I think I'm screwed

[distanced]

tonight bros, I went to an after hours party with a bunch of guys and one girl. We watched a movie, and the girl layed on my shoulder the whole time. I kissed her shoulder a bit and she kissed mine. We were both a bit drunk. Well, her best friend is the one I really would love to get to know since she is the sweetest thing I've met since I've moved here. let me know what you guys think my options still are since I cudled with her best friend the other night. I really don't know how to approach it now.

 

[WODIN]

Your goal should be to get them both in bed with you at the same time.

 

[distanced]

come on bro, I'm trying to be serious. I don't play around.

 

[WODIN]

Just ask the one you are interested in out and try your best to explain the situation. Be honest. That's really all you have here.

If she says no, then at least you tried.

 

[Big Johnson]

Don't panic. Its not like you cheated on her or anything. I'd just go with the flow and see were it takes you.

Has the sweet girl shown any interest in you?

 

[distanced]

actually yes, I couldn't believe it. a sort of boy friend of hers was even there. every time we were standing next to each other, our hands would meet and fingers would inter-twine for a few seconds.

 

[sigweed]

MY GOD!!! YOU CUDDLED AND KISSED HER SHOULDER?!?!?!?

dude I hope you're going to propose soon, or else she's gonna get pissed.

 

[Bullit]

MY GOD!!! YOU CUDDLED AND KISSED HER SHOULDER?!?!?!?

dude I hope you're going to propose soon, or else she's gonna get pissed.

 

[distanced]

so I take things slow
that's cool too

 

[Big Anaconda]

Dude it really doesnt sound like you have much to worry about, especially if the sweet girl was showing interest.

 

[2Thick]

every time we were standing next to each other, our hands would meet and fingers would inter-twine for a few seconds.

 

[CollegeKid]

i have first hand experience with what you may be goin through. a while back the same thing happened to me, i drunkenly cuddled/showed interest in this girl, who happened to be best friends with a girl i was REALLY into. the one i didnt really want ended up pursuing me, even though i tried expressing that i wanted the other one. so i tried to play them both. did NOT work. ended up with both hating me.

girls don't like it when you try to create a menage-a-trois between best friends.

 

[sigweed]

i have first hand experience with what you may be goin through. a while back the same thing happened to me, i drunkenly cuddled/showed interest in this girl, who happened to be best friends with a girl i was REALLY into. the one i didnt really want ended up pursuing me, even though i tried expressing that i wanted the other one. so i tried to play them both. did NOT work. ended up with both hating me.

girls don't like it when you try to create a menage-a-trois between best friends.

lol story of my life
i seem to get taken advantage of a lot when i drink...

 

[distanced]

yeah, that's exactly what happened. she left me a voicemail today also.......urrrrrrr. this sucks

 

[velvett]

Awwwwwwwwwww
that's so cute.


I miss that stuff.




My first thought was, yah you're screwed but actually you're not and I'll show you why.

a sort of boy friend of hers was even there. every time we were standing next to each other, our hands would meet and fingers would inter-twine for a few seconds.

A *sort of boyfriend* and a cuddle with a best friend kind evens out the picture.

Just make sure you don't be come a *sort of boyfriend* because then maybe you should kept cuddling with the best friend.