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Is my girl a cheater?
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My girl has always had male friends since I first met her. She is very insecure about me being around other girls, because she thinks I am a perv that is hypersexual and can't be around chicks without trying to screw them. She on the other hand, thinks it is ok to hang out with any male she chooses, and that they are "not like" me. I don't like the double standard here.
I need everyone's opinion on this. I think some of the shit she and these guys do is strange, but that is because I personally would never do this shit with a girl unless I was banging her or trying to.
For example, tonight she is at some dude's house and he is helping her with homework. That shit just sounds bad to begin with. I would never help a chick with her homework unless I was looking for a little action.
She goes to lunch today with another dude that is "so nice" and "would never try anything" with her. Sounds a little naive to me.
Guys drop by her house sometime to "see what's up", and she says that they "aren't interested in her, just friends".
I have come to a couple possible conclusions.
1) my chick is a cheating lying slutbag
2) These dudes she knows are gay as hell
3) she is really naive and these guys are real douche bags
What do yall think?
I need everyone's opinion on this. I think some of the shit she and these guys do is strange, but that is because I personally would never do this shit with a girl unless I was banging her or trying to.
For example, tonight she is at some dude's house and he is helping her with homework. That shit just sounds bad to begin with. I would never help a chick with her homework unless I was looking for a little action.
She goes to lunch today with another dude that is "so nice" and "would never try anything" with her. Sounds a little naive to me.
Guys drop by her house sometime to "see what's up", and she says that they "aren't interested in her, just friends".
I have come to a couple possible conclusions.
1) my chick is a cheating lying slutbag
2) These dudes she knows are gay as hell
3) she is really naive and these guys are real douche bags
What do yall think?
i think it may be a combination of all three. she sounds like an attention whore, and the other guys are her toys. you are also one of her toys. start going out with someone else while you are still going with her, have her find out, and then immediately dump her. you can dump the other girl if you want to at this point or continue seeing her if she is better then your soon to be former
great first post though
Zander1983
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All of the guys definately want to bang her. Her intentions and naivety are a little more debatable, but I'd be seriously considering your options if I were you.
calveless wonder said:
good advice. and if all signs point to her being guilty, call her a cheating lying slutbag
Yea, I am too cheap to go platinum, but I sometimes leave the board for more than three weeks at a time, and I lose my name. I have had 4 or 5 of them, all having 50-150 posts. so this is really not a first for me.
My chick really did need help with her homework tonight, so maybe she really did innocently think that some english major fag would help her write a paper without trying to bang her.
Oh well, I'll never really know.
My chick really did need help with her homework tonight, so maybe she really did innocently think that some english major fag would help her write a paper without trying to bang her.
Oh well, I'll never really know.
calveless wonder
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thats tricky......you gotta understand, most women are INCLINED to cheat. especially more than men, just because of the fact they think on emotion and all rational thought escapes them.
on the other hand...i know plenty of girls that have very few female friends and mostly hang out with guys. From my experience these girls have been the most faithful. These girls often send the wrong signals to guys because they're very friendly and open with them (i know because this happens alot lol)...So the guy may THINK she's interested but in actuallity he's just a "buddy". i'd try to meet these "guys" first and then try to get a reading of what vibe they give off. Maybe they're just pussy ass kissers trying to get some ass from her but she wants nothing to do with it. GIrls who hang out with alot of male friends always seem to be the hardest ones to attract(maybe because they have such a large selection), so you may be lucky.
i dont know how your girl is so i cant make a judgement but if a girl is cheating on you she will do ALOT to hide it. by openly telling you where she's going i think you may give her the benefit of the doubt. but like i said, meet these "friends" and make the decision for yourself
on the other hand...i know plenty of girls that have very few female friends and mostly hang out with guys. From my experience these girls have been the most faithful. These girls often send the wrong signals to guys because they're very friendly and open with them (i know because this happens alot lol)...So the guy may THINK she's interested but in actuallity he's just a "buddy". i'd try to meet these "guys" first and then try to get a reading of what vibe they give off. Maybe they're just pussy ass kissers trying to get some ass from her but she wants nothing to do with it. GIrls who hang out with alot of male friends always seem to be the hardest ones to attract(maybe because they have such a large selection), so you may be lucky.
i dont know how your girl is so i cant make a judgement but if a girl is cheating on you she will do ALOT to hide it. by openly telling you where she's going i think you may give her the benefit of the doubt. but like i said, meet these "friends" and make the decision for yourself
A few weeks ago I offered to take the Throwing team on a trip an hour from here to watch a Highland Games contest. They ALL sounded thrilled to go...till a couple days before. The ONLY person who could go when the time came was this really cute 19 year old thrower...so I cancelled the trip.
Why did I cancel the trip? Because it flat out would not look good if I was seen out with another girl. Even though my girlfriend told me to go with the other girl and have fun because she trusted me FULLY...I still did not go because I felt that it would show DISRESPECT.
1) I don't know that girl very well and I do not know what she might say afterwards or what she might TRY to do there.
2) I don't know what others might THINK that they saw and might tell my girlfriend (would take an act of God but anyway..lol)
As a general rule...never go anywhere with just ONE woman if you are with someone else. Take AT LEAST 2 women (preferable with an age difference, one older) and it is always good to have another guy present...
I just think that what she is doing is disrespectful to you...especially if YOU have a problem with it.
I was staying at my girlfriend's house once (an old girlfriend) and at about 12:00 midnight a guy comes up the steps and knocks on her door. She opens the door and when he saw me in the house he took off running down the stairs and through the apt complex parking lot. Sound strange to anyone else???????
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Why did I cancel the trip? Because it flat out would not look good if I was seen out with another girl. Even though my girlfriend told me to go with the other girl and have fun because she trusted me FULLY...I still did not go because I felt that it would show DISRESPECT.
1) I don't know that girl very well and I do not know what she might say afterwards or what she might TRY to do there.
2) I don't know what others might THINK that they saw and might tell my girlfriend (would take an act of God but anyway..lol)
As a general rule...never go anywhere with just ONE woman if you are with someone else. Take AT LEAST 2 women (preferable with an age difference, one older) and it is always good to have another guy present...
I just think that what she is doing is disrespectful to you...especially if YOU have a problem with it.
I was staying at my girlfriend's house once (an old girlfriend) and at about 12:00 midnight a guy comes up the steps and knocks on her door. She opens the door and when he saw me in the house he took off running down the stairs and through the apt complex parking lot. Sound strange to anyone else???????
B True
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