You arent very optimistic. Im sure you have a lot more to offer a worthy man then just being a trophy wife. Ive never met you but I know you are intelligent, classy, as well as beautiful. Unless the men you are meeting only seem to care about having a hot trophy on their arm, then you might have to be an old maid.
You just caught me on a down moment, while not frequent, they do exist - especially after a weekend of married friends, many many children & infants and two Baptisims.
The way my wife proposed to me was very creative: she threw a E.P.T pregnancy test at my face with two lines on it and said, you better marry me NOW!!!!!!!!
My wife called me on the phone and said she had someone she thought I should marry and I had to guess who it was. I knew who it was, but guessed everyone under the sun before saying her - just to annoy her. Months later I actually proposed to her formally and she said yes.
Interestingly, after my wife gave me the phone call, and before I asked her to marry me - another girl I had dated sent me a letter telling me that I was the type of guy she wanted to marry and that she had feelings for me (she also knew about my then to be wife, and told me that she hoped I would dump my wife to be)- although she did not come right out and say or write - "I want to marry you."
Actually, it says a lot about the assman because he lives in an area where females have higher standards because of the number of physically fit people in South Cuba.
Personally, I'm sick of my friends acting like I have a problem because I am not married yet. I guess not being married makes you defective or something.