I think my relationship turned for the better...

[chesty]

I think. She says were not through, but can only think of us as friend at the moment until her bearings are back and such.

On a side note she wants to continue the physical relationship and just keep the feelings in check until she is ready to deal with them.

I think I have my first fuck buddy.

 

[hamstershaver]

fuck buddies rule

 

[SoKlueles]

fuck buddies rule

ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm no they dont

 

[hamstershaver]

ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm no they dont

or they do

 

[*MissFit*]

Hmm no.. things can't work like that...well.. usually they will get messy.. but good luck

 

[Lestat]

good luck man

 

[SoKlueles]

or they do

or they dont

well i am good at that u know

 

[chesty]

at this point better than noyhing at all

 

[ceo]

fuck buddies rule

Yes they do, sir!

 

[jaded]

Good luck.

 

[*MissFit*]

one always ends up wanting more than the other... as idea.. it's great.. but....

Yes they do, sir!

 

[chesty]

yeah well you reap what you sow. And if you are into sleeping around whenever the opportunity presents itself and will not ask your partner to be faithful to you when you have a relationship with them, then you will always be a fuck buddy.

And in the end you will have passed up many opportunities for an outstanding relationship with someone because when you tell them if your gonna cheat just don't tell me about it that immediately tells the other person you already are doing that or will. It is no longer a question of if.

So again, if that is you then you are reduced to a fuck doll and will never have the type of meaningful life or relationship that you seek. You will always be hurt and will always hurt. In the end you might as well get paid for it. At least make some green

As for a fuck buddy, I would still wan them to keep between me and her only. Main reason is there is too much shit out there that can kill you or fuck you up. Doesn't matter how well the protection you will get it. So, if you want to sleep around at every opportunity that presents itself. I don't need you for a fuck buddy. I got lefty and right for that shit.

 

[Gambino]

mark my words, this gal is gonna start dating someone else. all the indications are there bor

 

[Choderboy]

good luck

 

[chesty]

yep your right. She was like go date, whatever, if you have sex with someone just don't tell me about it. It isn't gonna change how I feel about you. So she asked me what I thought and I told her straight up.

"you said that we were not breaking up, but that you needed to get back on track with god and to make sure your kids were stabilized because of your ex leaving. So the way I see it you have acknowledged you still love me (she agreed to that) but that you needed to put it on hold till those other things are squared away. So the way I see it is this. I will still be faithful until you tell me to go away (puts it in her corner) and I would expect the same from you. However, if you feel you have to go elsewhere for sex as opposed to me then you have your answer already. It would be over. So, if that is what you want to do then at lest tell me to my face before you do it.

She has called me a lot more tonight than usual and has been rather nice and acting like it was a few weeks ago. I think I struck a nerve with her. She may be good, but not so good that I won't require faithfulness until such time as she says that it is over.

however it goes, I ain't gonna wait for the cows to come home. If I am there when she gets her act together lucky her, if not oh well, she will know she lost out.

I hate dating and relationships. Too much damned work. Marine boot camp was easier than this chick. She is the challange of a life time.

 

[Raptorex]

^^^
Any cliff notes?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Sounds like you can talk yourself into just about anything if you just keep rationalizing.

You are definitely in the wrong line of work. You should be in sales or politics.

 

[chesty]

fuck no! I hates sales.
I am steering her to make up her own damned mind. I know what I want and I know how long I will wait. I played that game once and I ain't gonna play it again.

She wants to end it she has to say so. She isn't passing the buck to me like she has with others.

In the meantime, I just go to work, make money and chill with my kids. I ain't sweatin any over her. She started she can end it. Right now I am along for the ride.

She wants a fuck buddy for now she can have it, but you wanna share I won't. Too many diseases out there to sharing like that.

You seem to have gotten very cynical in your age? What happened? Plus you seem to really not like men much.

 

[biteme]

I think. She says were not through, but can only think of us as friend at the moment until her bearings are back and such.

On a side note she wants to continue the physical relationship and just keep the feelings in check until she is ready to deal with them.

I think I have my first fuck buddy.

I envy you sir. I would kill to have something like that. Well, almost.

 

[chesty]

so far it appears golden. we shall see.

