If Fat People Only Knew...

[curling]

I was fat two years ago. And now since that I have been lifting and eating properly, people are nicer to me. It is unreal. Blockbuster chicks will wave late charges with no problem. People will take my order quicker. I get alot more smiles and on and on.

Have ya'll noticed the same thing that it really pays off to be fit?

 

[Redrum2]

Damn I only get head more often and girls throwing coochie at me but DAMN I still have to pay Blockbuster late charges I guess im still fat.

 

[Big JM]

I have muscle and fat. best of both worlds yeah

 

[curling]

Damn I only get head more often and girls throwing coochie at me but DAMN I still have to pay Blockbuster late charges I guess im still fat.

You gotta know how to work'em.

 

[haxedout]

Damn I only get head more often and girls throwing coochie at me but DAMN I still have to pay Blockbuster late charges I guess im still fat.

hahaha..ive noticed same shit bros... escpially right now while im bulking....wait till the fina kicks in...hehe

 

[Mr_Anaboholic]

Been there...

I was especially far through my teenage years, it was hard back then when I always got turned down by girls... now I can walk by alot of these people without them even recognizing me

Now it's *very* to "catch" a girl, and people respect you more when having a great physique!

 

[supertech69]

Just so long as you're not a conceided ass, it's a fact that a fit person get's much more respect in this world. It not only holds true in day to day life but, also at work. Two people (man or woman) with the same qualifications go for a job & one is better looking w/a confident attitude, who do you think will get the job. Maybe it's unfair but, it certainly is the truth. It also makes you more intimidating when you are big & lodging a complaint!

 

[T-Biggs]

Damn I only get head more often and girls throwing coochie at me but DAMN I still have to pay Blockbuster late charges I guess im still fat.

LOL!!!

 

[jordon]

I was fat two years ago. And now since that I have been lifting and eating properly, people are nicer to me. It is unreal. Blockbuster chicks will wave late charges with no problem. People will take my order quicker. I get alot more smiles and on and on.

Have ya'll noticed the same thing that it really pays off to be fit?

While I do agree with what you are saying, I also wonder if some of the new found smiles etc are a result of your own SELF CONFIDENCE and not just your new fit look. You feel good, you look good, you have more confidence in yourself.

 

[granby140]

girls like it better which is good but most of all i feel better about mself. I went from fat to unhealthy looking skiny. Now i would be considered normal. But not for long.

 

[Rippeddrago]

Seriously, but not to get all metaphysical, or whatever ya call it, but when you look good, you feel good, when you feel good, you eminate positive energy and probably some good pheremones too. Chicks don't even know they're being lured into your scent and wham bam you've landed another. I've been in great shape since I was 16, always built and good looking. It's when I feel good about myself and where I am in life that I get the best response from others... Subconcious emissions. =)

 

[rotovibe]

I completely agree with the idea that confidence goes a long way and ultimately is the deciding factor.
It's the same confidence that you would see in someone who has a girlfriend, (a good healthy relationship), and women find that person attractive. It's because they don't seem weighted down with issues and they know their chick digs them. (Remember I said helathy relationship). Women don't know he's involved with someone. They just see this attractive guy.
Women notice confidence. It's how you walk, enter a room, adress people, how you sit, etc... all this can't be faked.
You have to feel GOOD about yourself. Then it comes out in your actions and words.
My old football coach often told us to point your helmet where you need to go. Because where your head is directed, your body will follow. Same thing.
Jerks get the girls because they are confident about their abilities and are not weighted down with anything. The problem is they just don't care period. But it comes accross as confidence.
Confidence can't be faked.

 

[HugeWannabe]

I completely agree with the idea that confidence goes a long way and ultimately is the deciding factor.
It's the same confidence that you would see in someone who has a girlfriend, (a good healthy relationship), and women find that person attractive. It's because they don't seem weighted down with issues and they know their chick digs them. (Remember I said helathy relationship). Women don't know he's involved with someone. They just see this attractive guy.
Women notice confidence. It's how you walk, enter a room, adress people, how you sit, etc... all this can't be faked.
You have to feel GOOD about yourself. Then it comes out in your actions and words.
My old football coach often told us to point your helmet where you need to go. Because where your head is directed, your body will follow. Same thing.
Jerks get the girls because they are confident about their abilities and are not weighted down with anything. The problem is they just don't care period. But it comes accross as confidence.
Confidence can't be faked.

I totally agree with the last two posts. Its all about confidence!

 

[curling]

So ya'll are saying that self confident fat people can get as many chicks too?

 

[littleswoll]

Its totally true the better you look the nicer people are, think about it are you nice to a fine ass girl or a fat bitch?

