Silent Method
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Good for you. I'm glad everything has worked out in you particular case. However, I'd still refrain from encouraging people to seek others as an answer to their own problems.Juice Authority said:
Look, all BS between you and I aside, I'm happily married with a 10 month old boy. My wife and I have a great relationship that started as "rebound" relationship 3 years ago. I was in a dysfunctional relationship for 3.5 years and was looking for a way out but when I was honest with myself I had to admit that I loved the drama and the chaos. I ended marrying a normal, healthly woman from the MidWest and I'm as dysfunctional as they come and have no idea what she sees in me. The moral of the story here is that sometimes one door has to close for others to open.
The moral of my story is that one should not jump into the first thing they perceive as an open door untill they make peace with the door that has closed.