 

[dirty~d~]

Dude, why are you still giving her the time of day? You're doing exactly what I warned you not to do and what you said you wouldn't do with this woman. Get out of it now while you can. Find someone who isn't going to put you on the back burner until it's convenient for her to have you in her life.

 

[seizer]

[/QUOTE]Hmm no.. things can't work like that...well.. usually they will get messy.. but good luck

yes, yes they do get quite messy...but isnt that the point?


...keep them towels handy

 

[Meantime1]

Sorry i have to say something here, reading your post and reading your messages, u sound like the kind of man, who needs to be in a relationship, to feel complete, if soo i find that VERY VERY SAD.
In life U there should be no need for a particular other in order for you to experience, fully who you are, and without another you are nothing.

There is something great about knowing that my only job is to be happy as i can be about my life, and feel as good as i can about myself, and lead as full and eventful a life as i can, so that it doesn't ever feel like i'm waiting around for some girl to ask/commit to me. And most importantly, it's good for us all to remember that we dont need a scheme and plot or beg anyone to ask us out, We're fantastic

yep your right. She was like go date, whatever, if you have sex with someone just don't tell me about it. It isn't gonna change how I feel about you. So she asked me what I thought and I told her straight up.

"you said that we were not breaking up, but that you needed to get back on track with god and to make sure your kids were stabilized because of your ex leaving. So the way I see it you have acknowledged you still love me (she agreed to that) but that you needed to put it on hold till those other things are squared away. So the way I see it is this. I will still be faithful until you tell me to go away (puts it in her corner) and I would expect the same from you. However, if you feel you have to go elsewhere for sex as opposed to me then you have your answer already. It would be over. So, if that is what you want to do then at lest tell me to my face before you do it.

She has called me a lot more tonight than usual and has been rather nice and acting like it was a few weeks ago. I think I struck a nerve with her. She may be good, but not so good that I won't require faithfulness until such time as she says that it is over.

however it goes, I ain't gonna wait for the cows to come home. If I am there when she gets her act together lucky her, if not oh well, she will know she lost out.

I hate dating and relationships. Too much damned work. Marine boot camp was easier than this chick. She is the challange of a life time.

 

[BrothaBill]

one always ends up wanting more than the other... as idea.. it's great.. but....

Yup, its like Marxism, it looks good on paper...

 

[Bikini Mod]

fuck no! I hates sales.
I am steering her to make up her own damned mind. I know what I want and I know how long I will wait. I played that game once and I ain't gonna play it again.

She wants to end it she has to say so. She isn't passing the buck to me like she has with others.

In the meantime, I just go to work, make money and chill with my kids. I ain't sweatin any over her. She started she can end it. Right now I am along for the ride.

She wants a fuck buddy for now she can have it, but you wanna share I won't. Too many diseases out there to sharing like that.

Sounds to me like you are selling yourself pretty hard just now.

A fuckbuddy by definition means that you DO share. You just dont talk about it. It is implied.

You seem to have gotten very cynical in your age? What happened? Plus you seem to really not like men much.

I just cant stand liars. Character default.

As for me not liking men, that was always utter bullshit.

My issue is not with gender - it is with assholes. I am bright enough to realize that "assholitis" is not a gender-specific illness.

 

[chesty]

I think you all are jealous. Besides, I got nothing better to do in my spare time.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I think you all are jealous. Besides, I got nothing better to do in my spare time.

Jealous? Of what?

You say on the one hand that you LOVE this girl but then you say you dont give a shit about her, then you say that she is a fuckbuddy, but then you say you expect her to "remain faithfull to you", but then you say you aren't sweating it, but then you post all these threads about it where you try to talk yourself into thinking that this situation isnt fucked up, but then you say that you got nothing better to do in your spare time.

Sales and/or politics.... I am thinking DEFINITELY politics.

 

[ManOfArms]

I think. She says were not through, but can only think of us as friend at the moment until her bearings are back and such.

On a side note she wants to continue the physical relationship and just keep the feelings in check until she is ready to deal with them.

I think I have my first fuck buddy.

Seriosly bro, I'd just put it behind me and look for someone else. These types of relationships are just too complicated for me and I also hate drama.

Good luck.

 

[chesty]

no drama, gotta love this board.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

you know how to pick 'em

 

[chesty]

Yeah, the funny part is I thought she had red hair and it is really brown. Go figure.