OUCH! that must have hurt there Lifter.
What about a stay-at-home mom who busts HER ASS for her spouse and her family and DOESN'T EARN MONEY?! Should she then be THANKFULL that for her 24/7 thankless job she gets a roof over her head?!
PUH-LEASE!
I am thinking if the guy is smart, then he should have money. But for purposes of the poll if I could only choose one and the two were mutually exclusive I would say:
MONEY.
It is bad enough to have to go through life putting up with a man's shit, but then to not even be compensated ?! Ummmm I don't think so.
As for brains.... since when does a college degree necessarily MEAN that a man is smart?! I would be happy as a pig in shit w/a man who did "ok", treated me with kindness and respect and loved and supported me for who I am.
Now who's to say that I can't have it all?
If I EVER choose to put the marital noose around my neck again he would have to be VERY SMART, VERY KIND, and have enough money that I wouldn't have to buy store brand peanut butter. God, I HATE THAT SHIT!
Actually..... I hear that there are surgeons out there that are BOTH SMART AND HAVE MONEY! tee-hee