What I mean is like in the beginning of a relationship they will do tons of shit for you everything is the way it should be. After they get you then its like whoopty shit, I have him, I got him, so what. Also after they acquire this new attitude and you kick them to the curb then its like they want you even more once again. Or if your a dick to them they want you even more and will do anything for you. (they all bitch about how they hate dickheads, but they love dickheads though)