Is trusting women hard these days????

[Night Fly]

I had to say yes on this one cause I am a woman, and I don't even trust women! LOL....it's pretty pitiful actually. They are the most 2 faced mammals on the face of the earth, I do believe.

 

[bignate73]

lol. the only 2 faced mammal to walk the earth......

WOMAN!

hehe good one my flygirly

 

[Night Fly]

Hehe...yeah, Nate...what can I say. It's kind of late out here. 3:40 to be exact. My ass should be in bed, but it's too cold...no one to share it with. Any suggestions?

 

[Austin316]

cold huh? its been in the upper 30's here all week and raining, now thats cold

 

[CLEMDOG]

I completely agree, women you can completely trust are becoming a dying breed. I've had my bad luck with picking the wrong girls. One of my ex's I absolutely fell for and still till this day miss her (about 1 1/2 yrs since I've seen her). She ended up being bisexual and I found out she had done some extensive cheating on me. But she was incredible, she was beautiful and funny and easy to be with. I still miss her. Well it seems that this younger girl I've been talking with likes to get around also. About a week ago I got some, its been a long time for me. I already knew she had been with one of my friends, then my best friend. I saw her at a party and she gave me her number. Well I hit it basically the first time we were together, so this obviously says something, even though she is so cute and innocent looking. I havent been with anyone for awhile, maybe its better that way until I find the perfect one for me, which I hope will come someday.

 

[Big Wiggs]

I can't even trust myself yet alone anyone else. I'll leave it like this I always expect the unexpected...

 

[Bikini Mod]

I dont want to make it a sexist post, but I mean you have to admit, females have changed for the worse these days (well, in my age group 18-24) because now they want to be like how guys use to be.

Girls want to be the players and be able to sleep around and just do what they want. In my opinion, I always wanted girls to be good and have those high standards or whatever cuz it'd make guys like me be good and be moral so I would be able to be with those kind of girls. Now that I've lived my whole life morally and I'm proud to say having no regrets or major mistakes, it seems like there are no girls like that left to trust.

You mean to tell me that you behave a certain way because of how OTHERS behave?

Your post is COMPLETELY SEXIST!....what is this "girls nowadays" BS? Why is it OK for a guy to be a player and do what they want to do, but not for a girl? What is good for one gender IS MOST CERTAINLY GOOD FOR THE OTHER!

There are definite differences between the sexes (praise God hehe) but "morality" (whatever the individual's definition may be) should NEVER be based on gender, but on what that individual's belief system is. In other words you should keep you pants zipped whether you are in possession of a penis OR vagina - PERIOD.

Now, before you all call me the freaking church lady (which I AIN'T)....I believe that we should all be held accountable for our own behaviour. Whether it is sleeping with someone on the first date (you run the risk of being degraded....if you do not feel degraded and you are fine w/pleasure, you protect yourself - BRING IT ON) or cheating on your income taxes (this, in effect is stealing from everybody......please no political BS here, yes, I know that all of our tax money does NOT go where it is supposed to) - understand what behaviour you are engaging in and realize the possible rammifications.

I believe brotha KDiesel - that it may have been a more accurate question to ask, "Do you find it more difficult to trust YOUNGER women these days?" When people are younger they tend to take more risks and not take life as seriously (not saying EVERYBODY, just generally), hence the higher rate of frivolous behavior. Notice my use of the word frivolous and not moral.....I try not to judge. We all have to make our own decisions and then we have to live with them.

Trust me when I tell you that you could go through your ENTIRE ADULT LIFE doing EVERYTHING morally correct, never wishing harm on anyone, loving your chosen one with your entire being - AND STILL END UP GETTING FUCKED. Would such events make me trust people in general less? Yes, it would tend to make me more cautious. But I am a trusting individual by nature. I do not have a suspicious bone in my body and when I HAVE to be on guard IT KILLS ME.

Whether and whom you decide to trust has nothing to do with gender (yes, of course, in affairs of the heart it does). But to make a blanket statement that women are less trustworthy than men?.....that is just plain ignorant. I mean, how would you know?....unless you ALSO DATED MEN?.....you would have NOTHING TO COMPARE IT TO - see what I mean?

 

[WODIN]

I missed you bkmom. Your such a tourch bearer!!! A sexy one at that!!! LOL!!!!

 

[cm3504jm]

I agree with Bmom,

I have spent my whole life dealing with people in hopes that they will act in a way that supports trust of them. I come from the old school that a deal is sealed with a handshake.

Yes, I have been screwed over.

Is there anybody I trust 100%? No way! But in order to succeed in business and also be happy in life there has to be a level of trust. The key is to recognize through communication with them if there can be that level of trust.

So I have few friends, but those I do have, I trust with my life.

Communicate constantly with someone and you will know if they can be trusted.

 

[cyberflash]

BikiniMOM,

since you're MOD .... why don't you edit Kak's post ... and insert the "Younger" ... I'm sure Kak won't mind

there is certain a generation gap in terms of what people "value" in life - trust, honor, and morale.

My ideal motto is :

"Nobility of Heart, Purity of Soul"

something I will work hard for ... but more and more difficult ot achieve in today's society...