I think your heart is too good.
Why would a body be jealous of someone who never had to struggle in life? Makes no sense.
Did you ever hear the story of the man who watched the butterfly struggle to break free from her chrisalis? After hours he thought he would help and cut the chrisalis open never realizing that as he removed this barrier he also removed the butterfly's chance to gain strength and be able to survive in the world OUTSIDE of the protective chrisalis.
I dont think she is a bad person. But she IS pretentious and holier than thou, TOTALLY lacks humility or sense of responsibility for her role in what sort of reaction she gleans from MANY posters. Therein lies where she gets the bulk of anymosity from other posters.
Ironically enough, THE ONLY THING that she ever posted that got on my one last nerve was the post where she was proliferating a joke that I tried (ad nauseum) to explain to her feeds the already anti-female feel of this board. So after her only response to me was, "I NEED TO CHILL AND GET OVER IT."(a common retort to anyone that she can't give an intelligent rebuttal to) All bets were off and now it is I who tell her to learn to take her own advice.
That is all. Nothing more and nothing less.