If there is 1 thing you could change about yourself....

[biteme]

I would change my self-concious attitude. Sometimes I feel like I can't do anything right.

You're not alone. And I totally don't understand it.

 

[sk*]

To let hell loose already ...

-sk

 

[Bobber]

This is a question for those of you that are "shy"... why do yall not have the ability to just go up to someone and say hi or be social....could it be that you reeally just don't give 2 shits to meet people or are yall genuinely trepid to do so?

 

[Zander1983]

Physically, I would be taller. Another 4 inches please.

In terms of my personality, like ffknight84, I tend to give off an arrogant "I'm better than you" vibe. It can have its positives, but it would be better if it were controlled. Also, sometimes - but much less so recently because I'm doing a good job at controlling it - I snap at people and say things in a nasty tone.

 

[biteme]

This is a question for those of you that are "shy"... why do yall not have the ability to just go up to someone and say hi or be social....could it be that you reeally just don't give 2 shits to meet people or are yall genuinely trepid to do so?

It's largely a genetic trait.

 

[sk*]

It's largely a genetic trait.

Not genetics imo, but moreso peoples' circumstances and environment ...

It's possible to "learn" not to be shy, just takes time.

-sk

 

[biteme]

Not genetics imo, but moreso peoples' circumstances and environment ...

It's possible to "learn" not to be shy, just takes time.

-sk

No. Read a psych. text, it's largely genetic, environment and circumstances do play a role. I know I am the way I am from genetics traits. Your personality is largely determined by your inherited traits. This is a fact.

 

[sk*]

No. Read a psych. text, it's largely genetic, environment and circumstances do play a role. I know I am the way I am from genetics traits. Your personality is largely determined by your inherited traits. This is a fact.

Well, from personal experience, it's something that can be worked on ...

I don't wanna argue a psych text here, but in short, they came up with wrong conclusions.

-sk

 

[revexrevex]

I need bigger traps....

 

[Devastation]

i really don't think i'd change anything. anything i would change, i have the ability to change. and anything i would say here, i am either working on changing it or don't feel the need to change it