If you found out your spouse had an affair. What would you do?

[myway]

No its up to you .. If you hate him for it leave him ... I am totally for it ... Go out and try to find a man that wont ever cheat on you or even think about doing it .. Find a man that you know will never get bored with you and be totally content with you for the rest of your life.. 100 percent .... I wish you luck in that endour

But at what point should a girl just except the fact that these men don't exist?

 

[Kano]

Kano,, they havent been together that long.. thats unexcusable at this stage, if it happened then he has not choice

That i do agree.. If you get bored with someone at six months there was a problem from the get go ... and i do beleive 99 percent of the time people cheat cause they are bored with your ass..

 

[Kano]

But at what point should a girl just except the fact that these men don't exist?

Honestly .. I truly beleive this you would have better chances winning the lottery...

 

[biteme]

For me to post it on here means I"m very hurt.

 

[Smurfy]

Just wondering.

depends.

 

[Kano]

For me to post it on here means I"m very hurt.

I bet you are bro .... You have some hard choices ahead of you

 

[myway]

Honestly .. I truly beleive this you would have better chances winning the lottery...

What do u think would be the best way to deal with a cheating spouse? I mean, like HOW do you approach the conversation?

 

[all the whey]

Well this hurts a lot more than I thought it would. I've never caught them while in an active relationship... I caught my bitch ex-wife, but she filed for divorce a week later because she was afraid I'd get custody of our daughter..If I wasn't so suspicious, I'd never catch them.

So, sorry to hear.

I agree you have to keep your eyes and ears open in a relationship. Don't let her or any girls try to covince you it is your fault because you were "insecure".

 

[myway]

depends.

On what? I'm new to the marriage game. Just trying to get things sorted out. Depends on what?

 

[biteme]

That i do agree.. If you get bored with someone at six months there was a problem from the get go ... and i do beleive 99 percent of the time people cheat cause they are bored with your ass..

We've been together for 16 months. Some people just cheat because it's so easy for them. Maybe they get mad at you for something (even though it's their fault) and go somewhere they shouldn't go.