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Ive got a situation with my girlfriend, need advice.

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She may have to move out of town to get a job, we have talked and she has said if possible for me to move with her and start over together wherever she gets her job (it will be a high paying IT job). I would be uprooting and leaving EVERYTHING behind for a girl that loves me and I love her but weve only been together a month, otherwise Id do itn a heartbeat. Ive made the mistake of not holding onto a girl before and it hurt me for a long time and now Im torn between my heart and common sense. I could start over in a new city becasue Im not established here, I jsut want some input.
 
Whoa..deja vu...I say, if you really love her, and you're not sacrificing your own future, do it, what do you have to lose?
 
Dude, if your not that settled where you are right now, and you truly love this women, then go

You only live once!
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I say go for it man. Just sit yourself down and think honestly, what do you have to lose? some, alot, not much?

I personally wouldn't want to stay in a city only because of family/friends. I don't have a problem of the thought of starting completely over in a different city, as I have done it before. No regrets.
 
Too soon. Family and friends will always be there for you. Chicks won't. Proven fact. Try the long distance thing for a while. See how it affects you both, if you're miserable without her after a few months or so, then yeah, I'd consider leaving.
 
dave, if you have friends and family in your town i would think really hard about it. if it doesn't work out months down the line you'll regret it. just call the psychic hotline for only 3.95 a minute
 
If you don't go, and you lose the relationship in the process, you always going to be haunted by "What if..." go with your gut, it's usually right
 
If you have nothing to lose where you're at now, then do it. But if there is family and friends that you're leaving behind, then think hard about it. If you truly love her, you'll know what the right choice would be.
 
If you don't go, and you lose the relationship in the process, you always going to be haunted by "What if..." go with your gut, it's usually right
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Ive been haunted by what ifs before, I wont let it happen again.
 
Hello superdave

Remember one thing your Family is always there for you and if they are your Friends they will be there for you to.
If you go you always have them if it doesn't workout and you go back.

If you really love her then go and try it :)

Good Luck
 
Dave I say go for it....Of course your brother will have to adapt to not having you around but something tells me he's due for some change as well
 
The real question is...have you farted in bed yet and she is still dating you. That is the true test of love!
 
I wouldn't do it after only one month. If you two are really tight then you'll stay together despite the distance and work something out eventually. If you break up, you'll be in that town just because you chased after some chick you'd only known a month.
 
Dave,

Go for it.

Here's a cosmic view: eventually, you;re going to be dead. Rich or poor, you end up the same.

So you might as well have some adventure, take some risks, and live a little. If it fails, then it fucking fails....so what?

On a personal note, tell her to come to NY. Her skill set would be in demand here.
 
Been there, Done that... It didn't work out and I moved back to my hometown a year later.

Do it... As long as you can risk leaving your current job and get another one there and when/if you have to move back home if you need to ..
 
Almost everyone here says go for it, wow. People Ive talked to say go for it also, thats a good sign. I think Ive been where Im at for so long that Ive gotten in a rut in life and need fresh air. The only problem is I would have to drop all my classes at school and start somewhere in the new town. I think my financial aid will be cancelled if I do that unless anyone knows about that.
 
You can always apply for financial aid at the other school. Don't let that be an excuse for why you wouldn't take this wonderful opportunity.

What do you have to lose, Dave?
 
well, it is too late for you to really get the fin. aid transferred elsewhere - at least for this semester.

I think you could get in somewhere during the Spring semester if you apply NOW and get the FAFSA shit sent to them ASAP, it could definitely work out, but you probably wont get any for this seester simply due to time constraint, unless she can support you until you get it worked out with whatever college u might go to.

curious where you are going?
 
Well, another thing you could do, would be to go there and work for this semester.

Like DL said...apply for aid in the spring...work hard this semester and save as much money as you can. Then...you will be set for the next semester of school.
 
I would definetely have to work this semester, its too late to register anywhere in Dallas. My best bet is to register for next spring. She is willing to support me until I get a job which will be easy there. What are the junior colleges and universities, dread?
 
If you do move, I suggust you go ahead and work this semester for the money - just in case something happens and you have to move back, you need money for that or anything else that comes up.
 
Dave to me it doesn't matter how long you have known her. If you look deep inside yourself and you know you really love her GO!! Take the advice of myself and some of the others on here who are older and have made mistakes in their life. You don't wanna look back and say, what if I woulda.....

Good luck in whatever you decide bro.
 
In Dallas:

Southern Methodist University
http://www.usnews.com/usnews/edu/college/directory/drglance_3613.htm

decent school, secomd tier, fairly expensive, but you should get a decent, reputable-enough degree there

University of Texas - Dallas
http://www.usnews.com/usnews/edu/college/directory/drglance_9741.htm

Of course, decent, but not as recognizable as Austin campus - only makes a difference if you stay in State. Not as good - third tier, but it's cheap and you get the UT name!


As far as I know, those are the major universities. I am sure there are community colleges and alternative "colleges" out the asssss, but I wouldn't count on getting a decent degree from them, which I assume, is your ultimate goal.

How many hours do you have?
 
I would need a junior college like ACC for a semester or two before I shell out big money because I think Im going ot go into Information technology instead of engineering. I have 45 credit hours, sophomore.
 
Dude 1 month???

Ok , im not going to bore you with the horror stories of friends that have fallen in love and found out within a few months that it was just heartburn...

Hey man if youre the type that can pick up easily and start a life over somehwere else then go ahead. But I cannot even begin to tell you of the horror stories..

I myself moved in with my ex of 2 years , I was kicking and screaming the whole way. 3 months after we moved in she turned psycotic on me. I moved out and ended it shortly after that. Point im making is even after 2 years I didnt know the girl all that well to move into her.

Unless you guys were friends, and I mean longterm prior to the relationship, then no way Id say rethink it man...
 
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