In your experiences, do girls pass on the "nice" guys?

[supersizeme]

It's been about 3 hours since some poor guy has started a thread on why chicks don't like nice guys.

 

[Mysterio]

I have to say they pass!

 

[bighead]

Nice guys finish last with women.............Imo never a truer word than this has been spoken.

 

[satanic goatslayer]

'Girls' have their own individual beliefs?

Shit, all these years I've been shanking them in the lower back with icepicks and throwing them into my incinerator.

Firestarter, methinks.

 

[SofaGeorge]

This brings to mind one of the most interesting anthropolgical studies I ever read. There was a tribe in the Amazon back in the '60s that was known for being really nice people. They didn't hurt or fight with their neighbors or cause any trouble - and they were sort of the butt of a lot of abusive behavior from the other tribes. They got picked on and treated like crap by everybody. They had few women, few possessions, and were treated like piss ants every time they went to market. Finally they got tired of being pissed on all the time. They went into Brazil cities... worked as dishwashers... earned money to buy shotguns... and started going on horrible murder raids on the other tribes. They carried knives always and took to the habit of fighting other tribesmen with knives at the SLIGHTEST provocation. Soon - they were crawling with the most beautiful women up the wazoo, were treated with great respect and admiration, and were the wealthiest tribe in the region.

 

[MrMuscle]

im still single arent i?

 

[Hangfire]

Here is my personal experience--take it for what its worth. Shortly after I begin dating a woman, I find out that she and her friends thought I was "cocky" before they even knew me all that well. They based their opinions on my attitude, comportment, posture, etc., which she likes. Then, when she finds out that I am really the dreaded "nice guy", which she hates, she begins to think she can use me as a door mat. I then make it clear that I could not care less about walking away at the first sign of her bullshit, which she likes. She then reverses her untoward behavior until she thinks it is OK again to tread on me, which she hates. And on it goes.

That scenario has repeated itself with me for the last 20 years and is one of the few things in life that I can count on to be consistent. All women claim to want a "nice guy", but they don't what to do with him once they have him. I agree completely with supernav--they mostly want someone to bitch to their friends about.

 

[Sexual Mustard]

I agree with SOfaGeorge about women changing their ways and maturing when they get into their 30s and beyond. But the problem is, a lot of guys want a tight 18-21 yr.old body, not a 30+woman. LOL

Kidding aside, girls are fucked up.

 

[big4life]

Seriously, it has to do with maturity.

Find a woman who knows who she is and what she wants. She will appreciate a man's genuine kindness. Be honest with her about your feelings and she will return the same to you.

 

[velvett]

Nice guys do finish last in the teens and 20s... but by the time women reach their 30s... which is when they really start coming into their best years... they've already been through their shitty relationships with jerks... been abused for years by the a--hole they married... and are ready to be treated kindly, with respect, and friendship. They also come to value a man who has a depth of character and world experience over one who acts like he is still in high school hanging with his pot smoking buddies.

Women in their 30s and 40s eat us nice guys up.

ah yup