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SeXKiTTen_CanDy

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Firstly, I love my boyfriend very much and I do NOT want to change the way he is, but…

I would really like him to not smoke so much pot! I don’t mind it when he does it, but when I am with him and he goes to his mates place, I can’t stand it when he sits there and smokes cones! He thinks he HAS to have one before he goes to bed because it relaxes him or some shit. I think he should settle down a bit and start doing it less. He is 23 years old, I think he should get over this ‘pot’ stage.

Boys, before you start giving me crap and telling me to let him do what he wants, I am just going to say, I don’t tell him that I don’t like it, and it’s not like I whine to him to stop it etc…

That’s my whine for today.


I HATE POT.



:mad:
 
Its a get over it thing. My wife is 37 and gets high before bed EVERY night. I don't smoke anything and she does pot and cigarettes. We get busy most of the time so that helped me get over it. Too bad she can't fuck me without getting high first(kidding).(maybe)
 
Because I don’t want to seem like I am trying to change him. He likes to do it, I mean, I don’t mind when he does it, but I just think he does it a little too much… It pisses me especially when we go to his mates joint and they all start pulling buckets or whatever, I just hate being there, when they are all munged out.
 
SeXKiTTen_CanDy said:
Because I don’t want to seem like I am trying to change him. He likes to do it, I mean, I don’t mind when he does it, but I just think he does it a little too much… It pisses me especially when we go to his mates joint and they all start pulling buckets or whatever, I just hate being there, when they are all munged out.
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Well, if he truly cares for you, and you explain it in a rational fashion, he won't see it as you whining or bitching or trying to change him. He'll see it as an expression of your concern for his well-being.


Alcatraz
 
hey kitten, if you have a problem with him smoking ganja then you need to address it now. in my experience, people rarely ever quit so if you plan on staying with him for a long time then it needs to be addressed. either he has to take your feelings into consideration or you have to bury them inside and learn to deal with it. is this what you want in the long run.
 
Hmm, my main concern is his health of course, he smokes as well, I have asked him to give up just one of those two GROSS habits. He said he is going to, but still hasn’t. I plan to be with him for a very long time, I mean this guy is all I want, if only he would stop smokin so much weed man.

I was gonna make love to you but I got high
I was gonna lick your pussy to but I got high

I guess I could just tell him he is like kissing an ashtray.


I say, baby, why do you do it he says babe, because I like to. I say baby, but you got me you don't need pot to relax, he says babe, I like it.
 
OK, here's another tactic. Just point at your pussy and say "Baby, no more of this till you get rid of the pot." I guarantee, he won't be getting high much longer. Either that, or he'll dump you and find a woman that will get high w/ him.


Alcatraz
 
kitten, I've been with my beautiful wife for 6 yrs and she'd lie to her grandmother about stopping smoking. Its a habit that is stronger than a non smoker like us can understand. They are fucking stupid for starting, they are helpless against it and we can't do shit till they want to for themselves first. Deal with it and don't let it fuck you two up. Be strong enough to walk away if it fucks him up and hurts you. Don't waste your life on a stoner that'll never grow up, hope that isn't him for your sake.
 
tell him to cut down... tell him it bothers you. that way you aren't forcing him to quit, and if he loves you he'll respect you for being honest and concerned.
 
<-----Crack! The ultimate dieting drug. :)

Kitten, would you consider talking to him if he was getting drunk every day? Well, weed isn't nearly as bad as alchohol, but a habbit is a habbit. Tell him your concerned about his health but don't come off all high and mighty.

If he cares about you, he'll at least listen to what you have to say.

One of the reason's I never keep weed around is that I'm basically useless when I smoke up. If I had 1/2 an oz in my freezer, I'd just sit around stoned all day.

Maybe you could try keeping him away from the type of environment where he'd want to smoke up.
 
Taps

He listens to me, I have asked him to sort of try and give it up, he said he is going to (one day soon), he still hasn't yet. He cares for me heaps I know this... May be I will ask again, I just don't want to be a whinging girlfriend, you know how us women get...

thanks
 
"No man is worth your tears, and the right one won't make you cry."

Kitten...just talk to him about it. Expressing you feelings is entirely different from whining. Plus you aren't exactly asking him to quit....yet. Just asking him to tone it down a bit. If he cares for you...it shouldn't be a problem. Besides like you said...why does he need pot to relax him...he's got you :)
 
jesus christ. its only weed. how many deaths a year are directly caused by smoking weed? feel fortunate tht he's not into harder drugs and live with it.
 
Heroin is the answer! A little smack at bed time and he'll be floatin....
 
I suggest that you dump him, now. I've seen your pics, you are a young attractive woman. You seem smart and have your whole life ahead of you. You can certainly do better. You say you want this guy to be the only one? Why? Do you want the father of your children to be a drug addict?

Better get out now before bigger problems come down the road.
 
There is a problem if you need to use substances to do what should be a normal function, which in this case is sleep.
 
