If you THINK it's cheating then it is.
My buddy thinks if his girlfriend is having sex with another girl then its not cheating. If its a guy, then it is cheating. Personally, I think anything that involves clothes off and your spouse not in the room is cheating. But, that is how those two think of it.
My own personal rule is: if it involves bare skin from the neck down its cheating. If my BF thought kissing someone was cheating then he wouldn't be around for very long because my friends, male and female are very affectionate, both with me and him.
It all depends on what your personal moral ground is. The trick is to find someone who stands on the same hill.
My buddy thinks if his girlfriend is having sex with another girl then its not cheating. If its a guy, then it is cheating. Personally, I think anything that involves clothes off and your spouse not in the room is cheating. But, that is how those two think of it.
My own personal rule is: if it involves bare skin from the neck down its cheating. If my BF thought kissing someone was cheating then he wouldn't be around for very long because my friends, male and female are very affectionate, both with me and him.
It all depends on what your personal moral ground is. The trick is to find someone who stands on the same hill.