seaking420
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Generally, I would tend to agree with you, however, I also realize that part of being human means that we are flawed. I would have to say that I would have to examine each instance on a case by case basis. Not to say that the wrongness of it would be mitigated due to the circumstance, but that also doesn't mean that all who have cheated are the same.
... and I say this having been cheated on on more than one occasion and yet I have NEVER cheated.
Two adults who have been through the difficulty of their youth and the pressures of small children, trying to get ahead in the world, and figuring themselves out should be able to make a more informed decision on who it is they choose for a life partner. So unless they have deeply flawed characters to begin with something like cheating and/or furnishing a child with hurtfull information just to hurt the child and parent should NEVER come into the equation. In other words - they should be old enough to know better.
Completely agree.........I dont think everyone that cheats are scumbags.....Im not saying its right I just think shit happens sometimes that you dont expect to happen......whether your the cheater or been cheated on. I bet many people here who are in a serious relationship with someone dosent think either one would cheat.....but it happens......but if it does happen you have 2 choices...either leave or fix the problem.......