Is anyone actually faithful anymore?

[TC2]

You feel sorry for a man that blames his weak behavior on a woman?

And you wonder why so many people cheat? LMFAO Hell, if he can justify cheating on her not giving him the pussy then she can turn around and justify cheating when he loses most of his hair and gets a spare tire.

Still dont understand how my behavior is weak??

I've turned down so much pussy while I have a girlfriend that my friends actually get pissed at me for "cockblocking" them somehow.

How is that weak??


"if he can justify cheating on her not giving him the pussy then she can turn around and justify cheating when he loses most of his hair and gets a spare tire"


Not the same thing, he's not purposely withholding anything in order to get something he wants.

 

[Jimsbbc]

On the other hand E, there are lots of women who are really looking to get married to have a domestic slave (husband) who takes a lot of responsibility, household production, and floating her lifestyle off of her hands. Its just all receiving and no giving. The woman gets everything she wants and the man doesn't get his attention needs, emotional needs, sex needs, or intimacy needs met. There are tons of women who use sex to trick the man into marriage and then take it away to use soley as a bargaining chip to be rationed out for good behavior (ever increasing amounts of household prodution or financial attainment). Many husbands do not abandon their wives emotionally. They are the ones who expect to cuddle and kiss with no sex and if the husband ever initiates sex he is sharply rebuked and made to feel a pervert and sex fiend just for wanting to make love to his wife - which is part of your marriage vows. There are a lot of men suffering silently out there.

 

[TC2]

On the other hand E, there are lots of women who are really looking to get married to have a domestic slave (husband) who takes a lot of responsibility, household production, and floating her lifestyle off of her hands. Its just all receiving and no giving. The woman gets everything she wants and the man doesn't get his attention needs, emotional needs, sex needs, or intimacy needs met. There are tons of women who use sex to trick the man into marriage and then take it away to use soley as a bargaining chip to be rationed out for good behavior (ever increasing amounts of household prodution or financial attainment). Many husbands do not abandon their wives emotionally. They are the ones who expect to cuddle and kiss with no sex and if the husband ever initiates sex he is sharply rebuked and made to feel a pervert and sex feind just for wanting to make love to his wife - which is part of your marriage vows. There are a lot of men suffering silently out there.

I dont know a single married man that isn't secretly miserable.

 

[Bikini Mod]

"That bitch withheld sex from me because she said I hurt her feelings for saying her ass looked wide in those jeans. Hell, if she didnt want to know then she shouldnt have asked me. She didnt give me the pussy so I just went out and found me some that would. Bitch shouldnt have withheld it. She MADE ME cheat on her."

That's not the type of shit I'm talking about.

I'm talking about women that get pissed because you dont jump through 10 hoops to do what they want, then with hold sex.

Yeah right..with hold sex from your "husband" for a stupid ass reason and see if "he" doesnt get it somewhere else.

I have NEVER met a woman that has intentionally withheld sex from her husband. I have, however, dated MANY MEN that emotionally abandoned their wives to the point where she felt unloved and didnt WANT to have sex with him any more. <---- this doesnt happen overnight.

So now - there is a HYUGE problem in an otherwise good relationship. You mean to tell me that you would go outside the marriage JUST FOR SEX?

Then that speaks volumes about your character and I feel sorry for the woman whom you dupe into marrying you.

On second thought - stay single. This way NO ONE will get hurt.

Either focus your energy on fixing your relationship or just get out. WTF is up with this "She MADE ME cheat" bullshit?

 

[Bikini Mod]

I dont know a single married man that isn't secretly miserable.

Dude... just because that is YOUR perception, dont project it on others.

 

[TC2]

I have NEVER met a woman that has intentionally withheld sex from her husband. I have, however, dated MANY MEN that emotionally abandoned their wives to the point where she felt unloved and didnt WANT to have sex with him any more. <---- this doesnt happen overnight.

So now - there is a HYUGE problem in an otherwise good relationship. You mean to tell me that you would go outside the marriage JUST FOR SEX?

Then that speaks volumes about your character and I feel sorry for the woman whom you dupe into marrying you.

On second thought - stay single. This way NO ONE will get hurt.

Either focus your energy on fixing your relationship or just get out. WTF is up with this "She MADE ME cheat" bullshit?

That's just bullshit and you know it.

And I'm not single, I have a fuckin awesome GF who completely agrees with me. But then again, she's not a typical worthless american white woman either.

 

[TC2]

Dude... just because that is YOUR perception, dont project it on others.

Typical blind woman, it's not my perception, it's men coming out and saying how much their wives changed as soon as they got married and if they would'nt get totally fucked over they would leave their wives in a heartbeat.

 

[Bikini Mod]

On the other hand E, there are lots of women who are really looking to get married to have a domestic slave (husband) who takes a lot of responsibility, household production, and floating her lifestyle off of her hands. Its just all receiving and no giving. The woman gets everything she wants and the man doesn't get his attention needs, emotional needs, sex needs, or intimacy needs met. There are tons of women who use sex to trick the man into marriage and then take it away to use soley as a bargaining chip to be rationed out for good behavior (ever increasing amounts of household prodution or financial attainment). Many husbands do not abandon their wives emotionally. They are the ones who expect to cuddle and kiss with no sex and if the husband ever initiates sex he is sharply rebuked and made to feel a pervert and sex fiend just for wanting to make love to his wife - which is part of your marriage vows. There are a lot of men suffering silently out there.

I am not saying that there arent women out there that capable of playing an otherwise good man. But I think that all of this has more to do with a miscommunication between the sexes than anything else. Most men are clueless (not meaning they are mean bastards, just saying that they think differently than a woman - duh - they are men! ) how to meet their wive's emotional needs. So they do suffer.... BOTH DO. And many women are equally clueless on how to express to their man what they need without making him feel immasculated.

I dont know of a single married woman that is happy because her husband bought her stuff but emtionally ignored her but for that stuff. A lot of men dont know how to connect to women but for buying them things.

Cheating is simple and complicated all at once.

I still stand by my statement. Either focus your energies on fixing the relationship (this goes for BOTH sexes) or get out.

Cheating never HELPED anyone.

 

[Bikini Mod]

That's just bullshit and you know it.

And I'm not single, I have a fuckin awesome GF who completely agrees with me. But then again, she's not a typical worthless american white woman either.

LOL

Key word:

GIRLFRIEND.

If she is so awesome, why isnt she YOUR WIFE?

Talk to me after you have had bout 2 kids and been married for like 5 years. K?

There are quite a few vocal VERY happily married men on the board. Ask them what the secret is. I am sure that they will be thrilled to share.

 

[Jimsbbc]

E-

Yeah, my post was disregarding the cheating thing. That is never acceptable. Kel and I didn't do anything for 9 months after James was born and it was never an option to cheat. I also think that in sexless marriages it needs to be worked on by both sides. I can understand men and women who are being sexually refused and are angry about it - still wouldn't cheat though.