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smallmovesal
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good point fonz but if you're getting the green light signals i think it's ok 
Is it tacky
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AGENT SHAGWELL
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It depends. I don't like to get hit on at the gym, because I dont' want to be rude, and it takes time away from my lifting, tiem I dont' have to waste.
But if the girl is always approaching you, and starting up a conversation with you (not just a hi, how you doing....that common courtesy), then thats a sign she would be a good canidate to ask out.
But if you the one always doing the approaching, and she seems to be very into her workout. Then she's probably not looking to be asked out, at least not in the gym at that time.
P.S. Girls get just as fanatical about their workouts as you boys, so don't assume that you interupting hers to "chat" she will like.
But if the girl is always approaching you, and starting up a conversation with you (not just a hi, how you doing....that common courtesy), then thats a sign she would be a good canidate to ask out.
But if you the one always doing the approaching, and she seems to be very into her workout. Then she's probably not looking to be asked out, at least not in the gym at that time.
P.S. Girls get just as fanatical about their workouts as you boys, so don't assume that you interupting hers to "chat" she will like.
I think it's the same as anywhere else. If the girl likes you and thinks your goodlooking, she will probably be open to conversation. If she does'nt, then she probably will brush you off or not really give you the time of day. I look at it like this. If a nice looking girl that I found attractive approached me, I'd be excited to talk to her. If a girl that I didn't really find that attractive approached me, I really would'nt be all that excited, and it would show in my attitude. I would be nice, but not very open to discussion and mainly give one-word answers to her questions. It does'nt really matter where I am.
AGENT SHAGWELL
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Y_Lifter said:
Just remember to bring the loufa and after shower lotion
Thick....a side note to what you said....at the gym a girl might not notice you or talk to you because she's into her workout and doesn't have the time. That doesn't neccessarily mean she wouldn't be interested. Just at that time, she's not paying attention to men. This happens to me all the time at the gym. People I know will be in there and I dont' see them till I"m done with my work out. Its just your concentration is on something different.
So if your really want to know if a girl may be interested in you, maybe try approaching her when she is leaving, or waiting to use a machine?
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I agree, you probably shouldn't ask her out while she is in the middle of a set of squats. But while she is in line at the water fountain, or waiting for a machine or even on a cardio machine. That's how I once picked up a girl at the gym, got on the cardio machine next to her and struck up conversation. After a month we finally went out and she became my girlfreind for a few months. Of course, I lost about 10 lbs of muscle during the whole process from all the cardio.
AGENT SHAGWELL
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the juice bar...lol....needle, if a girl goes to the gym, and is hanging out at the juice bar, she's no seriously there to lift or workout....in my opinion the same goes for a guy
