Just another classic example of how fucked up my ex is...

[Werd]

The more my kids tell me, the more I want to slit my ex's entire families throats.

Now I hear that their cousins are making rude and degrading remarks about me to my kids. My kids don't tell their father because "daddy doesn't care".

My kids also told me that daddy asked them, "If daddy and your Uncle *Blah Blah* (my sis's husband who has been a surrogate dad to them since they were born) were drowning who would you save?" Of course, my kids can't answer so one of them says, "I would try to find a way to save you both." My fucking ex actually got pissed off at them and reamed them out for that answer!

"I AM YOUR FATHER! I TAKE CARE OF YOU! DON'T YOU LOVE ME?!"

I don't want to think what things will be like if I am not awarded custody. What will be will be. We will deal with that situation should it arise.

 

[havoc]

Sounds like the kids are more mature.

 

[from zero]

What a good citizen.

 

[Longhorn85]

Do you think that it is likely you will obtain custody?

 

[havoc]

Also, "the more I want to slit my ex's entire families throats", you should probably delete this, not very cool to say.

 

[Werd]

Sounds like the kids are more mature.

I told them that if their cousins on that side or any of daddy's friend's kids say anything rude to them about me or our family, etc to simply say, "You hurt my feelings. I don't want to play with you." And to go to their rooms till the company leaves or to call me and I will come and get them if their father allows (which, of course, he won't).

Every day I hear so much fucked up shit I want to vomit. Never in a million years did I ever EVER think they could be THIS fucked up.

 

[jerseyart]

Make sure someone other than you is evidencing this for the custody hearing werdo. Your attorney will have a much better comprehension as to the impact, but all these things can't bolster his case.

 

[KillahBee]

The more my kids tell me, the more I want to slit my ex's entire families throats.

Now I hear that their cousins are making rude and degrading remarks about me to my kids. My kids don't tell their father because "daddy doesn't care".

My kids also told me that daddy asked them, "If daddy and your Uncle *Blah Blah* (my sis's husband who has been a surrogate dad to them since they were born) were drowning who would you save?" Of course, my kids can't answer so one of them says, "I would try to find a way to save you both." My fucking ex actually got pissed off at them and reamed them out for that answer!

"I AM YOUR FATHER! I TAKE CARE OF YOU! DON'T YOU LOVE ME?!"

I don't want to think what things will be like if I am not awarded custody. What will be will be. We will deal with that situation should it arise.

you're too hot to have to deal with this shit - best of luck with it. Scumbag dads are the worst.

 

[Werd]

Also, "the more I want to slit my ex's entire families throats", you should probably delete this, not very cool to say.

I do not have a violent bone in my body. I would never EVER EVER raise my hand to hurt another, no matter how much they deserved it EVER... I am only venting. PERIOD.

If I were to engage in violence it would make me no better than those whom I destest so much, not to mention the fact that I would most certainly face inceration essentially orphaning my children. My children mean EVERYTHING TO ME - no bunch of assholes will ever make me lose sight of that.

 

[Werd]

Do you think that it is likely you will obtain custody?

I have excellent reason to believe I will, however, we have gotten so fucked by my trusting my ex in the past (now we do NOT) that we (my family and I) are preparing for the worst.

Eventually they will all come to be with me. My oldest is only 12 so she must wait till she is 14 before she can tell her father to fuck off (if that is what she wishes - if not, then there is no problem C'est nes pas?). We will wait until the end of time if we have to in order to be together. No amount of bullshit from my ex can possibly stand in our way forever.