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I don't care what is up post-op you can't unring a bell.
If you are a dewd that is in love with a woman that was born a man, guess what - you are gay.
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doesn't being "gay" necessitate an attraction to "masculinity"? I don't see how being with a person who puts out all the female energies including most if not all of the external stuff, is "gay"? It's "different" for sure. Not really sure how to characterize it. But it's happened that men have had long relationships with post op women and never new until some medical report was seen. To be "gay" to me means looking at a manly man with all his farting and hairiness and going "yeah, that's what does it for me"...lol. I actually should delete this lest I plant the seed in some of you women that "hey, why are we attracted to these smelly hairy apes"....
LOL
Do the same questions apply to women who want to be men "ala the man who had a baby?" What about his wife (who is 100% female).
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Just about 10 years ago I hooked up with a pre-op. What was supposed to be a one-time experience turned into an 8-month love affair.
That first time I was surprised at how easily it was to be comfortable around her. She looked, talked, walked, and smelled just like a chick. We related just the same way I have with any other girl; with the exceptions that she had a dude's sex drive and didn't go in for a lot of the emotional BS that many chicks do.
Once we were sitting in a hottub with her facing the other way and leaning against my chest. She noticed I was comparing the size of our hands so she quickly pulled hers back and said, "fuck yourself." That was the end of it - just like a dude. With a chick that would have ruined the whole night.
Anyway, she didn't live as a woman full time and it took her forever to get ready to see me (you can imagine.) I was in love and convinced her (against her better judgement) that I could handle it if I saw her dressed as a boy - if we wanted to meet for a quick lunch or something like that.
Well, she had been right in the first place because it didn't take long before I could no longer maintain the illusion. In my mind I started to see her as "a boy" and that wrecked the relationship for me.
Now I know that I've never been attracted to masculinity (as Redsam put it) but the fact that there was a cock and balls bouncing off my stomach every time we were together never bothered me.
Obviously I'm not 100% str8 on the Kinsey continuum. But you can't say that makes me gay in the same way as someone who want's to be romantic with men for the rest of his life.
So I prefer the label, "tranny chaser"
redsamurai
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wow!!! dude you are a grown ass man for coming clean about something like that. I mean it, I am in total awe of you for how you put down your feelings in this post. Honestly I don't think I would have had the balls to admit this if it were me. I had a chance to be with a post op in Toronto who was one of the most stunning people I've ever seen. THat was right about when I had to come back because of a health problem, but I'm not sure I would have gone through with it had I stayed. Dude, much K to you for this post. You are a real grown ass man.
Add me to the list...
Just about 10 years ago I hooked up with a pre-op. What was supposed to be a one-time experience turned into an 8-month love affair.
That first time I was surprised at how easily it was to be comfortable around her. She looked, talked, walked, and smelled just like a chick. We related just the same way I have with any other girl; with the exceptions that she had a dude's sex drive and didn't go in for a lot of the emotional BS that many chicks do.
Once we were sitting in a hottub with her facing the other way and leaning against my chest. She noticed I was comparing the size of our hands so she quickly pulled hers back and said, "fuck yourself." That was the end of it - just like a dude. With a chick that would have ruined the whole night.
Anyway, she didn't live as a woman full time and it took her forever to get ready to see me (you can imagine.) I was in love and convinced her (against her better judgement) that I could handle it if I saw her dressed as a boy - if we wanted to meet for a quick lunch or something like that.
Well, she had been right in the first place because it didn't take long before I could no longer maintain the illusion. In my mind I started to see her as "a boy" and that wrecked the relationship for me.
Now I know that I've never been attracted to masculinity (as Redsam put it) but the fact that there was a cock and balls bouncing off my stomach every time we were together never bothered me.
Obviously I'm not 100% str8 on the Kinsey continuum. But you can't say that makes me gay in the same way as someone who want's to be romantic with men for the rest of his life.
So I prefer the label, "tranny chaser"
chris302001
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What if you fell in love with her before you knew she used to be a doode?
Or how about a woman that is genotypically male (has a y chromosome) but is androgen insensitive, so for all practical purposes, is female?
No pun intended on the "ass man" right?
I have to spread some karma around before I can hit you back. But thanks for your support.
redsamurai
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