 

[jordon]

So ya'll are saying that self confident fat people can get as many chicks too?

Fat guys with foot long shlongs

I thought your first post was about more than just getting chicks. I thought it showed a general improvement in all aspects of your social life.

 

[curling]

I thought your first post was about more than just getting chicks. I thought it showed a general improvement in all aspects of your social life.

It was. I was just kidding about the chick part.

 

[rotovibe]

littleswoll ~
No, you're inferring that conclusion.
My point is that confidence is a deciding factor, a great one.
To answer your real question...unfortunately 'no'...we're a victim of a society that favors beauty in an idealistic sense. Make that obsessed, and I think that it heavily favors thinner, athletic people.
It's about propagation, who seems the healthiest? Fat or fit people? Who would you want to have children with? It then is influenced by societal standards.
Just look at different areas of the globe. What do they find attractive? I can tell you that it varies.
Of course this delves into other topics that would take volumes of discussions just to give it worth.
But what are we really asking?
We're asking what it takes to get a girl that fits our societal standards, while being influenced by our sex drive in hopes that it may give us some sense of significance.
It really isn't about the sex, is it?
If that's the case then why aren't we just happy with getting that?
My point is that there is more to life than sex. Sex is great! Hot chicks are great! But is there really something more than that that drives us? Yes.
That's SOMETHING is the source of confidence.
That's what gives us significance.
When you have that significance and self-worth, you won't be so obsessed over having a hot chick, you can still want one, but is that all that you would need to feel significant? Nope.
When we realize this, everything else will fall into place. The obsession over bagging a hot chick is unneeded pressure. Just like them and live your life, unweighted. Chicks see that. Hot chick or not.
That's what makes us feel good.
That's what givs us confidence.
That's how we become attractive.
There are millions of happy couples out there that aren't cover models. Go figure...And when you're 50, will she still look hot?
You can't be a PIMP when you're 50.

SOrry about that...i'm not a shrink really

 

[mvmaxx]

So ya'll are saying that self confident fat people can get as many chicks too?

Look at Ron Jeremy, that guy gets ALLLLLL the chix.

 

[Rippeddrago]

I'm with ya ROTOVIBE.. Confidence is the deciding factor. I mean lets face it. IF you're FAT you're FUCKED! (excluding fat rich dudes) Ron Jeremy is a fucken hedgehog and from what I've heard, most chix can't stand the fat bastard, but he's made a name for himself and that's who their agents tell them they're going to fuck... Poor whores. =) When you feel weak, you are weak. When you feel strong.. YOU DA MAN!

 

[ryker77]

So ya'll are saying that self confident fat people can get as many chicks too?

Hell yes. And it pisses me off. But most chicks are either on thier way to becoming the typical fat american or their best friend is. Most of the fitness type girls like fitness types guys. Which is they way I like'em

 

[foxy]

being fat

curling i hope now that your not a fat person that you dont treat the fat people bad as you should remember how it felt they have feeling also

 

[lonewulf]

More respect is granted when you are big and muscular, but also more DISrespect behind your back due to jealousy. This is what I have noticed.-WULF

 

[Jack Diesel]

Yeah Ive noticed that hookers have been letting my fuck their assholes alot more since I got jacked.

 

[iceman1362]

Man the same shit happened to me. People just see you in a different way.

 

[Cuts]

All of this is true and very motivational while I'm sitting here about to go nuts with carb cravings! I'll check back every hour or so.. keep this thread going for my diets sake ...

Karma for all positive/inspirational posts.

 

[athlete03]

I've never been fat, but I've been skinny. And son of a bitch, when I grew some lean mass it's a whole different life. The only thing I have to complain about is there is always some asshole at a party trying to pick a fight with "the big guy" so he can prove something. Other than that, there is a world of positive difference.

 

[James Maddox]

Confidence plays a small part but 90% of it is the better looking body. The results he has had with people in general and especially girls must be amazing. All I did was lose 10 pounds of fat and put on ten pounds of muscle and the diference was unbelievably. And no I've never been a confident person. You know, that argument about confidence is beyond gay.

 

[rotovibe]

Confidence plays a small part but 90% of it is the better looking body. The results he has had with people in general and especially girls must be amazing...and the diference was unbelievably. And no I've never been a confident person. You know, that argument about confidence is beyond gay. =============================================

This logic is narrow and makes a broad irrational statement at best. You obviously have never been accountable for your statements. "beyond gay"? Interesting...

Unless you want to amend your statment, I'd have to say that it's misleading and you need to meet more people.

