It's seems as though KB is mortal afterall.....ex GF pwns me sorta

[heatherrae]

she is just testing that she's still "got it" No harm meant, I'm sure.

 

[KillahBee]

Who broke it off, perhaps she's trying to rekindle things or maybe she needs to know that she still has control over you

We both kind of did. But then we got into a huge argument where she basically told me she hated me and I told her I slept with her fridn a week after she left.

Here are the answers:
A) she truly did love me and I loved her, she hadn't experienced that and thought she could just walk away from it like she had with other relationships. now she still has a little love there and just doesn't want to let go 100%
B) I was fun as fuck - we were fun as fuck. she misses me as a friend and the fun times we had together
C) she wants the vaildation that I still think of her and that she can still get me to email her on command

no harm for either party, really.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Man, no matter how much I rationalize the situation and 100% know exactly what is going on, I seem to fall into the obvious traps she sets every damn time.

She will send me random emails like every great now and then just saying hi or with some really random message.

Today's: "hi" was the subject and "you needa write" was in the body

now, I 100% know that she is doing this cause she seeks validation and also wants to know that I am still sitting here ready to write back to her. but fuck me standing, I still write back.

why, KB? why do you do this? what is it about this one fucking broad (fyi - she's a 9.5, hands down) that makes you abandon your trustworthy logic and control?


:crybaby:

It's teh poonanny.

 

[Smurfy]

why not just rekindle?

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

lol, she sent me this pic once when I was in a bad mood. such a fucking cutie

you're right, scots. it pisses me off more though, that I answer her emails. don't get me wrong, we both know it's a game and we both play it like that, but it's one of the few times my rational thought loses out to stupid emotions.

We'd all be biologically-based terminators if we weren't emotional. This goes for everyone.


Except maybe Michael Myers.

You see what I mean right... human nature.

 

[Mr. Black]

Reply to her refering to her as some other girl's name. Then write a bunch of random shit that has to do with this "other girl". She'll then reply saying WTF, then say sorry you got your girls mixed up.

 

[KillahBee]

why not just rekindle?

a) not in the mindset for a relationship at all right now
b) she is not ready for a relationship


Let's be honest here peeps - while I totally dug the chick, moreso than any girl I can remember, I just don't want to close the door 100% when I know the nani will be available and within hitting distance someday

and hansel - yeah, I agree.

 

[H_T_]

eh, this chick'll be around for the next 15 years, i bet. even if she's married, any dude who can pull regualr tang will find himself with a few of these girls throughout his life. on and off, off and on. sometimes it takes a while to figure shit out. but the more often you do this with her, the easier it becomes to go back to her. like heroin. AND....there are people out there who, by asking, "How are you?" are, in actuality, wanting to know how bad you are doing/if you're doing bad/or are you more miserable than they are right now?

 

[KillahBee]

eh, this chick'll be around for the next 15 years, i bet. even if she's married, any dude who can pull regualr tang will find himself with a few of these girls throughout his life. on and off, off and on. sometimes it takes a while to figure shit out. but the more often you do this with her, the easier it becomes to go back to her. like heroin. AND....there are people out there who, by asking, "How are you?" are, in actuality, wanting to know how bad you are doing/if you're doing bad/or are you more miserable than they are right now?

agreed on all counts. I think it's a mix of a few things, part of it being just that. I made the mistake of showing my cards too early with this chick AND treating her much too well, so she wants to test and see if it's still there. but, I won;t give that to her again, which is going to start a sad cycle of her pushing for it more, me not giving it to her, her pushing for it....and on and on we go. the typical cat-string theory we all know works so well with children and women.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

OOOOOOOOOOh KB's in LOVE I knew you were getting soft on us