Hey the truth is that if it isn't really interfering in his professional life then he doesn't feel the need to stop it....maybe I'm crazy, but start somking with him and his friends...act like a total idiot, tease him a bit and then when you get home after you have him all worked up pass out.......the next morning tell him you had a ball and you want to smoke with him from now on....trust me...he'll cut down :D


:teleport:
 
Does he beat you when he tokes up or something??? I mean, it's not like he's getting drunk and angry, violent and all that other shit. All I hear you say is "I hate pot." Why don't you like to be around him when he is high??? Leave the poor guy alone, and let him toke some damn reefer with his friends, bitch. :)
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If you never say anything about it, you can't blame him for not doing it on his own. You can tell him you don't really like hanging around everyone when they're high, because you don't smoke and it's kind of uncomfortable to be the only sober person in the room. You'll spend less time together, and one of two things will happen - either he'll start cutting down to be with you more, or he'll distance himself 'cause he prefers getting high with his buddies to hanging out with you.

Personally, if my boyfriend was getting high all the time, it would bother me, and I'd probably get a little whiny with him. I don't want to be a whiny girlfriend either. I'd do my best to tell him what was bothering me so we could fix it together... I don't want to change anyone, but this is still my relationship too! I have a right to speak up when I'm not happy, just as my boyfriend does. If he was unwilling to meet me in the middle to resolve an issue that was threatening our happiness as a couple, I'd find another boyfriend.

A close girlfriend of mine is a complete pothead,and it's so boring sitting around with all her friends when they're high. I have nothing against it, I would just prefer not to be there. When she wants to get high, she can hang out with those friends. When she wants to get off her ass and do something, she can call me.
 
What does

"I am going to HAVE A CRY" mean???

how do you have a verb????

just joking, trying to cheer you up a little
 
i think once i move out of my parent's house i'm gonna try and get some hydro and smoke it every night before i sleep, that sounds ideal.

women always trying to find something that pisses them off, just chill out and snort a line
 
dump the loser!! Just kidding, but seriously if you are not into weed or smoking cigarettes and he is it might become a major problem eventually. I can't stand smoking, I think it friggin stinks, so I wouldn't be with a girl who smoked. If you are not a smoker (weed or tobacco) why did you hook up with a guy who is??
 
So, the biggest gripe you have about him is he smokes pot?? Well, it is something that gets bothersome... my ex did alot of coke... but at least he isn't fucking other chicks... or dudes for that matter.

Just talk to him about it... set up some times during the week when you guys will be together.

Or, you can always take the Citruscide-Solution to relationships... End it... you'll be happier.

C
 
If your only complaint with him is he smokes weed with his friends then be thankful.

Now if he wakes up, takes a bong hit, goes to lunch and smokes a j, then has a bowl for the ride home to prepare for the nights festivities (getting stoned) it's a problem. Can you say intervention time?

I am going to guess that you are a young couple, if so, he is still experimenting and enjoying his youth with some of his friends. This does not mean he is a "drug addict". Nor does it mean he does not love you or being with you, he just wants some escape time. In a long term relationship this is important

Trust me, as your relationship (and each other) mature things will change. I have many friends that partake in the good herb on occassion and we are all successful professionals.

If you are concerned about his health, buy him a vaporizer and some KB.
 
Don't threaten him or give him any ultimatums. That just won't work. What you can do is just tell him that it bothers you. You won't be trying to change who he is. A person can be funny, talkative, aggressive, argumentative, and THAT is who they are. You can't change that. But trying to get him to stop smoking weed is not trying to change who he is.
 
Ok, let me just make a point here...

Who ever asks if he beats me when he is high, NO he doesn't. If he ever hit me, I'd hit him back.

Secondly, there is no way in the world I would dump him, he is the most gorgeous, sexiest, kindest bloke on this earth man, I guess you didn’t really get me… I do NOT love him less because he smokes pot, but him smoking pot does annoy me. Honeynut, I am with you, that’s exactly how I feel fucking BORED when he sits around with mates smoking pot. He rarely does it now because he kinda got the hint I don’t really appreciate it.

He’s a great bloke, I guess it doesn’t really matter that much.

Thanks for the replies.
:)
 
I dated alot of smokers and pot users growing up. Now if i find out a guy smokes anything, I won't even date him.

It stinks
Its expensive
And just plain gross


But your already involved with him. All you can do is talk to him, and both of you can do a little giving and taking.
 
karde said:
There is a problem if you need to use substances to do what should be a normal function, which in this case is sleep.
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Sounds like it's bad, and I don't want to assume anything - but, do you feel the relationship even has direction right now?

I don't doubt that you love him, but maybe it's time for a little tough love if you really have a problem with his habbits.
 
Honeynut, I am with you, that’s exactly how I feel fucking BORED when he sits around with mates smoking pot. He rarely does it now because he kinda got the hint I don’t really appreciate it.
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well Sexkitten, sounds like you don't have a problem then :)
 
It could be worse, like a mad drunk beating on you. Pot is not a big thing. It really helps me sleep.

Leave it alone, shit he could be doing smack or coke.
 
Laserdude said:
It could be worse, like a mad drunk beating on you. Pot is not a big thing. It really helps me sleep.

Leave it alone, shit he could be doing smack or coke.
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Putting up with somone smoking pot when you don't want them too...because he COULD be beating you or doing coke? WTH? Why settle for the lesser of two evils?? :confused:
 
SeXKiTTen_CanDy said:
Because I don’t want to seem like I am trying to change him. He likes to do it, I mean, I don’t mind when he does it, but I just think he does it a little too much… It pisses me especially when we go to his mates joint and they all start pulling buckets or whatever, I just hate being there, when they are all munged out.
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so you dont want to talk to him about it, yet you are talking to us about it?

you must not really mind that much or you would talk to him about it, if you dont want to seem like your whining to him, the pothead, then dont whine to us.
 
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