If your statement is true, 90% of the time, then I can easily select 10 women, randomly and get the same opinion from them all. This is easily not the case. I've dated women who don't care about someones build, I've worked with people who dont' favor beautiful coworkers. I've had friends who are models that cry rivers and still get speeding tickets, etc. It's a stereotype not an absolute.

Noone denies the fact that physical beauty is a factor, great or small and that beautiful people are treated differently.
Beauty is beauty.
But a statement needs to be made:
"an established self worth is the keystone to any social relationship".

Leaders are leaders because of confidence, FABIO will never run a country or be a CEO based on his looks. I can guarantee you that a huge population of women crave for the 'knight in armor'. It's about how men make them feel. Period. The physical is just a bonus to them. Well most of them.

A woman will never fall in love with you because of your pecs. She may lust after them and want you. But how long will that last? Women aren't one-dimensional.

If you want women to just lust after you then more power to you. Just remember that's all you're going to get.
You will have to sing a different tune when you want a relationship.

 

[prime22]

And this is an interesting post because it is so true and too many people don't even realize it. It's just hard to beleive that the confidence is the main key. However in the real world that is all it boils down to. Confidence.

 

[bigfatty]

Confidence is great, but good looks weighs heavily on self worth. No doubt confidence is the deciding factor, I mean haven't you seen some guys and say to yourself, "Man how did that guy get that chick???" That could very well be the reason why, besides maybe alot of cash, or a big fatty.. oh er I mean chubby...

 

[prime22]

good point

 

[curling]

Re: being fat

curling i hope now that your not a fat person that you dont treat the fat people bad as you should remember how it felt they have feeling also

Are you kidding? I say all kinds of stuff like, "fatty want another 20 pizzas? How do you dodge harpoons? How many chairs have you broken? Seems like you would have bigger calfs carrying all that extra weight around...

I am just kidding. Of course I wouldn't say anything like that to them. As a matter of fact, I try to encourage them to start lifting so they live a better life. Anybody that would make fun of anybody because of they way they look are a sorry excuse for a human being in my book.

 

[James Maddox]

Yes, some guys get great resultes being confident. That can be proven just by observation. Some guys get great results having money. Some guys get results looking good. So what is the case with this guy who lost the weight? What has changed in him? Confidence and apperance! As to how much better he looks and as to how much more confidence he has we can only guess that. But in my experince it has been 100% from looks. Why? Because I'm just as shy as ever but now weigh solid at 270lb. The bigger I get the better my results with women. Though politicaly correct women will never admit to things of this nature. Just like there are feminime men that won't admit to things of this nature.

 

[jboy]

I'm a fairly big guy (6'4" 235lbs BF% = low teens). I've lost a lot of fat and put on a lot of muscle over the last few months. I've noticed people at work are a bit intimidated by me. I like that feeling!

 

[startin45]

It's definately shallow. But it is definately true.

 

[rotovibe]

Very good posts...
So what's the consensus?
Good looks help in your self-confidence and self-confidence helps your good looks. It's recursive.

As far as results? That obviously varies in definition from person to person.
From what I gather everyone is talking about getting attention and having a girlfriend for sex and somewhat of a relationship for at least a weekend. Right?
That's great and true...looks do go a long way. AND IS VERY IMPORTANT FOR A ONE NIGHTER OR ANY RELATIONSHIP THAT IS MUTUALLY SUPERFICIAL.
Within the scope of the definition of "results" stated earlier.

But when you have a hot chick that is everything that you ever wanted...looks, hobbies, bad/good habits, a real personality, that "something about Mary" etc...someone you want for a REAL relationship...how do you keep her?
Beleive me...your good looks alone won't keep her unless she is codependent...

I'm a proponent of the 'complete package' theory. Not only do you have to be physically attractive but you have to be personable too.
THAT HAS A LOT TO DO WITH YOUR CONFIDENCE IN EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE. When you have both you will have a hot chick for the rest of your life. If that's what you want. That's how to keep them comming back...I promise!

Having good looks only leads you to the water...

Like I stated earlier, if you want a one-nighter...work out and look good. It definitely helps.

But when you want a relationship you'd better know yourself and be a true MAN. Eveyone who is married on this board knows what I am talking about.
You can only be a pimp for so long.

They'll like you until they see that your self-esteem and lack of confidence will render you useless in a relationship and probably make you have control issues...which may manisfest itself in several ways, one of them being anger and violence...
believe me...confidence helps in the long run...it gets rid of your relational hang-ups and what not...don't learn this when you are getting a divorce, save yourself the heartache and be a complete MAN.

Pimps may ignore my post