is it ok for your spouse to (smurf and chris need not apply)

[zwhit]

I don't snoop my wife's shit and she doesn't snoop mine because there no reason to. She's seen some of my posts here that she was less than happy about though but because my dumbass left the ipad logged in

 

[WoodyO]

My wife used to snoop through all my stuff. Now she doesn't give a fuck what I do.

 

[zwhit]

what if the reason is the other person's insecurities? is that justification?

nah. i expect snooping if I fuck up and leave something around where curiosity will get the better of my wife though. I think that's human nature

 

[bigbassturd]

I'm furious.

Just furious.

 

[bigdeem]

If you have nothing to hide why would you care. Its nxodt a big deal

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[theoak01]

what if the reason is the other person's insecurities? is that justification?

That isnt a reason and someone acting out and being crazy based on their insecurities will only breed resentment and hate in the relationship. trust me I know,I have paid for my wifes insecurities for four years and six months,and we have been married five years. It can be pretty unbearable at times. She starts a fight because me arguing shows I care. Her words not mine,ahaha wow

 

[bigbassturd]

If you have nothing to hide why would you care. Its nxodt a big deal

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Who the fuck are you?

 

[SpyWizard]

we have full access.. do i look?? i have, find nothing and is a waste of time..

thus trust is increased

she's looked (she's a real stalker) finds nothing and doesn't look anymore..

*how do i know?? a key logger installed on a thumbdrive if you don't know what that is google.com ... gps locator installed on iphone... etc, it's oh too easy to keep tabs if you want/need to..

 

[jiggagold]

just goin against the grain here jigga?

i was being a shitfucker

actually i disagree, unless there a reason to go snooping i think it shows insecurity and weakness. I hate heauxs that go thru my stuff and find nothing and then we are nothing because shes one of "those crazy bitches" who is always on my nutsack so i gotta make her kick rocks

 

[shirlene29]

we have full access.. do i look?? i have, find nothing and is a waste of time..

thus trust is increased

she's looked (she's a real stalker) finds nothing and doesn't look anymore..

*how do i know?? a key logger installed on a thumbdrive if you don't know what that is google.com ... gps locator installed on iphone... etc, it's oh too easy to keep tabs if you want/need to..

for my own shit Ive asked my husband to stay out of EF ...which I think he has respected because something like your sig spy would completely set him off
he'd go apeshit about how inappropriate I am and how freely I talk to people publicly about things
our values on this differ

I know the context of the sig he doesn't