It aint over until the fat lady has sex!
My wife currently weighs around 300 lbs. Her weight is a constant source of arguments and the like. It is extremely difficult for me to understand her inablity to loose the weight when it is relatively easy for me to loose it. Yes I have some of the same issues that others mentioned earlier. We get a lot of looks from people, hear snickers, and jokes about my wife etc.
At the same time I love my wife deeply. We have been through the very worst together and enjoyed some of the very best together. My first child was conceived during a particulary wild night where I rememeber carrying her throughout the house and doing it on every counter and table top. These days it is much different (I consider myself strong, but not that strong). It was through the difficult times combined with two pregnancies that she manged to gain about 160 lbs. not that that is a good reason, it just happened.
As far as the sex goes....these days it is absolutely unbelievable. Yes we are more limited in positions, but her desire to please me and the frequency is beyond anything I have ever seen with another women (maybe not a lot by some standards, 1 previous wife and about 35 partners).
Coupled with the fact she has a heart of gold, gave me two wonderful kids, is a great mother, and she continues to try and loose the weight (~21 lbs./ 3 months).......I guess I will keep her.
