smurfy]

My ex still makes comments to me when I see him and we've been split up for well over 5 yrs. I call it being pathetic. Anytime he makes any comment to me that doesnt have anything directly to do with our son, I just tell him to STFU (literally). and also, you MUST IGNORE them when they start their shit. Giving them any amount of attention (even negative attention) is not good if you truly want it to stop. So you need to get to a point where he doesnt matter outside of co-parenting the children. I have to hang up on my ex a lot because he is so damn annoying and I have nothing to say to him . just BYE <click!>

 

[EnderJE]

I don't get it. I mean I'm civil to my exs and there's never been a confrontation or a moment of awkwardness (other then that one who thought we were still dating after a few years of no contact). Why would it go badly? If both realize it was going badly, then wouldn't it be natural for both to stop with the communications?

lmao @ that one ex, good memories...

 

[velvett]

Dear X,

If it was not for the children we made and raise together you would cease to exist in my life.

ps. Yes, that means you.


Your X (not your next)

 

[Smurfy]

Dear X,

If it was not for the children we made and raise together you would cease to exist in my life.

ps. Yes, that means you.


Your X (not your next)

exactly. but words do not carry as much weight as actions. so to say one thing and then to do another, sends the wrong message.

 

[Frisky]

Dear X,

If it was not for the children we made and raise together you would cease to exist in my life.

ps. Yes, that means you.


Your X (not your next)

lol

printed, dated, signed and mailed

 

[slat1]

I have found it does not matter if I am the culprit of the break up or they are... they always come back. Its for one thing... SEX.
I usually go for it. But not the normal stuff we had when we dated. I go strait to the filthy, rotten, dirty, circus style shit that makes me the sick bastard that I am.
They still come back so the cycle starts over.

 

[big4life]

I have a friend who was divorced, with a little girl. Her ex was seeing someone, so was she. Then my friend's ex came up with an idea. He told her that unless she took him back that he was going to merry the girl he was seeing. She told him to go ahead and marry his gf, and two weeks later he got married, all to make his ex wife jealous.

 

[EnderJE]

I have a friend who was divorced, with a little girl. Her ex was seeing someone, so was she. Then my friend's ex came up with an idea. He told her that unless she took him back that he was going to merry the girl he was seeing. She told him to go ahead and marry his gf, and two weeks later he got married, all to make his ex wife jealous.

And who says that romance is dead.

 

[Gambino]

i was real disappointed the other day when i saw that my ex lost about 20 lbs and was looking real hott...fuggin trickass bitch

 

[Frisky]

i was real disappointed the other day when i saw that my ex lost about 20 lbs and was looking real hott...fuggin trickass bitch

lol

i'm gonna shut my pie hole.

 

[flex229]

tell him you're with this new guy named flex229..

do you have a hard time shaking him/her off?

Does he/she still think there is a chance in hell that you'll hook up?

what does it take to get it thru their thick skull that there is nothing there.. its not gonna happen?

Aside from being brutal, blunt and honest? Which, believe me i have been.. what the hell do i have to do?