Interesting article on becoming a parent

[all the whey]

So many women are so damned rude with their ill-behaved brats bringing them to all sorts of inappropriate places inflicting their kids on everyone else... and sometimes, it isn't the child at all, but the braindead parent who expects too much because they dont want to hire a sitter or just dont care. If I had a dime for everytime I saw someone with a child in diapers at the grocery store at 10PM strolling through the aisles... or people with children waaaaaaay past naptime in a restaurant....

Sometimes it isn't the child's fault.

I can't tell you how many time I made VERY SWIFT exists regardless of the circumstances because my children had *expired*.

I NEVER ask women when they are having children. It took me quite a while to concieve so I know how much it hurts if you are trying and want it desperately and you dont feel like explaining your business to everyone... bad enough the thoughts run through your mind all day long.

Some people just dont fucking think.

 

[blueta2]

You wouldn't believe the pressure on wimmens in Utah to have kids. The mormon church is all about procreation, worse than catholics. I get asked at least twice a week, the whiff more than that. Always by the same people. I hate it.

are you a mormon?

Yeah some ppl are so focused on breeding. Man, if everyone bred the world would be more crowded than it is now.
Where I live (Quebec), we have the lowest birth rate in Canada.

 

[Faizakafez]

Im expected to have kids

 

[jnevin]

are you a mormon?

Yeah some ppl are so focused on breeding. Man, if everyone bred the world would be more crowded than it is now.
Where I live (Quebec), we have the lowest birth rate in Canada.

No, I'm a transplant from Philly. They're a wierd bunch. The wife grew up mormon and she's always getting mail from the church. Maybe twice a year people will show up at our door asking her when she's going back to church. It's a cult. So wierd.

 

[blueta2]

So many women are so damned rude with their ill-behaved brats bringing them to all sorts of inappropriate places inflicting their kids on everyone else... and sometimes, it isn't the child at all, but the braindead parent who expects too much because they dont want to hire a sitter or just dont care. If I had a dime for everytime I saw someone with a child in diapers at the grocery store at 10PM strolling through the aisles... or people with children waaaaaaay past naptime in a restaurant....

Sometimes it isn't the child's fault.

I can't tell you how many time I made VERY SWIFT exists regardless of the circumstances because my children had *expired*.

I NEVER ask women when they are having children. It took me quite a while to concieve so I know how much it hurts if you are trying and want it desperately and you dont feel like explaining your business to everyone... bad enough the thoughts run through your mind all day long.

Some people just dont fucking think.

They ask when you're having kids because misery usually loves company ;-)

People don't ask me anymore, they used to and my answer would be "Now why would I want to go and ruin my life"
My sister and some friends who have kids resent me and my life b/c they have no freedom. That is a funny thing!

 

[jestro]

Im expected to have kids

So are your parents gonna hook you up with spicy little number or what?

 

[blueta2]

No, I'm a transplant from Philly. They're a wierd bunch. The wife grew up mormon and she's always getting mail from the church. Maybe twice a year people will show up at our door asking her when she's going back to church. It's a cult. So wierd.

ekk, from Philly to that. In Philly, people show up at your door with guns ;-)

It is a cult FOR SURE! Like all the Jahova's that ring my bell every sat morning trying to save me.

 

[blueta2]

Im expected to have kids

and I bet you do everything that is expected of you?!

 

[jnevin]

ekk, from Philly to that. In Philly, people show up at your door with guns ;-)

It is a cult FOR SURE! Like all the Jahova's that ring my bell every sat morning trying to save me.

Philly's a great city, but it was really rough for a while. If you visited and made your way to the wrong places, I can see how you'd have a bad experience. But yeah, definite culture shock.

 

[Faizakafez]

and I bet you do everything that is expected of you?!

Not really,

but if i marry someone who is within my culture im sure she will want to have kids thats how it works its religon/culture..its kinda sucks

like here is perfect example

my sisters wedding

when my brother in laws sister were giving their speeches alot them ending like oh bless you too and the your children in the future so its automatically implied kinda