I'm a doorman yet cant meet decent, faithful women...

[Trickie]

I'm 33 and I work at a call centre 9-5 and as a doorman 2 nights a week.....that is basically my social life, as my friends are having kids/getting married etc and their lives are changing. (Also I am desperate for the extra cash)  The problem is that whilst I enjoy the venue where I do the door I am looking (although I try not to show it) for a relationship....however in the last year I have had brief flings but they have never developed into a relationships.  I get the odd girl asking me for my phone number but they either don't ring or muck me around....I am meeting girls who are shit faced who go for doorman....I just don't know what to do to meet someone decent....I am really past the clubbing stage these days as when I do go to the occasional club it just feels so depressing!
A lot of women will also have a stereotypical view of doorman that they are thugs/big heads/out to shag anything plus I really struggle to meet women in their late 20's/early 30's who are single!
I don't have a problem with dating or approaching women or holding a conversation but I really would like to meet someone in a different setting than I am at the moment.
Any suggestions would be appreciated.

 

[vansmack2000]

umm the gym?

 

[*MissFit*]

elite fitness.. hahaha

 

[H_T_]

i totally lucked out and have been with the coolest girl in the world for over 2 years now. i met her at the bar i managed and she was one of the bartenders. she's my age and i think that has something to do with it, we're in our 30's, so we're kinda partied out from working bars for so long. we also have a lot of common interests, which you may want to try, finding someone who shares a hobby/interest, if you have a dog, go to the dog park, meet girls at the gym too, etc.

 

[*MissFit*]

I don't have trouble meeting ppl.. I just find that they tend to be fonder of ym ass than anything else..

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

I don't have trouble meeting ppl.. I just find that they tend to be fonder of ym ass than anything else..

Maybe you're showing it off too much.

 

[marshallmadman]

The reason why you can't meet decent, faithful women is because you are looking for something that doesn't exist.

 

[*MissFit*]

The reason why you can't meet decent, faithful women is because you are looking for something that doesn't exist.

They exist.. u just usually can't see them

 

[marshallmadman]

They exist.. u just usually can't see them

Actually, my last girlfriend was a real straight shooter. She was nice enough to tell me that she fucked somebody else before we had sex again. So, that was nice.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

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